Welcome to yet another edition of Beyond the DD, where I write about my life as a woman with breasts that… outsize much of the competition. This is a series about Big Boob Problems, and the joys and sorrows that come with accepting your body as it is–even if it’s something that’s considered desirable.

If you’ve been with me since Part 1, we’ve unveiled how I got here, and invasive staring in Part 2. Today I am ready to discuss the more practical aspects of a simultaneously BIG and small part of my life.

While owning a spectacular set of breasts, it does come with a number of negative aspects that cannot be ignored, along with the positive. Today, I am going to unpack impacts on physical and mental health surrounding the …”support” of big ol’ honker ownership; Pain, Surgery, and Self-Acceptance.

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Big Boob Problems – They’re a Pain

Many of us, myself included, spent time in their teenage years wishing for larger breasts. This was practically a rite of passage in the 90s. Little did I realize, back when I was wielding lil’ b-cups, that I would end up as an all-natural anomaly; a top-heavy princess with a spine that grapples with the weight it must bear.

Specifically, this pair is a pain in my neck and shoulder muscles. I frequently wince, whenever I see feminists discuss how we should all go bra-less. My poor neck! My poor spine! 😣 “Not me,” I beg. I like to keep these things lovingly packed away, so my shoulders aren’t bearing the load.

When I am not manning the “equipment” properly, I am left in sizeable amounts of pain. My left shoulder seems to struggle the most, but my spine as a whole has left chiropractors aghast, wondering exactly what’s happened to me.

Sirs, I’m sorry. But can you NOT see what you’re dealing with? As one can imagine, manning the equipment involves costly materials one cannot simply just purchase as the local department store.

Big Boob Problems – Bras are Spendy

While I adore the fashionable designs from Curvy Kate, and I am able to find bras in sister sizes that function properly, even though not every bra suits every occasion. This fact is far more apparent, when you have larger breasts.

Some clothes just look ridiculous, in a bra that prioritizes fashion. They’re never quite cut right. Many of them designed for larger gals offer FULL coverage, which doesn’t even look good under a t-shirt.

While proper sizing works to make my hourglass more apparent, sometimes I just don’t want all the attention. They always keep my breasts festooned beautifully, in their full glory, as God intended. They’re front-and-center and begging to be seen.

While it may be fun to show off once in a while, most of the time these things just get in the way. Thus I have resorted to several means to control them appropriately, depending on the circumstances.

Minimizers Are a Godsend

Many days–particularly in polite company–I prefer to wear a minimizing bra. This may sound uncomfortable, but you’re going to have to hear me out. Especially if you’re a big boobied lady, yourself!

Minimizer bras are by far the most flexible item in my lingerie chest. Not only does the right minimizer still look good under most clothes, but it is not a totally miserable experience. Though, I will say, minimizing bras are the only reason I have begin to understand why women love taking their bras off at the end of the day. However, these bad boys can take about 3-4 inches off the width of my bustline! 😱

Be that as it may, I value what they add to my overall look and figure. As for day-to-day comfort, I keep them strapped down and out of my business with sports bras. Even then, they don’t always offer the support necessary to keep my shoulders from straining. Sometimes, I require reinforcements in the form of a second sports bra. Or simply putting on a regular, uncomfortable bra.

It can be a sensory nightmare. 😅

Big Boob Problems – What About Breast Reduction?

Those who have loved me intimately preferred for me to keep such sizeable mounds, as I have entertained the idea of surgery. The truth, however, is quite simple; I am not ready to part with them.

They may be a pain, they may get in the way, but it’s my BODY. These breasts are mine, and I love them just like I love the other parts of myself that make me, ME.

While I have had both major and minor surgeries in my life, voluntary surgery is not something I have the time or energy to recover from. Not to mention, if you read Part 1 of this series, you’ll know I have a number of health issues that may make healing and recovery a far more arduous journey, than it would if I was a fully healthy person.

Accepting The Problems & My Body

While they may be a pain, and they may be worth a reduction, it is up to me to maintain my health with my naturally gifted body. This is why I must maintain a strong back, and why I must eat healthily as an adult, to keep my bones in tip-top shape.

Part of self-acceptance sometimes means accepting things that are inconvenient. While I may have once wished to own two luscious mounds of joy upon my chest, actually developing them has taught me a crucial life lesson: “Be Careful What You Wish For, Because You Just Might Get It”!

We’re about to go on a journey led by director Perlita León, in SEXTAPE, an Erika Lust Original. I saw this release in my members area and didn’t hesitate to bring this to the Peach Kisser table. This was an unexpected delight, dribbling in lesbian mischief. I will note, however, that this scene is in Spanish. I believe that sex needs no translation; but if you prefer to follow storylines, language may be a barrier.

However, I’d like to invite you to break past that barrier. This is an inviting scene starring Valentina (Selva Lapiedra) who is already a famed starlet, but she is craving more. Not knowing what her next step should be, Maria (Sofia Laone) enters and changes the ganme. Maria helps her make a naughty decision that could have a wild fallout. As soon as she whips out the tape recorder, Valentina and Maria create a thrilling performance that becomes a real life confession.

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Unpacking Sofia Laone & Selva Lapiedra

This is my first time experiencing this pair, and they’re deeply sensual with natural beauty. Sofia Laone and Selva Lapiedra are both striking Latinas, with vastly different looks. As such, they’re a gorgeous pair. Their performance in this scene was sensually fulfilling and delightful, as they explore pleasure together, intended for a different audience.

Setting the Scene – SEXTAPE, Erika Lust

This is a scene ripe with erotic bliss. It feels like watching a foreign film, and I suppose it is. However, that creates an added and unexpected appeal as we explore the desires of two women unfolding before us.

The scene oscillates between being realistically 4K, and enjoying the video output from the camcorder. This is a unique twist on social norms in a story we’ve seen over and over with the likes of Kim Kardashian, Paris Hilton, and anyone else who thought they’d release a sex tape as a fast track to expansive fame.

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With beautiful cinematography, we’re set to enjoy two women melting into each other, in exactly the way you’d expect a sex tape to begin. You’ll alternate between camcorder POV and 4K, giving you a taste of everything, as Maria gets her first tastes of Victoria–dribbling spit and all.

The sex is consensual as it is steamy, as the pair heats up, breathlessly advising each other on what to expect next, whether it be simply inserting fingers or toys. Between their sopping lips and penetrating pleasure, the action simply continues from moment to moment. The two mischievous beauties continue their naughty camera work, getting more and more engrossed in their orgasmic antics. They start to focus more on giving each other thrills and orgasms from moment to moment, smiling into the camera with euphoric glee.

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Final thoughts

This was a scene that was deeply erotic. Personally, I think that the scene being shot in Spanish makes it even sexier–but that’s up to you to decide! Perhaps I am biased.

The steamy sensual take on consent makes the scene something you’ll be squirming into your seat to, right along with the talent. This scene is a delectable mix of the seediness of a sex tape, and the erotic visual pleasure you only get from porn scenes for women.

Similar to the apple’s symbolic status in Christianity, Mango is a fruit with many stories surrounding its significance as a spiritual symbol within the Hindu religion. Except rather than sin, the sacred fruit is more strongly associated with love, pleasure, happiness and prosperity. 🥭

Hindu mythology is robust with stories that deserve to be told at a grand scale–at least as much as any others. In many of these spiritual stories and depictions, the mango holds a place of reverence, influencing the culture as a whole.

While highly regarded as the King of Fruits, the beloved drupe is highly celebrated throughout India and beloved the world over. As a Mexican-American, I am known to indulge in the succulent flesh of a perfectly ripe mango. Even just consuming it, is an erotic experience unto itself. This is a concept we will explore more deeply today, while uncovering religious concepts and more.

Regarded as a symbol of love, fertility and prosperity, the mango has transcended to become embody erotic pleasures, as enjoyed by the gods. And who wouldn’t want pleasure worthy of the gods?

Mythological Origins and Associations

The influence of the mango is quite apparent, when studying its influence on scriptures and folklore. The mango is native to the entirety of the India-Burma-Malaysia region, and thus is grown in abundance. In Hinduism, the fruit is considered extremely sacred, with many pieces of folklore and legends including the fruit. The mango is even mentioned in critical and ancient pieces of literature. Specifically it’s mentioned in the Ramayana and Mahabharata; these are epic poems, which are thousands of years old.

The mango tree itself was believed to be of divine origin, and associated with the Hindu God of Love and Desire, Kamadeva. Legends told of Kamadeva using the mango flower to create an intoxicating fragrance, which aroused the passions of the other deities. Kamadeva, similarly to Cupid, even employs a bow made from mango wood to ignite desire. 🔥

This association with Kamadeva links the mango to the concept of ‘Madhurya,’ or sweetness. This is a concept that extends beyond the taste of sweetness, encompassing love, beauty and bliss. And I think that’s beautiful.

Mangoes are so much more than. agesture of goodwill and love. When worshipping in temples, mangoes are offered to deities. This is a religious offering known as ‘prasadam’. As a sacred gift, it’s later distributed to devotees, so as not to waste the fruit.

Sharing this fruit with others is seen as fostering joy and spiritual fulfillment, beyond the erotic pleasures of the divine. Some may call it “sweet”. ☺️

Mango Hindu Religion – Rituals and Traditions

As we’ve covered so far, mango’s influence was not confined to the bounds of mythology. They have been seen in various rituals and traditions, like in weddings, as gifts bound in superstition, and as offerings to the gods. Mango leaves are also used in decorations, like garlands called “torans,” and to decorate the bride’s entrance to symbolize fertility and what she will bring to married life.

Mangoes are frequently seen throughout wedding ceremonies. In some cases, a bride may wear a mango leaf in her hair, which symbolizes fertility and sweetness. In some cases, newlyweds are fed mangoes to bless them with a passionate union, ifyouknowwhati’msayin.

Stories and Legends

There are many stories and legends I encountered, upon learning more about the fruit of desire. One of the more common legends involves the god Krishna, and his spiritually enduring romance with Radha. They have a bond that had endured since they were children, with the mango being a symbolic gesture between them. While they were not married, they were portrayed as a couple bound beyond the earthly realm.

As some of their stories foretold, Krishma was a mischievous and amorous boy. It was wait that he had playfully stolen mangoes to give to Radha, signifying his love and desire for her. The mango, thus, continues to appear as a symbol of their celestial romance, embodying the joy and ecstasy of love.

They’re even frequently portrayed under a mango tree, enjoying the joy of their bond together.

While there are dozens of tales, it’s impossible to cover them in a single blog post. If you’re interested in more mango storytelling, please comment on this post below!

On Mangoes and Pleasure – Let’s talk ‘Kama’

Kama is actually a really fascinating concept, unto itself, and it’s a small part of the overall eroticism of the mango itself. Also, it’s another concept I feel should be more widely promoted, as an eroticist. Be that as it may, you’re probably familiar with the Kama Sutra.

Kama itself is a reference to the aforementioned god of love, Kamadeva. Expanding upon kama as a concept is crucial in understanding the full connection between love and mangoes. ‘Kama’ is a term that is used to refer to creating desire.

Bear with me for a second–think of Kama like the present day art of thirst trapping. Broadly, kama refers to anything that may stimulate sensual desire, aesthetically or physically. This could be in the form of passions, pleasures, artforms, and beyond.

So, next time you feel a little more stimulated than usual, by that cutie on Insta? Kama, baby.

Have a Mango With Me

Going beyond the sweetness of mango, there is so much more to its sensual roots than the way it drips between your cleavage as you eat it (No? Just me?). That’s another blog, altogether.

There are over 1,000 varieties of mangoes–how many have you tried? This divine fruit is enjoyed around the world, in dozens of ways. Mango, a vessel of eroticism, is a fruit worthy of the gods–so that means it’s more than good enough for me.

While there are so many stories to be told, I’ll have to save that for yet another edition of Eros & Edibles–I couldn’t possibly contain it all in one post! Celebrate the Mango with me this Spring, and let me know if you learned anything on my social media!

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First-Hand Use

When I first laid eyes on this magnificent piece of engineering, I’ll admit my skepticism. Having been let down by tongue toys in the past, I was preparing myself for another lackluster experience. But, oh how wrong I was! This little powerhouse is a gem among those in my collection!

The manufacturer has managed to harmoniously integrate four distinct features, 10 vibration modes, and a tongue that thrusts with a mind of its own. The function is crafted to hit all the right spots, and believe me, it delivers.

Upon first contact, the toy’s tongue-thrusting motion took me by surprise. It’s as if it knew exactly where to hit. Combine this with the varied vibration modes, and you’ve got a symphony of sensations that dance together your most sensitive areas. The licking feature? It’s pure vibration, like any other rabbit vibrator. It does feel quite nice, but the real pleasure is in the penetration.

The tongue action is realistic and persistent, but I have yet to find a toy that truly delivers the experience of a real, skileld partner. This is still acceptably powerful and pleasurable! The fact that it is waterproof means that playtime can happen anywhere. Post-use clean-up is easy, ensuring that maintenance doesn’t become a chore.

Stay sexy, stay satisfied, and as always, keep exploring the heights of your own pleasure.

Sometimes we’re struck with epiphanies throughout our healing processes, that help facilitate alleviating the heavy load you bear while healing from traumatic relationships. The process of healing seems to stagnate, until one day you have a new realization that’s been buried, and waiting for discovery. Recently I was struck with one such epiphany that hit me like a load of bricks:

I thought to myself, “Would they have been MEMORABLE if he didn’t ABUSE me?” Then, I took a deep, raggedy breath.

At that moment, I felt a flood of chemicals flowing into my brain. I continued my train of thoughts: “Did he even have anything to offer aside from the abuse?” In my experience, he did not. Once that epiphany flooded my sensibilities, I felt slightly more free from the suffocation from this particular trauma.

This isn’t always the case, but for many of us, it takes a shift in perspective to break-free from the trauma we’ve experienced.

Healing from Traumatic Relationships – Reconciling My Abuser

Many of us, who have experienced trauma from an abusive romantic relationship, struggle to break free of the pain that was inflicted upon us. In some cases, we retain a level of attachment to our abusers, When you realize you chose to overlook their flaws to see the good in them, you’re realize even moreso that you lowered your standards for them.

In my experience, I definitely lowered my standards to be with someone. When I entered this particular former relationship, I was in an extremely dark place after a total heartbreak, with someone who also didn’t deserve me.

My self-esteem was in hell.

Looking back, it was worse than I realized. This person seemed like he wanted to bring me joy. We had so much fun together! We moved so quickly, that I was barely able to catch my breath before I found myself knee deep in emotional commitment.

I was trapped. I stopped going out. The abuse was so egregious–and so frequent–it caused the autoimmune disease I already had to go measurably out of control, from the enormous stress. In fact, I’m still dealing with the impacts of this on my health, 4 years later.

When I had the aforementioned epiphany, I realized this man had absolutely nothing to offer! He really ended up being no more than a step above a “hobosexual”. He wasn’t attractive to begin with, and then he had gained a substantial amount of weight. It made him feel worse about himself than he already did. We couldn’t even have sex anymore, due to both his weight and his self-esteem! He didn’t cook, didn’t clean, stayed underemployed, and didn’t even help with his own child that would visit us.

Couldn’t he have at least been good to look at?! 🤣

You weren’t played, like you may think.

Abusive people rarely show their true colors from the start. You didn’t deserve the abuse, but you do deserve to heal, to love yourself, and to find happiness. Let’s acknowledge that you were strong enough to survive, and move forward.

Finding Love After Trauma

Healing from traumatic relationships is a messy, dirty business. Healing on purpose is a true act of self-love. When it feels like you’re trudging through the mud of traumatic memories, it can feel quite crushing. But then, something-or someone!-comes along and jolts you awake, forcing you to confront the darkness head-on.

There are a few things to consider, when it comes to loving yourself and others again.

• Practicing self-love is crucial. If you’re struggling on the path to self-love, please check out my blog How To Practice Self-Love, Even When You Can’t, to learn how to help get started in creating healthier brain patterns.
• Trusting someone will feel like dying; but you’re not. Learning what the red flags are of an abusive person is important, but try not to do the “shoot first; ask questions later” thing. That is never productive, and can harm more than it heals.
• Healing from traumatic relationships will take longer than you think; but that’s okay. You still deserve love!
• If a relationship is your end goal, you should be aware that some parts of healing can only occur when you’re actively in a relationship. The reason being is that when you’re single, there is no one capable of pushing the buttons your former partner used to push.

Sometimes, all it takes is a moment of clarity to realize just how utterly insignificant they truly are and were.

Healing is a work-in-progress, but it’s also a conscious decision. At least, it has been for me. I’ve been through therapy, I read books, deconstructed brain patterns, and actively worked to give myself the love I deserved.

Clearing The Brain Fog

When you’re healing from trauma, suddenly, something may shift. You may wake up, the fog will lift and grant you clarity you needed to move forward. This realization was both humbling and empowering for me, which awakened me to the true nature of my abuser.

You still have to unpack the trauma, and lick the wounds that have been festering for so long. Think of minimizing your abuser as a radical tool for reframing abuse – a gift that can help you rise above the pain. Like a fleeting orgasm, their power over us dissipates, leaving behind a sense of our own strength and safety. And maybe a little euphoria. 😉

I want you to know that it’s not your fault. You didn’t ask to be hurt, used, and have your feelings discarded. You were taken advantage of, and that’s not something to be ashamed of; it’s a testament to your heart.

There’s nothing quite like a wedding to inspire a lot of emotions in yourself and in others around you. These wild dynamics are fascinatingly captured, in this whirlwind narrative spun by an incredible artist like Erika Lust, who poured herself in the film, “The Wedding” on Lust Cinema.

While I build my reviews on this website, I realize that I have not reviewed many feature films. As a writer and reviewer, I enjoy providing content from adult companies with ethics and real storytelling. This is the kind of work I feel is impactful and at least as thrilling as a well-executed romance novel.

“The Wedding” is cited as their most ambitious film to date, which made me even more excited to tuck in, and enjoy the movie. So make sure to carve out an hour and a half for this feature!

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Cast: Nicole Kitt, Dante Colle, Panterino, Maria Riot, Andi James, Jason Steel, Romy Furie, and Jade Kush.

While there is an all-star cast that keeps this movie moving from the moment it begins, I am not going to go into deep detail for each talent. The cast is full of heavy hitters in the industry and some people who are new to me. However, I do want to highlight the leads, because they’re a couple of my favorite performers in the industry.

The Wedding – Talent:

Nicole Kitt

Nicole plays Diana, the bride in The Wedding. Goodness gracious. I first noticed Nicole Kitt many years ago, when she worked for a company I worked for. We shot a few scenes with her, and I couldn’t help but notice her outrageous beauty. She’s classically beautiful, with a figure so fit, yet soft; a portrait of statuesque elegance. I have always enjoyed her enthusiastic performances, and was so excited to tuck into a new scene with her at the helm.

Dante Colle

Dante is so irresistibly handsome. He’s certainly one of my favorites and has rapidly gained popularity in the industry. He’s such a flexible performer, being proudly pansexual, with other stars practically glowing when they talk about him. Dante is a rare talent, and his passion is palpable.

Synopsis

We are met with a number of surprises with this scene, even from the beginning. The Wedding builds on a story, that begins at a bustling wedding with colorful characters.

In an array of twists and turns, we’re treated to a deeply delightful take on relationships, pansexuality, polyamory, and pleasure.

The Wedding by Erika Lust is centered on Diana (Nicole Kitt) and Lucas (Dante Colle) on their wedding day. They encounter a few unexpected interactions and surprises that lead them (and their guests) on a non-traditional wedding day that is full of pleasure in the most surprising ways.

Their special day is as beautiful, and as non-traditional as the couple themselves. They’re surrounded by their friends and, sometimes problematic, family. This film covers several stories along the way that are bound to titillate and keep you stimulated through the film, which has many elements of a rom-com, and a touch of relatable cliches.

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The Action

Since this is a feature film, you can expect much more sex to be had than a typical scene, as there are many more storylines to consider, more paths to cross, and more time to fill.

Lust did an exceptional job keeping the story moving in a way that felt organic and exhilarating. Think of it as 5 wildly hot scenes that are tied together with twisting storylines designed to keep our cast of characters intertwined. The film features multiple sex scenes that are equally steamy, with creative introductions that led them to raw orgasms.

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Diana (Nicole Kitt) & Lucas (Dante Colle)

Naturally, as the featured couple, this casting had to be perfect. Their chemistry sizzles, as the pair passionately giggles as they consummate their marriage.

The way they flirt, the way they rip each other’s clothes off, it’s beautiful. He even takes special time to undo her corset! As women, we understand the reality behind this, and it’s demonstrated so organically, and pulls it over her head while they giggle together. It feels safe and intimate from the get-go. Moreover, I loved the attention to detail of couplehood, when Diana teases him with a breathy, “Fuck I hate when you tease me like that”.

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Diana & Melinda (Maria Riot)
When Diana steals away with Maria to ask a favor of her, she tempts her with tasty submission. Diana is excellent at convincing her with her tongue, even pulling out a portable vibrator to get the job done a little more efficiently.

The convenient toy? I had to search for it immediately and I found it! Well, I found something that was at least very similar; the Vesper by Crave, and now I want one for myself!

It’s wearable jewelry that only appears elegant. In actuality, it’s a vibrating toy that’s designed to keep with you to use on-the-go. Now I know what’s going on MY Wishlist.

Lucas and George (Panterino)
Brief but delicious, we learn crucial storyline plot points with this pairing. George got what he wanted from Lucas, and Lucas enjoyed yet another orgasm on his wedding day. George receives every bit of Dante’s cum in his mouth. Honestly if he doesn’t kiss you after this, RED FLAG! Dante, as one can assume, is full of green flags.

Jenna (Andi James) and Mick (Jason Steel)
Believe it or not, this pair makes for fantastic passion, enjoyably watching real pleasure, seeing Jenna watch “it” go in and out–it’s passionate art. The pair makes passionate love, having just met. I wasn’t even certain they introduced themselves, but they sure got it in, and finished with a beautiful explosion in Andi’s mouth.

Lexi (Jade Kush), Diana, and Sophie (Romy Furie)

Suddenly the story brings us to a point where we get to experience a fun, emotional and flirty all-girl threesome, that went from emotional discharge to raunchy thrills. They’re filled with sensual moans and more as we enjoy three beautiful women experiencing each other.

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With this wild twist, these three are the icing on the cake in this unconventional and steamy wedding. The final sex scene melts with creative fusion from the kitchen, as they use everything from tools and spatulas to penetrate each other and enjoy the flow of fluids from lips to lips.

This film is an exploratory fantasy come to life. With an all-star cast, The Wedding was a film worth indulging in. Full of themes demonstrating the depths of love, pansexuality, polyamory, and even a little bit of platonic love between in-laws.

Wanna break out of your shell? Are you tired of playing it safe and suppressing your inner sass? Do you want to tap into your inner seductress and manifest a life that’s full of passion, power, and pleasure? Then it’s time to help you find your inner Jezebel. Let’s talk about how to create a vision board, to grow your fierce sensuality.

Who was Jezebel, anyway?

Jezebel was a biblical bad girl, known for her fierce independence, her love of luxury, and her unapologetic sensuality. She was a queen who refused to conform to societal norms, and instead, forged her own path. And that’s exactly what we’re going to tap into with this vision board – your inner Jezebel, the one who’s not afraid to take risks, to be bold, and to demand what she wants. Perhaps I should cover Jezebel in the next edition of Lust & Lore? Let me know in the comments!

Why Do I Need a Vision Board?

Wild women shouldn’t be tamed. As a huge fan of wild women, myself, I knew I wanted to be one. In a world that often tries to tame our wildness and stifle our desires, a vision board is a powerful tool to help you reclaim your inner Jezebel. If you’re a visual person, it helps you get clear on your vision.

A vision board is a visual representation of your desires–a collage of images, words, and textures that evoke feelings and emotions. By creating a vision board, you’re taking ownership of your outcomes. For this one, we are going to focus on your sensuality, celebrating your uniqueness, and manifesting a life that honors your deepest desires.

If nothing else, it’s a way to get a clear vision of what you want to be, or what you want to do. Sometimes we don’t know what we want, until we put it together and see it for ourselves!

How to Create a Vision Board to Find Your Inner Jezebel

Gather your materials:

• A large piece of cardboard, paper, or canvas
• Magazines, scissors, and glue
• Markers, paint, or colored pencils
• Photographs, fabrics, and other textures
• Any personal items that hold significance to your sensuality (e.g., a piece of lingerie, a rose petal, or a love letter)

Set Your Intention

Find a quiet, comfortable space where you can relax and tap into your inner world. Take a few deep breaths, and ask yourself: “What does my inner Jezebel look like? What does she want, and what does she deserve?” Allow your thoughts to flow, and write down your intentions.

Gather Your Inspiration

Flip through magazines, and cut out images that evoke feelings of sass, seduction, and empowerment. These can be images of strong women, luxurious settings, or sensual art. Collect words and phrases that resonate with your intentions, such as “unstoppable,” “fearless,” or “unapologetic.”

Create Your Vision Board

Begin arranging your images, words, and textures on your board. Group similar themes together, or create a flowing narrative that tells the story of your inner Jezebel’s journey. Add personal items that hold significance to your sensuality, and don’t be afraid to get creative with colors, shapes, and patterns.

Activate Your Board

Hang your vision board in a place where you’ll see it daily, such as your bedroom or meditation space. Take a few moments each day to gaze at your board, allowing the images and words to sink deep into your subconscious. Repeat your intentions out loud, and feel the energy of your inner Jezebel manifesting in your life.

Tips and Variations

• Create a digital vision board on Pinterest or Canva, and set it as your phone’s wallpaper or computer background.
• Invite friends over for a vision board party, and explore each other’s inner Jezebels.
• Update your vision board seasonally, reflecting your growth and evolution as a sensual being.

A vision board is a powerful tool to connect with your inner Jezebel, to manifest your desires, and to celebrate your unique sensuality. By embracing your inner Jezebel, you’re not only becoming the best version of yourself, but you’re also contributing to a world that honors and celebrates women’s power and sensuality. So, take the first step, and create a vision board today.