Welcome to Peach Kisser Sex Stories! We feature lesbian sex stories and so much more. Sweet Sapphic Sundaes is from the first person perspective, that unveils a romantic connection between two close friends. They fall into each other over Ice Cream Sundaes on a warm afternoon, and make their connection a bit sweeter. No ice cream required!

Sweet Sapphic Sundaes

Summer leads to laziness, as we avoid the heat of the sun. It was a long afternoon, and I was watching the sun drop lower in the sky, slowly hanging back to offer us it’s golden hues and I felt like I needed a little company today.

I had invited my friend Anna over to my place. I loved Anna. We’ve been friends for decades, with closeness that has long outlived any of our great loves. I haven’t seen her lately, and so I thought I’d invite her over for some ice cream. It’s warm, and I am wary of the “Sunday Scaries”, and am not ready to let the weekend go. I desperately needed company, and I thought we should have a little catch-up sesh, over ice cream.

Picking Up Where We Left Off

We always picked up where we left off, having been friends for so long. We’ve bonded over lost loves and pets. I’ve been stressed out at work, and miss having company. As Anna walked in, golden hour struck. Suddenly, my world was illuminated with her presence, and I watched as her beauty unfolded. How could you not admire her long, kinky curls glistening in the sunlight? She grinned her infections grin, and giggled her salacious giggle as I had always come to enjoy.

We’d long been accused of flirting. We greeted each other with a warm hug,and she embraced me deeply. Excited at her arrival–not quite processing her energy–I led her into the kitchen where I had already crafted my ideal ice cream bar! I had several ice cream flavors and toppings splayed out on the counter. This was a sweet masterpiece I was more than ready to create.

We began with our usual pleasantries as we giggled together, choosing our favorite toppings and hunger in our eyes. I went for good ol’ vanilla ice cream, with whipped cream and a generous scoop of hot fudge. She didn’t seem to have much organization with hers, topping strawberry ice cream with marshmallow fluff, oreo cookies, and caramel sauce.

“And you, my dear, need a cherry on top,” Anna said with a grin, as she topped our sundaes, each with a single cherry.

My kitchen was made warm, not by the heat of the Summer, but with our wild laughter as we teased each other.

As we sat at my kitchen bar, Anna’s demeanor shifted subtly. She smiled, but her energy was off. Her usual giggle-filled self seemed more contemplative than usual. I looked over to her with concern, and saw her visibly shudder.

“I have something to tell you,” she said, clearing her throat. Oh, god. What could she possibly have to say?! I felt the fear of anticipation bubbling up in my throat, as I waited for her to continue. “I decided that I would take this chance to make a confession: I have feelings for you. Real ones.”

The admission made the air thick. This was not something I anticipated, but I continued to process her words. Anna had feelings for me? The revelation struck me right in the chest. In my shock, I felt… a surprisingly welcome desire I didn’t realize laid beneath the surface.

I froze, stunned. Thank goodness she waited, between bites. I would have surely choked. Anna began searching my face for any positive sign. I didn’t have time to think, and time was moving so quickly. Or was it slow? I couldn’t tell. In a flurry of surprise emotions, I pressed my lips to hers.

The floodgates are open. She kisses back.

I feel my body full with pulsing joy. Our kisses became more and more impassioned, as we pulled each other closer. For the first time, I’m feeling her curves. I didn’t even know how much I was anticipating this moment.

We were suddenly more eager for each other than our ice cream. As it melted, we continued to melt into each other’s arms, enjoying the feel of intimacy we’ve never had before.

In a fit of passion, Anna reached for the chocolate sauce, and drizzled some upon her fingers. She slid her finger into my mouth, and asked, “would you like another taste?” I nodded, silently. Anna gave me another fingerful of chocolate, and something primal in me took over. I grabbed the bottle myself, as I raised her shirt over her head. That’s right, she never did wear a bra… I was now faced with her luscious breasts, with her nipples fully erect.

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“Are we really doing this?” I ask. Anna nodded with that wild grin, and giggled her sexy giggle before she kissed me deeply. She looked at me with a challenge in her eyes, as I playfully drizzled a little chocolate onto her chest.

“We might as well finish what we started, “ I say. The chocolate streamed between Anna’s breasts, highlighting her pale skin. I lapped it up gently. The taste of the rich, sweet sauce mingled with the saltiness of her skin, driving me wild with desire. I traced her skin with my tongue, finishing with a kiss as she began slipping off my top. lesbian sex stories

I sank to my knees in front of her, slipping off my bra to bare my breasts to her. She smiles as my heart beats faster. Anna moaned softly, her fingers threading through my hair as she urged me on.

As our sundaes melted, we frantically moved to the living room. We laid down upon the blankets in my plush couch, the world around us fading into insignificance. There was nothing more important than this, in this moment, as we lost ourselves. lesbian sex stories

Anna’s hands explored my body, sending warm sensations through my body. I reciprocated, my fingers tracing the contours of her body. We finished undressing each other, finally naked and in each other’s arms.

Since I have never seen her nude, I was in awe. I was struck by each curve and her perfect, puffy nipples. Anna was a vision, her body a new place to explore, with peaks and valleys destined to be savored. I worshipped her with my mouth and hands, engulfing her nipples in my mouth, as our desire grew.

She guided me on top of her, our bodies folding into each other perfectly. I reached between her legs, feeling her heat making my desire grow even further. I plunged my fingers into her wetness, kissing her as she joyfully gasped into my mouth.

We melded together, bodies in sync and passions flowing.

All I felt was Anna. All I could hear was Anna. We moved in sync, as she cried out with pleasure, slightly echoing in the room. Her body pulsed beneath me, as she surrendered to pleasure in my hands.

As we reached the peak, our bodies shuddered with pleasure. I made sure she came right into my hands, dripping with her ever flowing juices. This exploration of seeing Anna in a new light created swelling inside of me. I delighted in the euphoria of this newfound pleasure; I could see colors! It was as if we became enveloped in cosmic joy as we reached orgasm.

My beautiful Anna, naked in front of me and writhing with pleasure. As she released, I slipped my lips over her fully erect nipples making her cry out with glee, and a little giggle. She took a deep sigh and her body relaxed in my arms, chocolate stains and all.

Hungover with pleasure…

Anna looked at me, her eyes still filled with bold desire. “Shower with me?” she asked, her voice husky and charming, singing to me like a viola.

I nodded, unable to use my voice. We made our way to my shower, holding hands. We still hadn’t gotten off the orgasmic high, the pure newness of it all. I turned on the shower and led her in. We washed each other gently, removing the last bits of chocolate from our adventurous play.

As we stood there, our bodies pressed together, I thought to myself that Anna is now mine. This is something to be cared for, and to find joy and pleasure within. Anna and I had crossed a threshold, morphing our friendship into something far more expansive. Something beyond us, that we could nurture and grow. lesbian sex stories

We make our way out of the shower, and find each other’s bodies again. Now fresh and clean, I lead her to my bedroom to rest. By now, it’s already evening and growing later. Anna’s head is resting on my chest. Our ice cream sundaes might have melted into oblivion, and my “Sunday Scaries” disappeared into an extremely welcome, sticky mess. With a cherry on top.

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What is Ethical Porn? Well, it’s a whole lot of fun, I’ll tell you that much!

There is growing interest in a more ethical and inclusive approach in pornography, in recent years. The people are beginning to yearn for diverse looks and genders, and real bodies. That means there is a plethora of good porn being created with “real life” sensibilities in mind.

You may have heard about porn for women, feminist porn, or other “buzz” words. They all point in the same direction, creating an intersectionality between porn made with ethics in mind, and general diversity in content.

The Ethical Porn movement seeks to challenge the adult entertainment status quo, by offering up realistic, respectful porn with actors that are compensated fairly for their work.

Now that’s sexy.

What is Ethical Porn?

Ethical porn emphasizes fair labor practices, equal pay, and a safe working environment. This type of porn also seeks to represent diverse bodies, desires, and sexual experiences, moving away from the traditional, narrow, and often oppressive representations of women in mainstream porn.

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In my world, sex work is real work, and performers deserve to be compensated fairly for their talent, performance, and offering up their nude body for your gooning. Free porn is everywhere, but you really know nothing about the production.

Recognize the value of paying for porn. By supporting the right sites, you’re contributing to a more equitable and respectful industry. So pat yourself on the back, for supporting this erotic art form. You’re creating more demand, which means more productions to go around for everyone!

10 Great Ethical Porn Sites for Women

Here are some excellent ethical porn sites that prioritize performer welfare, diversity, and realistic representations of sexuality:

• Erika Lust: One of my favorite sites to review, with beautiful cinematic content that comes from the hearts and minds female directors.
• QueerCrush: Director Electra Rayne brings beautiful, unscripted stories to life, with a diverse cast and an all Sapphic team.
• CrashPadSeries: A queer, feminist porn site featuring a diverse cast of performers and a focus on consent and communication.
• PinkLabel.TV: Definitely one of my favorites on the list. This is a fair trade porn site showcasing hundreds of videos with a wide range of sexual experiences.
• BrightDesire: This site showcases a range of sexual experiences. This is a queer-heavy site, so if that’s your preference, you’ll absolutely love it here.
• Bellesa: Porn by Women, for real. They pull together sexy, passionate porn from other sites, to bring femme-friendly content you may not find otherwise.

Making the choice to consume ethical porn for women is an essential step towards a more inclusive and respectful adult entertainment industry. Remember that when you support these sites, you’re contributing to an environment conducive to welfare of the performers, diversity, and inclusivity.

If you would like to hear more about these sites, or would like me to review any specific scenes, please make a comment below, or find me on social media!

In the chaos we have been dealing with in the present day, it’s become more and more important to focus inward to help yourself maintain some semblance of humanity. We’re human, after all, and we all require a level of care to survive. When it comes to self-care, we often focus on the care itself being the things we don’t necessarily need.

Today, I am here to tell you that this is misguided. Self-care is also taking care of our needs, my friends.

While many of us focus on getting our nails done, having a spa day, eating a naughty little treat, or even just exercise; there’s another crucial aspect of self-care that’s often overlooked. That is our sexuality.

Today I want you to explore the art of sensual living with me, and learn more about how incorporating sensuality into our daily lives can lead to happier and more orgasmic experiences! A healthy and fulfilling sex life is essential to our overall well-being, so I am encouraging you to honor your sensual self.

Incorporating Sensuality into Everyday Activities

Sensuality is not just about sex. If you follow me on Threads, you know I talk about this frequently. Sensuality is about finding out what stimulates our senses and what gives us pleasure. This is highly individual but I am more than happy to provide a few tips to get you started.

Your personal sensuality can grow over time. Wanna start small? Here are a few ways to incorporate sensuality into your daily routine:

• Sensual Snacks: Indulge in foods that stimulate your senses, like juicy fruits, rich chocolates, or spicy cheeses. Savor each bite, and pay attention to the textures, smells, and tastes.
• Sexy Soundtracks: Put on music that makes you feel sexy and confident when you’re getting dressed or doing chores. ASMR recordings can also be a great way to unwind and tap into your sensual side.
• Self-Care Sundays: Set aside one day a week for self-care, and make it a sensual experience. Take a long, relaxing bath, give yourself a massage, or practice yoga while focusing on your breath and body.

By incorporating these small moments of sensuality into your daily life, you’ll start to feel more connected to your body and your desires.

If you want a more in-depth article, please check out my previous article about this: How-To: Sensual Self-Care; Add Sensuality to your Routines

The Importance of Mindfulness in Sensual Living

Mindfulness is the practice of being present in the moment. You won’t be good at this right away! Mindfulness is a skill, and it can also be developed over time. Mindfulness is essential for sensual living. When we’re mindful, we’re more aware of ourselves, in both our bodies and our thoughts. This is one way to foster a deeper connection to your body, when you may not have even given it much thought, before.

Loving oneself is a critical aspect of mindfulness and sensual living. When we love and accept ourselves, we’re more likely to feel comfortable in our own skin. That leads to less distractions like worrying about the pudge in your low belly, or how your boobs hang. 😉

And if you’re not thinking of all that, your mind has a whole lot more space to do things like focus on what’s hot, ready, and in front of you!

Mindfulness practices like meditation and deep breathing can help us cultivate self-love and self-acceptance. Remember, these are practices. You won’t be good at these things overnight! If you are looking for step-by-step guidance, let me know in the comments!

Here are a few ways mindfulness can impact orgasms:

• Increased Awareness: When we’re mindful, we’re more aware of our physical sensations.
• Reduced Stress: Mindfulness practices reduce stress, leading to less distractions.,
• Improved Communication: Mindfulness can help us communicate more effectively with our partners, building closer connections.

By incorporating mindfulness into our daily lives, we can cultivate a deeper connection with ourselves and our bodies, leading to a more sensual and fulfilling existence.

Tips for Creating a Sensual Environment at Home

Our environment can greatly impact our mood and our sensuality. Have you ever tried getting down in a roach-infested room? What about on a bed covered in food containers and books? Sorry kiddos–sex is an adult activity.

Once upon a gtime man who was 15 years my junior invited me to “come through”. 👀  While the offer may have been enticing to some cougars, I was immediately plagued with visions of beds on the floor, no linens, and a dirty bathroom. I thought, “I have linens, towels, candles, and a luxurious bathroom. Why would I want to visit some young man’s apartment?!”

I’m sorry–sex is just better when the environment is comfortable. I’m too old–and too fancy!–to lay on a mattress on the floor. Moreover, a sensual and inviting environment makes you feel a little bit more like your home is your personal oasis to enjoy. 

Here are a few tips for creating a sensual environment at home:

• Soft Lighting: Dim red lights, candles, or string lights can create a warm and inviting atmosphere. You don’t even need to use them all the time! I always keep candles around for this, because they have the added bonus of smelling delicious!
• Sensual Textures: Incorporate plush throw blankets, soft rugs, and comfortable pillows into your environment. Even if you’re not using your couch, it’s still more inviting with throw blankets or pillows on it. You may just end up hanging out on your couch more often!
• Sensual Scents: Use essential oils or scented candles to create a sensual and relaxing atmosphere. Aromatherapy is REAL! For relaxing I like a combination of palo santo, lavender, rose, and citrus scents!
• Comforting Sounds: Play soothing music in your evenings, as you wind down. I prefer music without words, to prevent distractions. Your mileage may vary.

By creating a sensual environment at home, you’ll be more likely to feel relaxed and comfortable. This can lead to stress reduction, a sense of personal joy, and it can certainly make you more comfortable and “ready” for your sensual proclivities!

What are your thoughts? How do you incorporate sensuality into your daily life, and what tips do you have for creating a sensual environment at home?

After writing my last Eros & Edibles piece on Chocolate as an Aphrodisiac, I was left with more questions about how chocolate came to be so heavily associated with sexual appetite and lust. Why is Chocolate Romantic and so associated with Sex and Love? Well, the answer isn’t quite as simple as you may expect!

While elbow deep in chocolate-knowledge, I discovered so many things I didn’t include in that article, because it simply didn’t fit. There are so many more interesting and unique facts surrounding chocolate’s sensual reputation, extending far back to the days when ancient civilizations thrived in Mesoamerica. 

As a Hispanic woman, I am quite familiar with the allure of the decadent treat. Mexican Hot Chocolate, adorned with the taste of cinnamon and ancho chiles, is a result of the deeply and spiritually rooted flavors that come from a plant that was once considered sacred.

Chocolate: From Bitter Water to Erotic Elixir

Chocolate is one food that people look at you as if you spouted an extra limb if you say you “don’t like” it. What’s wrong with you? Have you only had Hershey’s or something–it tastes like vomit! Chocolate has long enchanted each populatio throughout the ages, with its unctuous and silky texture; the result of processing invented by ancient civilizations.

Discovering the erotic and spiritual roots of this now ubiquitous treat has fostered more fascination in me, beyond just the libido boosting benefits. This is a discovery and celebration of the roots of “xocolatl”–or “bitter water”–better known today as Chocolate!

Where Does Chocolate Come From?

Chocolate is deeply rich and silky, tantalizing the tastebuds and leaving us with a high level of satisfaction for a number of reasons. However, this treat has an extensive ancient history.

Chocolate originated in Mesoamerica over 4000 years ago, and was first turned into a drink by the Olmecs of Mesoamerica. Their bitter brew, made with cacao beans they processed themselves, was a revelation to ancient societies. Not only for its incomparable flavor, but for the symbolism in which cacao was bestowed upon these civilizations.

These Mesoamerican civilizations held chocolate, known to them as “xocolatl,” in high regard. They recognized its potential to elevate mood and incite desire, as they sipped upon this sacred liquid.

How was Xocolatl Used?

The Aztecs and the Mayans were particularly famous for their xocolatl rituals. They believed this was a gift from divinity. Consumption of xocolatl was usually reserved for nobility, and served also in religious ceremonies and weddings, where lower classes were also able to enjoy the sacred elixir. 

Cacao was Considered Divine

The Mayans held chocolate in a high regard, and called it the “Drink of the Gods”. Mayans poured this mixture from one pot to another, creating a thick foamy beverage called “xocolatl”, meaning “bitter water.” Mayan chocolate was a revered brew made of roasted and ground cacao seeds mixed with chilies, water and cornmeal.

This bitter water was so much more than a beverage. This was a gift from the gods, and they believed that this plant had medicinal qualities, contributing to energy levels through compounds such as theobromine, They saw it not merely as a beverage but as a gift from feathered-serpent deity Quetzalcoatl, bestowing vitality and passion upon those who partook in its divine essence

Quetzalcoatl is a Toltec name for a Mesoamerican God who represented a variety of pleasures they enjoyed, including salubrious health, love, sex, food, and general agriculture.  

In addition to the civilizations that came before them, the Aztecs adopted the idea from the Maya, that cacao was a god-given fruit. They used cacao beans as a commodity, considering them as valuable as Spaniards saw Gold. Additionally, they followed the tradition of preparing chocolate as a drink in rich cultural rituals, and were particularly entranced by chocolate’s libido enhancement properties. 

Who Brought Chocolate To Europe?

The enchantment of chocolate has captivated the human palate for centuries, and it’s only grown ever since it expanded beyond its Mesoamerican roots. These days, what was once viewed as a luxury, and as valuable as gold, is now available for a couple of bucks at your local convenience store.

Chocolate made its way to Spain via means of the explorer Hernán Cortés, who was searching for gold. He was surprised to be presented with an abundance of cacao beans. 

Chocolate: From Currency to a Commodity

When Cortes came to meet with the Aztecs, he was on a conquest for gold. Evidently, he was shown cacao beans instead. This is a testament to the value the Mayans–and subsequently the Aztecs–placed on cacao. Cacao was used as currency, as well as a sacred drink for rituals and extravagant events.

Initially Spaniards didn’t think much of cacao. Mixing these ground beans with chiles and corn masa was not too pleasing to the European palate. 

Eventually, Spaniards began drinking chocolate with some changes; imparting sweetness to please their palates. Spanish monks were the first to add sugar to chocolate, creating something far more similar to the hot chocolate we drink today. 

Chocolate was served as a beverage to noble people in Spain, adorned with occasional spices such as cinnamon, instead of the chile peppers and corn masa that were traditionally used by Native Mesoamericans. 

In Spain, their unique take on the original unsweetened beverage was served to nobility, and prized as a special secret of the Spanish. It was 100 years before Chocolate was brought to other countries.

Nowadays, you can still find it prepared similarly in the form of Champurrado. This corn-masa thickened drink is sweetened with ingredients like piloncillo and cinnamon, providing a uniquely Mexican experience. 

How Chocolate Became So Sexy

Montezuma II, the Aztec emperor, was probably the greatest testament to chocolate’s erotic reputation. The emperor enjoyed this beverage so much, he even served xocolatl to Spanish explorers in 1519, who were considered honored guests. 

While chocolate was considered medicinal for many reasons, Montezuma prized his favorite drink for enhancing his sexual performance. It was said that the emperor consumed copious amounts of this frothy, bitter concoction to heighten his virility and stamina. As such, he was said to consume up to 50 cups of the divine liquid – daily! The ruler especially made sure to imbibe this stimulating tonic before getting buck wild in his personal harem. 

The emperor’s legendary consumption of chocolate specifically for his romantic exploits underscored its status as a divine aphrodisiac. The belief in its ability to inflame the senses and invigorate the body was so strong that cacao beans were even used as currency, a tangible measure of value and desire.

Preparation of Chocolate or Xocolatl

The preparation of xocolatl was a ritual in itself. This took a meticulous process that involved roasting and grinding cacao beans into a paste. This paste was then mixed with water and spices, along with nixtamalized cornmeal for thickening. This ancient, labor-intensive method produced a concoction that  had undeniable, potent effects on the mind and body. However, it was also far removed from the sugary sweetness of modern chocolate.

The frothy beverage, often spiced with chili peppers and vanilla, was a complex blend of bitterness and heat. Xocolatl was a a sensory experience that stimulated passion in the brain. This was especially powerful when combined with the effects of spiritual rituals. 

As the bitter liquid coursed through the veins of its consumers, it was believed to trigger the release of mood-enhancing chemicals within the brain. 

How Does Chocolate Stimulate the Brain?

Phenylethylamine is a compound found in chocolate. This compound is known to stimulate the same neurological pathways as falling in love or experiencing intense attraction. 

Anandamide, another compound, induces a state of bliss, its name derived from the Sanskrit word for joy or delight. These scientific findings lend at least some credence to chocolate’s sexy reputation.

So when I say a decadent chocolate cake tastes like “love,” I most certainly mean it.

Even modern day chocolate can prove to be a multi-sensory experience! While it may be sweet, sometimes cloyingly so, it also provides savory undertones to satisfy all senses of your palate. Now you know–a taste of this treat has the power to evoke the most delicious cocktail of brain chemicals!

Today, chocolate remains a symbol of romance and pleasure. Somehow, throughout the trials of time, the decadent treat still proves it’s a true descendant of the sacred xocolatl. While the recipe has evolved to suit sweeter tastes, the essence of chocolate’s allure persists. Chocolate continues to be a universal language of love, a key to unlocking desire, and always proves to be the perfect romantic gift.

Experience the enduring power of ancient wisdom, yourself, this Valentine’s Day. Enjoy a bite or three, before you seal the deal! 💋 

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My journey to self-love has been arduous. I consider this heavily, when people have asked me about How To Practice Self-Love, Even when you Can’t. I’ve been thinking about this topic for weeks, meditating on the possibilities and the journey.

I’ll tell you something funny; I had this basically written before I sat down to do the final draft of this. Then I had one big realization: Self-Love is self-care, and everything you do to take care of yourself. That’s right–everything. Even the little things. I had to re-work this whole thing, before I shared my thoughts with you!

For this blog, I wish to focus on what self-love is, so you can find for yourself how to love yourself, in spite of your flaws. So, if you ask me how to love yourself, even when you cannot? I would ask you, “why not?” In this blog, I’ll be discussing why and how I arrived at that question.

How to Practice Self-Love When You Cannot

When I first started on my self-love journey, I didn’t expect that it would be so healing. While I still struggle with self-perception issues, I have put forth effort into changing my brain patterns to shift into hate just because I perceive myself in a negative way.

I also did not expect that practicing self-love would enrich the relationships with those around me, allowing me to bring people into my life that cared for me.

Starting to give yourself self-love can feel uncomfortable at times. For real–try looking in the mirror and say, “I Love You”. Try it! This is especially true, if it’s something you’ve never really practiced before. You don’t need to do this to learn how to practice self-love, but it really drives home how you feel about yourself. 🫠

However, the GOOD news is, that it’s definitely possible to re-condition your brain patterns to begin the shift. This blog intends to outline areas you can evaluate and improve, to see yourself in a new light.

Sometimes I believe the problem with not being able to practice self-love is 1), determining what self-love is TO YOU, and 2), learning to love yourself with your faults.

It’s all about creating new brain patterns full of kindness and patience towards yourself. Here are a few things to think about on your path to self-love:

Are you Willing?

This first starts with WILLINGNESS. You cannot achieve self-love if you are not willing to try self-love. The fact that you clicked on this blog from a search engine or via my social media, tells me that you’re at least willing enough to learn about it.

Think of self-love like a garden. You need to plant the seeds first. If you don’t even plant the seeds, what do you think is going to grow?

Assess Yourself With Intention

If you want to practice self-love, you can make it a goal to love yourself unconditionally. Understand first, however, that this takes conditioning and time. You have to be okay with the process and journey.

Remember, the first step here is being willing to actually do it. Then you have to learn to recognize where you’re filling yourself with negativity.

We’re usually taught to be ashamed of our flaws. Have you done anything to yourself that is unforgivable? Probably not. Sure, I may have let myself stay in relationships for too long, I’ve made mistakes, or I may have been unfair to myself. However, one must actively forgive themselves for past mistakes. The only person you need to forgive is yourself. No one else.

Everyone makes errors and that dwelling on them hinders self-acceptance. Do you hate your loved ones for errors they make?

Love is in the Little Things

One thing that contributes to my daily practice of self-love, is trying to focus on small, compassionate acts toward myself. Even if those small things don’t feel like “love” in the traditional sense.

It could be something like letting yourself rest when you’re exhausted, forgiving yourself for mistakes, or just being gentle with your inner dialogue instead of being too harsh. Take a moment each day to acknowledge something you like about yourself. Even if it’s hard. This is the first step of many you’ll take in this journey.

Ever buy someone you love a candy bar just because you’re thinking of them? Buy yourself one, too! Just considering your sensibilities for a moment, is a small act of self-love.

Loving Yourself Without Condition, How to Practice Self-Love

You don’t need to be perfect to love yourself. Growth or needing growth is not a reflection of your worth. Forgive yourself for things, of which you may feel responsible. Accepting that you’re not perfect is SELF-LOVE. 💋

Your faults and struggles with your body aren’t going away. I still see myself in a dozen negative ways, and I struggle to unsee them. Sure, I may not love my stretch marks, but that doesn’t mean I don’t deserve to moisturize my skin, maintain hygiene, and care for myself the way I would want someone I loved to do so.

I’d never lose my love for someone, just because of perceived flaws. Why should I treat myself like that?

Assess Relationships and Boundaries

Do you have people in your life that tell you negative things about yourself, or always ask too much of you? Are you a recovering people-pleaser?

Having a supportive and healthy environment is really helpful in healing trauma on the path to loving yourself. Finding your people is very difficult, but it is even harder when you’re choosing self-loathing.

Self-love often means respecting your own limits. Learning to say “no” when you need to, whether it’s to people, work, or even your own inner demands, can be a powerful way to show yourself some love and care. It’s about prioritizing your own well-being. This is something I highly recommend professional help in pursuing for behavior change.

You’d defend someone you loved. Start by defending yourself.

Take Care of Your Body

This isn’t about changing how you look, but about treating your body with care and respect.

I used to think I couldn’t love myself because of my body. I am still not happy with my body, but I am definitely not allowing that to keep me from standing up for myself and taking care of myself!

Would you want someone you loved not to defend themselves, simply because they didn’t like themselves?

Show Up Like You Would for Someone Else You Love

No–not like people who have wronged you. How would YOU show up for someone you love?

Show up for yourself like that. Even if it’s hard. No one else can make the choice for you. People can love you, but they cannot make you love yourself. Bring yourself joy! You are far more powerful than you realize, because you’re capable of this. Even if you’re telling yourself right now that you’re not.

Remember; it’s a process. And it’s not an easy one.

Loving myself taught me how to love others better. It was a conscious choice, and I did the work. I’m still doing the work, because it never ends.

It’s not about whether you can or can’t love yourself. You have to first understand what self-love is, and how you can practice self-love. It’s a matter of treating yourself with care, even if you aren’t happy with something. Would you treat someone else you loved like this? Would you be this unfair to them?

The reality I had to accept was, that we are always a work in progress, and sometimes self-love is a mountain to climb. The more and more you pour into yourself, the better. One day you’ll look back, and see how your boundaries have saved you.

Learning how to practice self-love can take years, but there will always be a light at the end of the tunnel.

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This is Lust & Lore, where we tell stories and myths with sensual appeal. Today we’re learning about the sex symbol who captivated Mexican audiences: Lyn May!

In this Peach Kisser series, we hope to tell some stories you have never heard, or that may be especially fascinating. These may be about people of note, ancient gods, or wildly fascinating accounts of human sexuality through the ages. Suggestions are welcome, as we are always looking to learn and educate others!

Today we’re taking a look at the woman nicknamed “The Goddess Of Love,” with a glamorous and erotic entertainment career, and a life full of drama. The more I uncover about her, the more I have become by her life and controversies. I absolutely fell in love with Mexican sex icon Lyn May!

Lyn May was famous (and infamous) in Mexican entertainment for her dramatic love life, her dazzling good looks, as well as for her stage and screen performances. Behind the glamour, however, lay a life of turmoil, marked by exploitation, addiction, and heartbreak.

Who Was Lyn May?

Lyn May, born Lilia Guadalupe Mendiola Mayares on December 12, 1949, was a Mexican Vedette, actress, model, and performer. As an entertainer, she captivated Mexico with her charm and uniquely good looks. Lyn proved to be a popular sex symbol, and appeared in numerous films, television shows, and colorful stage productions.

What is a Mexican Vedette?

The rough translation of a “Vedette” is “showgirl”.

Vedettes entertained audiences through singing, dancing and acting, much like you would expect in any cabaret performance. Lyn May, originally a cabaret performer, and still entertains. She even still maintains a popular instagram account showing off her full glam and live performances!

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Early Life and Career

Born in the picturesque town of Nuxco, Tecpan de Galeana, Guerrero, Mexico, Lyn May is of Chinese Ancestry. This made her unique amongst other vedettes and performers of the time when she rose to stardom. She began her career as a cabaret dancer in Acapulco, making her way across Mexico into many stage shows and productions.

While performing in Mexico City, Lyn was discovered by filmmaker Alberto Isaac who casted her in his famous film Tivoli (1974). The film proved to be a success, which made Lyn May a star! May was catapulted into stardom! This meant more work and more fans!

The starlet’s career began to expand, helping her land more roles in Mexican telenovelas and comedies. She was among the most popular stars in “Ficheras,” which was a film genre that could be described as “erotic comedy,” showcasing her range as a dramatic and comedic actress.

Some of her most notable roles include Carnival Nights (1978), The Loving Ones (1979), Spicy Chile (1983).

Lyn May Love Life

While Lyn May proved to be a fascinating performer, her private life was equally fascinating.

Throughout her career, Lyn May was frequently linked high-profile figures. Her charm, allure, and exotic beauty made her a favorite among Mexico’s elite, navigating their world with ease. The combination of her sensuality and her status as a showgirl made her a fascinating figure, and her romantic entanglements with powerful men only added to her mystique.

Though Lyn May was careful about maintaining a level of privacy around these relationships, it’s clear that her love life was a reflection of the glamour and intrigue that surrounded her public persona.

One of the most famous and talked-about affairs Lyn May had was with the celebrated hearthrob and Mexican actor Andrés García. Andres was a well-known leading man in Mexican cinema, with his good looks and dramatic roles making him a star among audiences. The affair between Lyn May and García was the stuff of tabloid gossip and media speculation, making headlines for its intensity.

Despite the arduous journey, Lyn May has maintained that her love life was just as colorful as her career. It was filled with lessons learned and experiences that shaped her into the woman she is today. In her later years, she has focused more on embracing her legacy as a trailblazing showgirl and entertainer, rather than constantly being defined by her romantic relationships.

Lyn May Plastic Surgery and Beyond

In 2006, Lyn May made headlines for a reason that shocked many of her fans and admirers.

Culture often dictates that physical appearance is an important aspect of an entertainer’s career success. As many others, Lyn May sought to maintain her uniquely good looks. This meant Lyn turned to plastic surgery. Unfortunately, this surgery did not go as she had anticipated.

Lyn May had fallen victim to a botched Botox job. An aesthetician injected industrial-grade oil into her face instead of using the medically approved filler. Lyn May describes it in an interview as a mix of cooking oil and baby oil, which was injected into her face. The consequences were dire, leading to eventual severe health complications and disfigurement of her natural face. Her once-pristine features were forever changed by the ill-fated treatment, and she was faced with a long and arduous road to regaining her looks.

The incident sparked widespread media attention, with many outlets speculating about the circumstances surrounding the procedure. The ordeal took a toll on her mental and emotional well-being. Lyn May has chosen to focus more on self-love and positivity.

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Lyn May Pregnancy

A testament to her commitment to the bit, at 68-years-old Lyn May made headlines once again. This time, it was by announcing a pregnancy with her 29-year-old partner Marcos D1. This was later said to be a made up story, used to promote her farewell tour.

Her Legacy

Lyn was a pioneering Vedette, whose fearlessness in exploring life and love is nothing short of inspirational. Her life and unwavering dedication to her craft have cemented her place in the annals of Mexican entertainment. Despite her controversies and tragedies, May remains an icon, symbolizing the power of resilience and even self-love.

Welcome to the second volume of Pleasure Principles, the second Volume to my How To Masturbate series for those that own vaginas! Check out the first edition Pleasure Principles: Vol. 1 – Intro To The Vulva & Vagina here.

In this edition, we’ll cover the basics of sex toys. We’ll cover everything from nipple stimulators, dildos, bullets, vibrators, and clitoral suckers to get you started on your way to self-pleasure, without use of your own hands.

We’ll discuss the safest ways to use toys, how to keep them clean, and provide tips for maintaining discretion.

I’ll hold your hand. Let’s just call it “Mutual Masturbation”.

Pleasure Principles: Volume II – A Guide to Sex Toys for Vulvas and Vaginas

Nipple Stimulation

Nipple stimulators are a fantastic way to enhance your solo play sessions, with something a little atypical of many users when they learn how to masturbate. These toys work by providing intense and focused stimulation to your nipples. Here are some popular types and tips for using them safely:

• Nipple Clamps: These come in various styles, from simple clips to adjustable screw clamps. Start with beginner-friendly options and gradually explore more intense ones as you become accustomed to the sensation.These are also excellent for partner play, but that’s another blog!
• Suction Cups: These create a vacuum-like suction around your nipples, increasing blood flow and sensitivity.
• Vibrating Nipple Toys: These combine vibration with clamps or suction cups for added pleasure.

Safe Use and Cleaning:

• Always start with clean toys and hands.
• Apply a small amount of lube to the nipple area to enhance sensation and reduce friction.
• Begin with gentle pressure and gradually increase intensity as desired.
• Clean your toys after each use with warm water and mild soap or a toy cleaner.
• Store them in a cool, dry place, away from direct sunlight.

How to Masturbate with Dildos

Dildos are classic sex toys designed for penetrative pleasure. In this section, we are specifically discussing the type of dildo that is manual, requiring use of your own hand to thrust them inside of yourself. This gives you a great chance to get truly intimate with yourself and see what you REALLY like. Dildos come in various shapes, sizes, and materials to cater to different preferences. There are even thrusting dildos, themed, and vibrating toys to choose from!

Here’s how to use them safely and effectively:

• Materials: Choose body-safe materials like silicone, glass, or stainless steel.
• Sizes: Start with smaller sizes and gradually work your way up if you must! It takes time to decide what you really like.
• Lubrication: Always use a generous amount of water-based lube for smoother penetration.

Safe Use and Cleaning:

• Wash your dildo with warm water and mild soap before and after each use.
• Dry it thoroughly to prevent mold and bacteria growth.
• Store it in a clean, dry place, preferably in a toy bag or container.

Bullets and Vibrators

Bullets and vibrators are versatile toys that can be used for both clitoral and internal stimulation, depending on the type you purchase. Tip: If you purchase a bullet vibrator and want to experience the fun sensations inside of yourself without risk, put the toy inside of a condom. That will make it easier to pull out when you’re finished! Keep yourself our of the ER. 👀

Vibrators come in various shapes and sizes, with different vibration settings to cater to different preferences. I recommend choosing one with a variety of settings, to increase versatility in your experience.

Types of Vibrators:

• Bullets: Small and discreet, perfect for targeted clitoral stimulation.
• Vibrators: Larger and more versatile, suitable for both internal and external use.
• Dildo: In the shape of a dildo, but battery-powered to vibrate on command while you use it to thrust.

Safe Use and Cleaning:

• Always use a water-based lube for comfort and enhanced sensation.
• Wash your toy with warm water and mild soap after each use.
• Store it in a clean, dry place, away from direct sunlight.

Clitoral Suckers

Ah yes, my personal favorite of the bunch! Clitoral suckers use suction and vibration to provide intense clitoral stimulation. They are designed to mimic the sensation of oral sex and really amplify solo fun with new sensations you don’t usually get on your own. Choose from handheld devices or wearable options for hands-free pleasure, to choose how to masturbate. There aren’t too many variants of this toy, other than some being enabled for fully hands-free fun! Choose a model that has divverent vibration and suction settings to find your perfect rhythm.!

Make sure to check out my sex toy reviews for some of my favorite clitoral suckers.

Safe Use and Cleaning:

• Apply a small amount of water-based lube to the clitoral area for comfort and enhanced sensation.
• Wash your toy with warm water and mild soap after each use.
• Store it in a clean, dry place, away from direct sunlight.

Tips for Discretion

Maintaining privacy and discretion is essential when exploring yourself, intimately.. Here are some tips to help you keep your play sessions private:

• Soundproofing: Choose a toy that has positive reviews for sound, or go with a manual toy. Use a blanket, pillow, or towel to muffle any sounds that may emanate from your own pleasure.
• Storage: Store your toys in a discreet, locked drawer or container.
• Timing: Choose a time when you’re unlikely to be interrupted, just as you might for a meditation session. After all, orgasms are spiritual events. 😇

We hope that by understanding the basics of different types of toys and learning how to masturbate safely can go a long way in your personal self-love sessions. Stay safe, stay clean, and enjoy all the good vibrations you’ll most certainly have cumming!

With Love,

Amara

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Welcome to another edition of “Beyond the DD,” where I discuss my “Big Boob Problems” from my real life experience of having actual big boobs! This is mostly just for funsies, because I am well-aware that having larger breasts is often seen as desirable. As with many desirable things; it ain’t all it’s cracked up to be!

In Part 1 of this series, I discussed how I even inherited such a pair. In addition, I covered my range of sizes, having been all the way up to 42K at one point! Throughout my experiences, I learned much about how bra sizes work (Thank you, ABTF), and how to manage the logistics around having these two things strapped to my chest at all times.

Beyond the DD, Part 2 – Avert Your Eyes

Today, we’re discussing how much I wish people could Avert Their Eyes! 😆 If you’re a fellow busty woman, you know that bouncing boobs don’t just occur all the time. Perhaps those big mommy milkers truly ARE a marvel! Or perhaps some folks simply have not seen boobs that big before, in person.

In reality, I am somewhat small in stature, with a curvy physique. There really is no point in hammering out the reasons. The point is that it happens, and it can get quite uncomfortable at times.

Big Boob Problems – Invasive Staring

As a busty woman, I have learned to at least appear as if I have tunnel vision. It keeps me out of trouble, and keeps me from making unwanted eye contact. While I may appear aloof, trust–I am paying attention!

Be that as it may, some people truly are not as sly as they seem to think.

Men with girlfriends? You’re not slick. If your girl didn’t see you, I sure did. So does anyone I am with, including friends and romantic partners.

Have you ever had a flock of teenage boys trying to sneak a peek on the sly? Look, virgins. There are 10 of you. You look ridiculous.

Unfortunately, you have to have some level of awareness when you’re in public, as a woman. If you don’t think we’re picking up on something, most of us definitely are. Like the man I caught getting video of me at Target! 🫠

No, I Don’t Always Want to Be Perceived

On occasion, I have been known to drop a thirst trap.

However, that’s me in control of the perception. I am making a choice at that moment to be perceived in a certain way. As an introverted and mildly misanthropic person, I very likely do not want to talk to strangers. Sometimes I am in a sociable mood, and am more receptive to public attention.

These are the times when I’m dressed in line with how I want to be perceived. Though, sometimes, I wish people would just leave me alone. Then I may not feel as if I have to dress in shapeless clothes, just to avoid unwanted attention when I go to the store to pick some avocados.

Perhaps I should wear a sign!

Ain’t My Fault They’re Big

A few years ago I saw a woman online, annoyed that someone asked her to cover up. This woman was well-endowed, and was justifiably upset that someone wasn’t minding her damn business. She said, “it ain’t my fault my titties are big!”

While there may be admirers, there are also plenty of haters. If I do choose to show off what I’ve got, that’s my choice to make. Receiving hate for it is just as much of a struggle, because *I* didn’t make this choice. These BIG NATTYS came on their own, baby.

Finding My Peace

Be that as it may, these are not things I can help, in others. Just as much as they cannot help that I have big honkin’ juicy mommy milkers.

We cannot expect strangers to know and understand our boundaries. We can only do what makes us feel comfortable in any given moment, regardless of what’s happening around us. Acceptance is all about learning what you can and cannot control.

They’re exhibiting their nature. They can help how they are, but sometimes we just have to accept that some people will always be who they are and there’s nothing you can do about it.

Have you had issues accepting your body, for better or worse? Do you have Big Boob Problems? Or maybe you just like huge boobs! Let me know in the comments!

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Cake Sitting–you know what? I’m kinda into it. Let me explain. 🎂

Welcome to another edition of “What it is and How to Do it” for Sexually Speaking here on Peach Kisser. Today I want to explore the naughty world of cake sitting with you, because I am actually quite intrigued by this particular kink, myself. This is a truly delightful decadent fetish that really frosts our cakes!

Beyond the sheer visual appeal, cake sitting taps into various kinks and sensory experiences. Practitioners combine the sensual pleasure of texture play with the visual feast of food in a sexual context (like sitophilia). As such, Cake Sitting has steadily gained popularity in the adult community with more and more content and creators dedicated to the craft.

This act involves exactly what it sounds like: sitting on a cake, often while nude or scantily clad, allowing the cake to be crushed under the weight of the body. This creates a messy spectacle, and is oddly surprisingly to enjoy getting into each and every crevice! If you don’t believe me, feel free to explore it yourself. (*ahem*plenty is available on tube sites*ahem*).

As a form of sploshing, this is versatile activity that can cater to a wide range of preferences, all the way down to cake decorations and even HOW the cake is smashed!

Cake Sitting Types

This fetish is usually pretty straight forward. Let’s just keep things uncomplicated! Here are a few ways people indulge in this naughty, messy fantasy:

• “Classic” Cake Sit: The most straightforward form where the individual sits directly on a whole cake, usually with the lower half of the body exposed in a thong or fully nude.
• “Messy” Cake Sit: Focuses on the aftermath, showcasing the mess created by the act, with frosting and cake crumbs clinging to the skin.
• “Sensual” Cake Sit: Emphasizes the tactile sensation of the cake against the skin, often incorporating close-up shots and slow, deliberate movements.
• “Dominant/Submissive” Cake Sit: Incorporates power dynamics, where one partner may force the other to sit on the cake as a form of humiliation or control.
  Features and Acts within the Cake Sitting Fetish
• “Cake Destruction” where the focus is on the act of demolishing the cake with various body parts.
• “Cake Worship” involves a submissive showing reverence to the cake, often licking or eating it off the dominant’s body.
• “Cake Play” can include using the cake as a sexual aid, or incorporating it into foreplay.

As you can see, you can get as specific as you’d like!

Let Them Sit on Cake

What’s that you say? You’re ready to sit on some cake? 🎂  Here are some tips to get started.

• Watch some videos! It’s nice to see someone else enjoy it first, before you get into it yourself. Sometimes we don’t know what we like until we see/experience it!
• Start with a Small Cake to test your comfort level with the sensation and the mess.
• Choose the Right Cake for your desired aesthetic and texture. A dense cake like a fruitcake will behave differently from a light sponge cake.
• Set the Scene with the right ambiance. Dim the lights, add some music, and ensure you have a space that’s easy to clean.
• Incorporate Other Foods like whipped cream, chocolate sauce, or fruit to enhance the sensory experience.
• Experiment with Temperature by using warm or cold cakes to add another layer of sensation.
• Capture the Moment with a camera to immortalize your cake sitting adventure and potentially share it with an audience that appreciates this unique fetish.

Cake sitting is a rich and layered fetish, and can be as decadent as you choose. Just like with any cake! It’s an act that celebrates the joy of letting go, allowing us to enjoy unique and pleasurable physical and visual sensations! Whether you’re a content creator looking to explore new kinks or an individual seeking to spice up your intimate life, cake sitting offers a delicious way to please even the naughtiest sweet tooth!

Who is into roleplaying? There are so many fun ways to bond intimately with your partner in this cozy season. At least for those of us that experience Winter. Sometimes we need to add a little extra fuel to the fire to keep our home hearth smoldering. You’ll want to dig into these Santa Role-Playing ideas, and roast those chestnuts!

The Naughty List: Santa Role-Playing Ideas To Spice Up Christmas Night

The holiday season is upon us, and what better way to get into the spirit than with some sexy Santa role-playing in the bedroom? Whether you’re a seasoned pro or a newbie to the world of role-play, we’ve got some ideas to get those sleigh bells jingling and your partner’s heart racing.

Create a Festive Atmosphere

First things first, set the mood with a festive atmosphere. Transform your bedroom into a winter wonderland with Christmas lights, garlands, and a mini Christmas tree. This will help you and your partner get into character and feel like you’re in a holiday fantasy. Don’t forget to add some festive tunes to the playlist to really get you in the mood.

Sexy Santa Role Playing Costumes

Next, it’s time to get dressed up in your sexiest Santa or elf costume. For the ladies, a Mrs. Claus outfit with a twist, like a mini skirt or lingerie, is sure to get your partner’s attention. And for the gentlemen, a Santa hat, beard, and coat will make you the hottest Claus in town. Don’t be afraid to get creative and DIY your own costumes – after all, it’s the thought that counts, not the price tag.

Christmas Food Play

Now, onto the fun stuff – food play! Use festive foods like candy canes, holly berries, or Christmas cookies as props for sensual play. Create a “sleigh” of treats, like strawberries, grapes, or chocolate-covered cherries, to feed each other. And for the more indulgent, try using “naughty” treats like whipped cream or chocolate sauce to add an extra layer of excitement to your play.

Elf’s Toybox

Every elf needs a toybox, and we’re not talking about the kind that’s filled with toys for the kiddos. Create a “toybox” of goodies, like sex toys or lingerie, to discover and play with. This can add an extra level of excitement and surprise to your role-play, as you never know what treats you might find inside. Just remember to communicate with your partner about what’s inside the toybox and make sure you’re both comfortable with the activities.

Getting into Character

Now that you’ve got your costume and toybox, it’s time to get into character. Watch some Christmas movies or read some Christmas stories to get into the holiday spirit. Practice your Santa or elf accent and mannerisms to really get into character. And why not create a backstory for your Santa or elf character to add some depth to the scenario? This can help you really get into the role and make the experience even more immersive.

Scenes and Scenarios

Finally, it’s time to play out your scenario. Try playing out a “naughty or nice” scenario, where one partner has to earn their gifts or privileges. Or create a “Santa’s workshop” scene, where one partner has to help the other build a toy or complete a task. You could even try a “Christmas morning” scenario, where one partner wakes the other up with a surprise gift or activity. The possibilities are endless, so get creative and have fun!

And there you have it, folks – our top picks for sexy Santa role-playing ideas for the bedroom. Whether you’re a seasoned pro or just looking to spice up your holiday season, we hope these ideas have given you some inspiration. Remember to always communicate with your partner and prioritize consent and safety above all else. And most importantly, have fun and get into the holiday spirit!

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