Tongolele – Mexico’s Forbidden Fantasy

Mexican entertainment has always been synonymous with spectacle and sensuality—and no one embodied that more explosively than Tongolele. A deeply alluring vedette, burlesque dancer, and actress, she set the burlesque stage on fire in the 1940s and 1950s, leaving behind a trail of legends, gasps, and more than a few sexual awakenings. And while many stars shone brightly, few ever burned with the same kind of fiery passion as Tongolele.

She didn’t just entertain—she unleashed something. She inspired generations of vedettes, dancers, and women unafraid to own their sensuality. Tongolele was more than a performer; she was a revolution in rhinestones.

Tongolele – From Spokane to Stardom

Born Yolanda Montes on January 3, 1932, in Spokane, Washington, this half-Mexican, half-American dynamo turned her dreams into reality, among the burlesque stages of Mexico. At a young age, and with encouragement from her parents, little Yolanda threw herself into dance, mastering several dance styles that fused with her adult-bred sensuality.

As she honed her talents between the U.S. and Mexico, her presence expanded, and soon enough, the name “Tongolele” was born—reportedly from an amalgamation of the words “Tonga,” a Polynesian garment, and “Lelé,” meaning “dizzy” in Spanish. This proved to pair well with her penchant for African and Tahitian dance styles, which helped catapult her into iconic status.

By the late ’40s, Tongolele was an icon of Mexico’s cabaret scene. With her hypnotic movements, improvised choreography, and glittering, barely-there costumes, she was a walking scandal wrapped in sequins. Remarkably, with little scandal to speak of other than gossip.

Setting the Stage—and the Screen—Ablaze

Tongolele’s talent went far beyond the stage, giving her career growth that was once only in her dreams. By the early ’50s, she was making waves in Mexico’s Golden Age of Cinema, becoming a star on the Silver Screen.

On screen, she played mysterious, sultry sirens who defied norms and stole every scene. Tongolele even infused her Afro-Caribbean and burlesque inspired roots into everything she did, standing out with a heat that Mexican cinema had never seen before. She didn’t just act; she seduced the camera and audiences all over Mexico.

Her fearless performances made her both a darling and a controversy magnet. She turned traditional dance on its head, blending folk dances with raw eroticism.

The Look That Created the Icon

We would be remiss to leave out the look that made this siren truly iconic; that hair! Tongolele boasted a full head of raven hair, accented with a striking white streak and blue eyes.

While her hair seemed deeply intentional, it wasn’t just a bold choice. Tongolele had a rare condition called poliosis, which causes depigmentation in a streak of hair.

This everlasting symbol of beauty used the genetic quirk as part of her visual trademark, accenting her overall mystique.

Drama, Darling

No tiger queen rises without a few claws coming out. Tongolele’s risqué performances were often met with pearl-clutching from the moral police. Her shows were occasionally shut down due to her refusal to tone things down—but she never backed off. Nudity? Censorship? None of this mattered to the fearless starlet.

As such, Tongolele became a trailblazer for sexual liberation. The sexual revolutionary officially retired in the 1960s, but her legend only grew. She remained a symbol of sexual liberation, artistic rebellion, and feminine power until her passing on February 16, 2025, at the age of 93.

So here’s to the woman who danced through taboos, set the stage on fire, and gave an entire nation permission to feel sexy. Long live the queen!

The Madams of the Wild West: Power, Wealth, and Influence

Creating sin creates influence. At least, it did back in the days of the Wild West. While legendary figures like Doc Holiday and Billy the Kid reigned the American Frontier, there were influences that aren’t typically spoken about in polite company, or even in history books. There was a whole lot more to the Wild West than Cowboys and Saloons! Heck–there’s even more to the saloons themselves.

In this edition of Lust & Lore, we only begin to discover the world Madams of the Wild West navigated. and how their business acumen gained them power, wealth, and influence in their communities.

What did Madams in the Wild West Do?

Madams were the managers and operators of brothels, overseeing the day-to-day business, managing workers, maintaining property, and handling financial transactions. As one can imagine, women did not have many paths to solo success these days, nor were they able to acquire as much as men, on their own. These pioneering women found themselves navigating a world that was certainly not made for them, creating empires by running brothels.

They sat in the seat of sin, of the Wild West, sometimes offering gambling and drinking alongside their fine establishments. However, they made it work, in spite of the many contradictions. Powerful, yet vulnerable, Madams were the ones who found opportunity, without even considering the gold rush. They created their own value as businesswomen, proving themselves to be soft, yet never to be messed with.

Many were former sex workers themselves, gleaning knowledge from their experience, to create profitable and well-run establishments. They were responsible for setting the rules, ensuring security. They had to offer a welcoming environment, to attract clientele. This sometimes transforming their brothels into elite salons–or, saloons–where men could indulge not only in pleasure, but also gambling, drinking, and with inviting musical entertainment.

Soiled Doves or Boss B*tches?

Have you ever heard the term “Soiled Dove”? Don’t ring the alarms yet! It’s an obsolete expression meant to denigrate prostitutes in the 19th century.

The phrase means that, these were women who had a “fallen” reputation. Some were viewed with contempt, while others gained a degree of respect. In those cases, these were Madams who had sterling reputations. Particularly if they contributed to their communities through philanthropy.

Many local businesses thrived due to the commerce brought in by brothels, along with their direct contributions, making madams an important part of the local economy.

Power and Wealth

Madams wielded considerable power, controlling not just their businesses but often exerting influence over local law enforcement, community planning, and politics. There were always threats of legal crackdowns looming over their businesses. Using their charming wiles (or bribes) they became shrewd business women, ensuring their establishments could thrive, in spite of fluctuating legal restrictions.

Many amassed great wealth, dressing in the finest clothes and adorning themselves with decadent jewelry. They often loved embodying the image of luxury and success. Even so, many were not nearly as financially solvent, and left little to their memories.

Notable Madams of the Wild West

Mattie Silks – 1846-1929

Mattie Silks

A business-savvy madam, Mattie Silks began her career at the age of 19. Notably, she was not previously a sex worker, but was known for running one of the most luxurious brothels in Denver. Mattie was fierce and fearless, earning a reputation as a true business woman in spite of her youth.

There were many stories about Mattie, who was not one to be messed with. Mattie was said to have had a duel with a rival madam, over business and affections of her lover, Cort Thompson. The truth of the matter was far less interesting than what the chatter around her legacy tells us.

While the tall tales tell us of a duel–a topless duel, at that–it really was no more than a bar fight. The intents were the same, as she was fighting in defense of her lover. However, Cort was said to have stood by her side, supporting her. What a man!

Not only are we still talking about her fist fight over 100 years later, but she proved herself to be a success. Mattie ran her business affairs successfully enough, to where she was able to retire comfortably; a rarity for women in her profession.

Pearl DeVere

Pearl DeVere

The glamorous and mysterious madam of Cripple Creek, Colorado. Pearl was the owner of the opulent Old Homestead brothel. Glamorous as she was, she was also known to have the most beautiful ladies of any parlor. As a madam, she ensured that they all wore fine clothes, and were taken care of medically and financially.

Pearl catered to an elite clientele, and she had to ensure her environment suited them justly. The Old Homestead was what one might consider “opulent.” It was filled with fine furniture, extravagant decor. They had TWO bathrooms, which was completely unheard of at the time. Not to mention, she hosted plenty of gaming tables for the gentlemen to complete the full trifecta of sin, as they drank merrily.

Pearl drew clientele all the way from Denver, to devour her wares of lovely, and truly cared for women. Ensuring that extra mile of care for her employees, guests were required to submit references.

Pearl died a somewhat dramatic  and poetic death, being found still draped in her $800 shell pink chiffon gown, which was imported from Paris. She was using morphine to help herself fall to sleep, which was common practice at the time, and succumbed to an accidental overdose.

Dora DuFran

Dora DuFran

As one of the most successful and famous madams of the Wild West, Dora was a success through and through. She expanded her operations, opening brothels in Deadwood and other frontier towns. Dora entered the sex industry as a teen, and moved her operations to Deadwood when the Gold Rush hit. As soon as she arrived in town, she boldly declared herself a madam and worked her way to becoming one of the most successful madams of all time. She started small, but quickly built a healthy empire.

Dora was a successful madam until she died in 1934, and is buried in Deadwood Cemetery with her pet parrot. Married and in-love, this true boss bitch also made sure she provided her love and adoration to cats. She was said to have cared for them in the brothels she kept. Her influence was said to be the main reason why some brothels became known as “cat houses”

Known for her humor and business acumen, she had a reputation that often had her come across legendary figures of the time. For instance, she was a close associate of the unconventional sharpshooter– and sometimes prostitute! –Calamity Jane. The pair was said to be so close, Dora was able to write a pamphlet about the life of Calamity Jane, jam packed with stories directly from her mouth.

The Legacy of the Wild West Madams

Madams were kind of the original “boss bitches” of the frontier, turning their knowledge of their trade into lucrative empires. Or at least, I like to think of it that way.

They acquired influence, wealth, and dressed to the nines to ensure they maintained a particular image. Building empires was always possible, and just looks a little different in the modern era of adult content creators! 😉

While their profession was controversial, their ability to succeed in a male-dominated world remains an enduring testament to their resilience in a world not built for them. These women were pioneers, in a way. They were strong and wise, ruthless and compassionate. Their self-made successes drawn from sex work illustrate the intricate social dynamics of the American frontier, proving society may have been more complex than we realize.

Resources –

https://www.notesfromthefrontier.com/post/soiled-doves

https://www.legendsofamerica.com/co-pearldevere/

https://recollections.biz/blog/5-madams-of-the-wild-west-and-what-made-them-famous/

Lyn May: The Life & Journey of a Mexican Vedette

This is Lust & Lore, where we tell stories and myths with sensual appeal. Today we’re learning about the sex symbol who captivated Mexican audiences: Lyn May!

In this Peach Kisser series, we hope to tell some stories you have never heard, or that may be especially fascinating. These may be about people of note, ancient gods, or wildly fascinating accounts of human sexuality through the ages. Suggestions are welcome, as we are always looking to learn and educate others!

Today we’re taking a look at the woman nicknamed “The Goddess Of Love,” with a glamorous and erotic entertainment career, and a life full of drama. The more I uncover about her, the more I have become by her life and controversies. I absolutely fell in love with Mexican sex icon Lyn May!

Lyn May was famous (and infamous) in Mexican entertainment for her dramatic love life, her dazzling good looks, as well as for her stage and screen performances. Behind the glamour, however, lay a life of turmoil, marked by exploitation, addiction, and heartbreak.

Who Was Lyn May?

Lyn May, born Lilia Guadalupe Mendiola Mayares on December 12, 1949, was a Mexican Vedette, actress, model, and performer. As an entertainer, she captivated Mexico with her charm and uniquely good looks. Lyn proved to be a popular sex symbol, and appeared in numerous films, television shows, and colorful stage productions.

What is a Mexican Vedette?

The rough translation of a “Vedette” is “showgirl”.

Vedettes entertained audiences through singing, dancing and acting, much like you would expect in any cabaret performance. Lyn May, originally a cabaret performer, and still entertains. She even still maintains a popular instagram account showing off her full glam and live performances!

Early Life and Career

Born in the picturesque town of Nuxco, Tecpan de Galeana, Guerrero, Mexico, Lyn May is of Chinese Ancestry. This made her unique amongst other vedettes and performers of the time when she rose to stardom. She began her career as a cabaret dancer in Acapulco, making her way across Mexico into many stage shows and productions.

While performing in Mexico City, Lyn was discovered by filmmaker Alberto Isaac who casted her in his famous film Tivoli (1974). The film proved to be a success, which made Lyn May a star! May was catapulted into stardom! This meant more work and more fans!

The starlet’s career began to expand, helping her land more roles in Mexican telenovelas and comedies. She was among the most popular stars in “Ficheras,” which was a film genre that could be described as “erotic comedy,” showcasing her range as a dramatic and comedic actress.

Some of her most notable roles include Carnival Nights (1978), The Loving Ones (1979), Spicy Chile (1983).

Lyn May Love Life

While Lyn May proved to be a fascinating performer, her private life was equally fascinating.

Throughout her career, Lyn May was frequently linked high-profile figures. Her charm, allure, and exotic beauty made her a favorite among Mexico’s elite, navigating their world with ease. The combination of her sensuality and her status as a showgirl made her a fascinating figure, and her romantic entanglements with powerful men only added to her mystique.

Though Lyn May was careful about maintaining a level of privacy around these relationships, it’s clear that her love life was a reflection of the glamour and intrigue that surrounded her public persona.

One of the most famous and talked-about affairs Lyn May had was with the celebrated hearthrob and Mexican actor Andrés García. Andres was a well-known leading man in Mexican cinema, with his good looks and dramatic roles making him a star among audiences. The affair between Lyn May and García was the stuff of tabloid gossip and media speculation, making headlines for its intensity.

Despite the arduous journey, Lyn May has maintained that her love life was just as colorful as her career. It was filled with lessons learned and experiences that shaped her into the woman she is today. In her later years, she has focused more on embracing her legacy as a trailblazing showgirl and entertainer, rather than constantly being defined by her romantic relationships.

Lyn May Plastic Surgery and Beyond

In 2006, Lyn May made headlines for a reason that shocked many of her fans and admirers.

Culture often dictates that physical appearance is an important aspect of an entertainer’s career success. As many others, Lyn May sought to maintain her uniquely good looks. This meant Lyn turned to plastic surgery. Unfortunately, this surgery did not go as she had anticipated.

Lyn May had fallen victim to a botched Botox job. An aesthetician injected industrial-grade oil into her face instead of using the medically approved filler. Lyn May describes it in an interview as a mix of cooking oil and baby oil, which was injected into her face. The consequences were dire, leading to eventual severe health complications and disfigurement of her natural face. Her once-pristine features were forever changed by the ill-fated treatment, and she was faced with a long and arduous road to regaining her looks.

The incident sparked widespread media attention, with many outlets speculating about the circumstances surrounding the procedure. The ordeal took a toll on her mental and emotional well-being. Lyn May has chosen to focus more on self-love and positivity.

Lyn May Pregnancy

A testament to her commitment to the bit, at 68-years-old Lyn May made headlines once again. This time, it was by announcing a pregnancy with her 29-year-old partner Marcos D1. This was later said to be a made up story, used to promote her farewell tour.

Her Legacy

Lyn was a pioneering Vedette, whose fearlessness in exploring life and love is nothing short of inspirational. Her life and unwavering dedication to her craft have cemented her place in the annals of Mexican entertainment. Despite her controversies and tragedies, May remains an icon, symbolizing the power of resilience and even self-love.