This is Lust & Lore, where we tell stories and myths with sensual appeal. Today we’re learning about the sex symbol who captivated Mexican audiences: Lyn May!

In this Peach Kisser series, we hope to tell some stories you have never heard, or that may be especially fascinating. These may be about people of note, ancient gods, or wildly fascinating accounts of human sexuality through the ages. Suggestions are welcome, as we are always looking to learn and educate others!

Today we’re taking a look at the woman nicknamed “The Goddess Of Love,” with a glamorous and erotic entertainment career, and a life full of drama. The more I uncover about her, the more I have become by her life and controversies. I absolutely fell in love with Mexican sex icon Lyn May!

Lyn May was famous (and infamous) in Mexican entertainment for her dramatic love life, her dazzling good looks, as well as for her stage and screen performances. Behind the glamour, however, lay a life of turmoil, marked by exploitation, addiction, and heartbreak.

Who Was Lyn May?

Lyn May, born Lilia Guadalupe Mendiola Mayares on December 12, 1949, was a Mexican Vedette, actress, model, and performer. As an entertainer, she captivated Mexico with her charm and uniquely good looks. Lyn proved to be a popular sex symbol, and appeared in numerous films, television shows, and colorful stage productions.

What is a Mexican Vedette?

The rough translation of a “Vedette” is “showgirl”.

Vedettes entertained audiences through singing, dancing and acting, much like you would expect in any cabaret performance. Lyn May, originally a cabaret performer, and still entertains. She even still maintains a popular instagram account showing off her full glam and live performances!

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Early Life and Career

Born in the picturesque town of Nuxco, Tecpan de Galeana, Guerrero, Mexico, Lyn May is of Chinese Ancestry. This made her unique amongst other vedettes and performers of the time when she rose to stardom. She began her career as a cabaret dancer in Acapulco, making her way across Mexico into many stage shows and productions.

While performing in Mexico City, Lyn was discovered by filmmaker Alberto Isaac who casted her in his famous film Tivoli (1974). The film proved to be a success, which made Lyn May a star! May was catapulted into stardom! This meant more work and more fans!

The starlet’s career began to expand, helping her land more roles in Mexican telenovelas and comedies. She was among the most popular stars in “Ficheras,” which was a film genre that could be described as “erotic comedy,” showcasing her range as a dramatic and comedic actress.

Some of her most notable roles include Carnival Nights (1978), The Loving Ones (1979), Spicy Chile (1983).

Lyn May Love Life

While Lyn May proved to be a fascinating performer, her private life was equally fascinating.

Throughout her career, Lyn May was frequently linked high-profile figures. Her charm, allure, and exotic beauty made her a favorite among Mexico’s elite, navigating their world with ease. The combination of her sensuality and her status as a showgirl made her a fascinating figure, and her romantic entanglements with powerful men only added to her mystique.

Though Lyn May was careful about maintaining a level of privacy around these relationships, it’s clear that her love life was a reflection of the glamour and intrigue that surrounded her public persona.

One of the most famous and talked-about affairs Lyn May had was with the celebrated hearthrob and Mexican actor Andrés García. Andres was a well-known leading man in Mexican cinema, with his good looks and dramatic roles making him a star among audiences. The affair between Lyn May and García was the stuff of tabloid gossip and media speculation, making headlines for its intensity.

Despite the arduous journey, Lyn May has maintained that her love life was just as colorful as her career. It was filled with lessons learned and experiences that shaped her into the woman she is today. In her later years, she has focused more on embracing her legacy as a trailblazing showgirl and entertainer, rather than constantly being defined by her romantic relationships.

Lyn May Plastic Surgery and Beyond

In 2006, Lyn May made headlines for a reason that shocked many of her fans and admirers.

Culture often dictates that physical appearance is an important aspect of an entertainer’s career success. As many others, Lyn May sought to maintain her uniquely good looks. This meant Lyn turned to plastic surgery. Unfortunately, this surgery did not go as she had anticipated.

Lyn May had fallen victim to a botched Botox job. An aesthetician injected industrial-grade oil into her face instead of using the medically approved filler. Lyn May describes it in an interview as a mix of cooking oil and baby oil, which was injected into her face. The consequences were dire, leading to eventual severe health complications and disfigurement of her natural face. Her once-pristine features were forever changed by the ill-fated treatment, and she was faced with a long and arduous road to regaining her looks.

The incident sparked widespread media attention, with many outlets speculating about the circumstances surrounding the procedure. The ordeal took a toll on her mental and emotional well-being. Lyn May has chosen to focus more on self-love and positivity.

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Lyn May Pregnancy

A testament to her commitment to the bit, at 68-years-old Lyn May made headlines once again. This time, it was by announcing a pregnancy with her 29-year-old partner Marcos D1. This was later said to be a made up story, used to promote her farewell tour.

Her Legacy

Lyn was a pioneering Vedette, whose fearlessness in exploring life and love is nothing short of inspirational. Her life and unwavering dedication to her craft have cemented her place in the annals of Mexican entertainment. Despite her controversies and tragedies, May remains an icon, symbolizing the power of resilience and even self-love.

Welcome to the second volume of Pleasure Principles, the second Volume to my How To Masturbate series for those that own vaginas! Check out the first edition Pleasure Principles: Vol. 1 – Intro To The Vulva & Vagina here.

In this edition, we’ll cover the basics of sex toys. We’ll cover everything from nipple stimulators, dildos, bullets, vibrators, and clitoral suckers to get you started on your way to self-pleasure, without use of your own hands.

We’ll discuss the safest ways to use toys, how to keep them clean, and provide tips for maintaining discretion.

I’ll hold your hand. Let’s just call it “Mutual Masturbation”.

Pleasure Principles: Volume II – A Guide to Sex Toys for Vulvas and Vaginas

Nipple Stimulation

Nipple stimulators are a fantastic way to enhance your solo play sessions, with something a little atypical of many users when they learn how to masturbate. These toys work by providing intense and focused stimulation to your nipples. Here are some popular types and tips for using them safely:

• Nipple Clamps: These come in various styles, from simple clips to adjustable screw clamps. Start with beginner-friendly options and gradually explore more intense ones as you become accustomed to the sensation.These are also excellent for partner play, but that’s another blog!
• Suction Cups: These create a vacuum-like suction around your nipples, increasing blood flow and sensitivity.
• Vibrating Nipple Toys: These combine vibration with clamps or suction cups for added pleasure.

Safe Use and Cleaning:

• Always start with clean toys and hands.
• Apply a small amount of lube to the nipple area to enhance sensation and reduce friction.
• Begin with gentle pressure and gradually increase intensity as desired.
• Clean your toys after each use with warm water and mild soap or a toy cleaner.
• Store them in a cool, dry place, away from direct sunlight.

How to Masturbate with Dildos

Dildos are classic sex toys designed for penetrative pleasure. In this section, we are specifically discussing the type of dildo that is manual, requiring use of your own hand to thrust them inside of yourself. This gives you a great chance to get truly intimate with yourself and see what you REALLY like. Dildos come in various shapes, sizes, and materials to cater to different preferences. There are even thrusting dildos, themed, and vibrating toys to choose from!

Here’s how to use them safely and effectively:

• Materials: Choose body-safe materials like silicone, glass, or stainless steel.
• Sizes: Start with smaller sizes and gradually work your way up if you must! It takes time to decide what you really like.
• Lubrication: Always use a generous amount of water-based lube for smoother penetration.

Safe Use and Cleaning:

• Wash your dildo with warm water and mild soap before and after each use.
• Dry it thoroughly to prevent mold and bacteria growth.
• Store it in a clean, dry place, preferably in a toy bag or container.

Bullets and Vibrators

Bullets and vibrators are versatile toys that can be used for both clitoral and internal stimulation, depending on the type you purchase. Tip: If you purchase a bullet vibrator and want to experience the fun sensations inside of yourself without risk, put the toy inside of a condom. That will make it easier to pull out when you’re finished! Keep yourself our of the ER. 👀

Vibrators come in various shapes and sizes, with different vibration settings to cater to different preferences. I recommend choosing one with a variety of settings, to increase versatility in your experience.

Types of Vibrators:

• Bullets: Small and discreet, perfect for targeted clitoral stimulation.
• Vibrators: Larger and more versatile, suitable for both internal and external use.
• Dildo: In the shape of a dildo, but battery-powered to vibrate on command while you use it to thrust.

Safe Use and Cleaning:

• Always use a water-based lube for comfort and enhanced sensation.
• Wash your toy with warm water and mild soap after each use.
• Store it in a clean, dry place, away from direct sunlight.

Clitoral Suckers

Ah yes, my personal favorite of the bunch! Clitoral suckers use suction and vibration to provide intense clitoral stimulation. They are designed to mimic the sensation of oral sex and really amplify solo fun with new sensations you don’t usually get on your own. Choose from handheld devices or wearable options for hands-free pleasure, to choose how to masturbate. There aren’t too many variants of this toy, other than some being enabled for fully hands-free fun! Choose a model that has divverent vibration and suction settings to find your perfect rhythm.!

Make sure to check out my sex toy reviews for some of my favorite clitoral suckers.

Safe Use and Cleaning:

• Apply a small amount of water-based lube to the clitoral area for comfort and enhanced sensation.
• Wash your toy with warm water and mild soap after each use.
• Store it in a clean, dry place, away from direct sunlight.

Tips for Discretion

Maintaining privacy and discretion is essential when exploring yourself, intimately.. Here are some tips to help you keep your play sessions private:

• Soundproofing: Choose a toy that has positive reviews for sound, or go with a manual toy. Use a blanket, pillow, or towel to muffle any sounds that may emanate from your own pleasure.
• Storage: Store your toys in a discreet, locked drawer or container.
• Timing: Choose a time when you’re unlikely to be interrupted, just as you might for a meditation session. After all, orgasms are spiritual events. 😇

We hope that by understanding the basics of different types of toys and learning how to masturbate safely can go a long way in your personal self-love sessions. Stay safe, stay clean, and enjoy all the good vibrations you’ll most certainly have cumming!

With Love,

Amara

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Welcome to another edition of “Beyond the DD,” where I discuss my “Big Boob Problems” from my real life experience of having actual big boobs! This is mostly just for funsies, because I am well-aware that having larger breasts is often seen as desirable. As with many desirable things; it ain’t all it’s cracked up to be!

In Part 1 of this series, I discussed how I even inherited such a pair. In addition, I covered my range of sizes, having been all the way up to 42K at one point! Throughout my experiences, I learned much about how bra sizes work (Thank you, ABTF), and how to manage the logistics around having these two things strapped to my chest at all times.

Beyond the DD, Part 2 – Avert Your Eyes

Today, we’re discussing how much I wish people could Avert Their Eyes! 😆 If you’re a fellow busty woman, you know that bouncing boobs don’t just occur all the time. Perhaps those big mommy milkers truly ARE a marvel! Or perhaps some folks simply have not seen boobs that big before, in person.

In reality, I am somewhat small in stature, with a curvy physique. There really is no point in hammering out the reasons. The point is that it happens, and it can get quite uncomfortable at times.

Big Boob Problems – Invasive Staring

As a busty woman, I have learned to at least appear as if I have tunnel vision. It keeps me out of trouble, and keeps me from making unwanted eye contact. While I may appear aloof, trust–I am paying attention!

Be that as it may, some people truly are not as sly as they seem to think.

Men with girlfriends? You’re not slick. If your girl didn’t see you, I sure did. So does anyone I am with, including friends and romantic partners.

Have you ever had a flock of teenage boys trying to sneak a peek on the sly? Look, virgins. There are 10 of you. You look ridiculous.

Unfortunately, you have to have some level of awareness when you’re in public, as a woman. If you don’t think we’re picking up on something, most of us definitely are. Like the man I caught getting video of me at Target! 🫠

No, I Don’t Always Want to Be Perceived

On occasion, I have been known to drop a thirst trap.

However, that’s me in control of the perception. I am making a choice at that moment to be perceived in a certain way. As an introverted and mildly misanthropic person, I very likely do not want to talk to strangers. Sometimes I am in a sociable mood, and am more receptive to public attention.

These are the times when I’m dressed in line with how I want to be perceived. Though, sometimes, I wish people would just leave me alone. Then I may not feel as if I have to dress in shapeless clothes, just to avoid unwanted attention when I go to the store to pick some avocados.

Perhaps I should wear a sign!

Ain’t My Fault They’re Big

A few years ago I saw a woman online, annoyed that someone asked her to cover up. This woman was well-endowed, and was justifiably upset that someone wasn’t minding her damn business. She said, “it ain’t my fault my titties are big!”

While there may be admirers, there are also plenty of haters. If I do choose to show off what I’ve got, that’s my choice to make. Receiving hate for it is just as much of a struggle, because *I* didn’t make this choice. These BIG NATTYS came on their own, baby.

Finding My Peace

Be that as it may, these are not things I can help, in others. Just as much as they cannot help that I have big honkin’ juicy mommy milkers.

We cannot expect strangers to know and understand our boundaries. We can only do what makes us feel comfortable in any given moment, regardless of what’s happening around us. Acceptance is all about learning what you can and cannot control.

They’re exhibiting their nature. They can help how they are, but sometimes we just have to accept that some people will always be who they are and there’s nothing you can do about it.

Have you had issues accepting your body, for better or worse? Do you have Big Boob Problems? Or maybe you just like huge boobs! Let me know in the comments!

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Cake Sitting–you know what? I’m kinda into it. Let me explain. 🎂

Welcome to another edition of “What it is and How to Do it” for Sexually Speaking here on Peach Kisser. Today I want to explore the naughty world of cake sitting with you, because I am actually quite intrigued by this particular kink, myself. This is a truly delightful decadent fetish that really frosts our cakes!

Beyond the sheer visual appeal, cake sitting taps into various kinks and sensory experiences. Practitioners combine the sensual pleasure of texture play with the visual feast of food in a sexual context (like sitophilia). As such, Cake Sitting has steadily gained popularity in the adult community with more and more content and creators dedicated to the craft.

This act involves exactly what it sounds like: sitting on a cake, often while nude or scantily clad, allowing the cake to be crushed under the weight of the body. This creates a messy spectacle, and is oddly surprisingly to enjoy getting into each and every crevice! If you don’t believe me, feel free to explore it yourself. (*ahem*plenty is available on tube sites*ahem*).

As a form of sploshing, this is versatile activity that can cater to a wide range of preferences, all the way down to cake decorations and even HOW the cake is smashed!

Cake Sitting Types

This fetish is usually pretty straight forward. Let’s just keep things uncomplicated! Here are a few ways people indulge in this naughty, messy fantasy:

• “Classic” Cake Sit: The most straightforward form where the individual sits directly on a whole cake, usually with the lower half of the body exposed in a thong or fully nude.
• “Messy” Cake Sit: Focuses on the aftermath, showcasing the mess created by the act, with frosting and cake crumbs clinging to the skin.
• “Sensual” Cake Sit: Emphasizes the tactile sensation of the cake against the skin, often incorporating close-up shots and slow, deliberate movements.
• “Dominant/Submissive” Cake Sit: Incorporates power dynamics, where one partner may force the other to sit on the cake as a form of humiliation or control.
  Features and Acts within the Cake Sitting Fetish
• “Cake Destruction” where the focus is on the act of demolishing the cake with various body parts.
• “Cake Worship” involves a submissive showing reverence to the cake, often licking or eating it off the dominant’s body.
• “Cake Play” can include using the cake as a sexual aid, or incorporating it into foreplay.

As you can see, you can get as specific as you’d like!

Let Them Sit on Cake

What’s that you say? You’re ready to sit on some cake? 🎂  Here are some tips to get started.

• Watch some videos! It’s nice to see someone else enjoy it first, before you get into it yourself. Sometimes we don’t know what we like until we see/experience it!
• Start with a Small Cake to test your comfort level with the sensation and the mess.
• Choose the Right Cake for your desired aesthetic and texture. A dense cake like a fruitcake will behave differently from a light sponge cake.
• Set the Scene with the right ambiance. Dim the lights, add some music, and ensure you have a space that’s easy to clean.
• Incorporate Other Foods like whipped cream, chocolate sauce, or fruit to enhance the sensory experience.
• Experiment with Temperature by using warm or cold cakes to add another layer of sensation.
• Capture the Moment with a camera to immortalize your cake sitting adventure and potentially share it with an audience that appreciates this unique fetish.

Cake sitting is a rich and layered fetish, and can be as decadent as you choose. Just like with any cake! It’s an act that celebrates the joy of letting go, allowing us to enjoy unique and pleasurable physical and visual sensations! Whether you’re a content creator looking to explore new kinks or an individual seeking to spice up your intimate life, cake sitting offers a delicious way to please even the naughtiest sweet tooth!

Right before the New Year, I logged my happy ass into AdultTime.com and saw this scene sitting in my Members Area. 🤩 I was delighted! I have long been watching both Scarlett Alexis and Isiah Maxwell, separately. I have always appreciated their talents throughout the years, so I felt this scene was the perfect holiday treat for myself to indulge in.

You might be surprised I’m reviewing a hardcore anal scene. I’m not. As a longtime porn reviewer and commentator, I have developed a penchant for many types of content and an appreciation for production value. This includes appreciating a wide variety of looks and talents, seeing pornography in a way that’s not inherently sexual. Adult Entertainment a full, sensual experience.

Personally, I believe in the artistic value of porn, sex, and pleasure. I am always attracted to content that encapsulates more than just sex, ensuring that the “entertainment” part of “adult entertainment” is palpable.

This scene is pure Anal Opulence.

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Scarlett Alexis – All-Natural Brunette Starlet

Scarlett is incredibly beautiful. Striking, even. I don’t think I have seen this woman NOT serve fierce sex appeal, thus far in her career.

When she exploded onto the scene, I knew she was going to be successful. I am so glad she’s stuck around. I am continuously looking forward to more work from her, and love watching her career grow. Today, she gets to give herself an Anal Exam, and you all get to watch!

Isiah Maxwell – Award-Winning Member

Isiah is a popular creator for dozens of reasons; 10 of which have to do with that award-winning cock he wields. I personally wasn’t introduced to his talents until about 5-6 years ago, but I’m so glad I was. Isiah is strikingly good looking, defining the phrase “Tall, Dark, and Handsome”.

Unfortunately, I cannot publish the photos of Isiah from the scene, here as we do not publish nudity on this site. You’re going to have to head to the site for the trailer, yourself. 😉

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Setting the Scene – Anal Exams: Scarlett Alexis

The way these scenes are shot are gorgeous, first of all. The focus is beautifully set on her ass, making it a delectable treat for ass-lovers everywhere, and Scarlett-lovers as well. Scarlett talks you through the remainder of her tease, as she shows off many supplies by her side.

A bubbly introduction shows Scarlett’s enthusiasm for the scene. I was immediately enraptured, simply due to the talent contained within. Scarlett saunted in with grace, showing off what’s special about the curves on her body. She’s wearing skimpy black lingerie, adorned with gold chains and fixtures, further amplifying her rampant sex appeal.

She looks expensive. You already know you cannot afford her, but you cannot stop staring. Moreover, she looks glamorous. Enviable even. Like you’d want to feed her grapes, at her command.

They open the scene with a view of the stunning brunette starlet walking up an extravagant staircase, demonstrating a bit of opulence as she feeds you filthy words of affirmation. You’re invited to cum inside!

Building Anticipation

Flaunting that round rump, floating just above her sexy stilettos, Scarlett sits on her knees as if she’s begging for you to see her raunchy striptease. She begins with a smile, delivering her beautiful breasts first. We eagerly await her to undo her chains, and finish the job. She’s an expert at building anticipation.

Scarlett whispers to us along the way, as she eventually leads us to her beautiful butthole. She’s ready to get herself stretched out and prepared for the pounding she’s about to receive, by Isiah Maxwell.

Anal Expansion

We’re treated to an ideal view of Scarlett, from behind, as she performs her solo anal tease for the camera. Once again, the camera angels seem artfully chosen, to ensure you get up close and personal with her personal preparation.

She starts with a bit of lube, and leads us through a tease with several toys, moaning along the way. Beginning with her fingers, she pleasures herself little by little, letting her ass expand slowly and easily. Anal insertion lovers get treated to a series of delights, beginning with a glass buttplug and building up to a pump. Bonus: There’s a speculum here, too!

Finally, it’s time to get really deep into that ass, and Scarlett gently talks you through her tease. Now, she’s ready for the Final Exam!

The Final Exam is Isiah Maxwell’s Big Cock

As soon as Scarlett is ready for more, Isiah enters the scene, just as eager as she is. He’s already eager to enter that ass, but ensures she has all her pleasure buttons pressed. He begins with some back-and-forth anal play, diving in deeply with his tongue and savoring her holes, like a man who is living every single one of our fantasies. 😉

Once again, I tip my hat to the photography here. You can see the ripples Isiah makes, with the suction upon Scarlett’s engorged pussy lips. If you’re not drifting off into fantasy by now, I’d like to check your pulse.

From Rim to Finish

Once they get into the rimming, their motors are both purring nicely. Scarlett is moaning with joy, giggling as Isiah continues to pleasure with his tongue, and slipping his fingers inside her asshole before finally entering inside.

The action from here is swift and sexy, beginning with a missionary pussy fuck, sending Scarlett into bliss. Soon it’s time for him to fill her asshole, and she is loving every minute.

As a woman, I’d like to mention something about Isiah.

While enjoying Scarlett’s moans at the height of her personal euphoria, you can still hear Isiah moaning with pleasure, and speaking in a low tone. The kind of low tone we crave in our sexual experiences, with a little chilling pleasure. The kind of tone that makes our toes curl…

Their communication is top notch, as he continues deepening her pleasure.

The Final Questions

Isiah whispers to Scarlett to lube up his cock. He’s ready to slip inside her once more, warming her up to take his cock in her ass. She asks and immediately receives, opening up wide for his slow insertion.

Her ass is fully expanded, and ready for pleasure. With her ass fully prepped, Isaiah gets to get moving quickly. He quickly shifts her in the perfect position to receive spankings between his powerful thrusts. He grunts with joy as he increases the pace, prompting Scarlett to cry out with orgasmic pleasure.

Isiah never quite stops pushing her buttons, throughout the scene. These two have excellent chemistry and she genuinely seems to enjoy his cock, flitting between her ass and pussy, and leading her into a euphoric final orgasm, among many.

This is a scene I know I’ll be returning to watch. This is one for the Favorites playlist, for sure, if you’re looking for deeply satisfying fun with excellent direction (Thanks, Bree Mills), stunning aesthetics, and drool-worthy anal play.

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Who is into roleplaying? There are so many fun ways to bond intimately with your partner in this cozy season. At least for those of us that experience Winter. Sometimes we need to add a little extra fuel to the fire to keep our home hearth smoldering. You’ll want to dig into these Santa Role-Playing ideas, and roast those chestnuts!

The Naughty List: Santa Role-Playing Ideas To Spice Up Christmas Night

The holiday season is upon us, and what better way to get into the spirit than with some sexy Santa role-playing in the bedroom? Whether you’re a seasoned pro or a newbie to the world of role-play, we’ve got some ideas to get those sleigh bells jingling and your partner’s heart racing.

Create a Festive Atmosphere

First things first, set the mood with a festive atmosphere. Transform your bedroom into a winter wonderland with Christmas lights, garlands, and a mini Christmas tree. This will help you and your partner get into character and feel like you’re in a holiday fantasy. Don’t forget to add some festive tunes to the playlist to really get you in the mood.

Sexy Santa Role Playing Costumes

Next, it’s time to get dressed up in your sexiest Santa or elf costume. For the ladies, a Mrs. Claus outfit with a twist, like a mini skirt or lingerie, is sure to get your partner’s attention. And for the gentlemen, a Santa hat, beard, and coat will make you the hottest Claus in town. Don’t be afraid to get creative and DIY your own costumes – after all, it’s the thought that counts, not the price tag.

Christmas Food Play

Now, onto the fun stuff – food play! Use festive foods like candy canes, holly berries, or Christmas cookies as props for sensual play. Create a “sleigh” of treats, like strawberries, grapes, or chocolate-covered cherries, to feed each other. And for the more indulgent, try using “naughty” treats like whipped cream or chocolate sauce to add an extra layer of excitement to your play.

Elf’s Toybox

Every elf needs a toybox, and we’re not talking about the kind that’s filled with toys for the kiddos. Create a “toybox” of goodies, like sex toys or lingerie, to discover and play with. This can add an extra level of excitement and surprise to your role-play, as you never know what treats you might find inside. Just remember to communicate with your partner about what’s inside the toybox and make sure you’re both comfortable with the activities.

Getting into Character

Now that you’ve got your costume and toybox, it’s time to get into character. Watch some Christmas movies or read some Christmas stories to get into the holiday spirit. Practice your Santa or elf accent and mannerisms to really get into character. And why not create a backstory for your Santa or elf character to add some depth to the scenario? This can help you really get into the role and make the experience even more immersive.

Scenes and Scenarios

Finally, it’s time to play out your scenario. Try playing out a “naughty or nice” scenario, where one partner has to earn their gifts or privileges. Or create a “Santa’s workshop” scene, where one partner has to help the other build a toy or complete a task. You could even try a “Christmas morning” scenario, where one partner wakes the other up with a surprise gift or activity. The possibilities are endless, so get creative and have fun!

And there you have it, folks – our top picks for sexy Santa role-playing ideas for the bedroom. Whether you’re a seasoned pro or just looking to spice up your holiday season, we hope these ideas have given you some inspiration. Remember to always communicate with your partner and prioritize consent and safety above all else. And most importantly, have fun and get into the holiday spirit!

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If you’re new to anal sex toys, or you’ve never tried a butt plug, maybe now is your chance! This week we’re uncovering one of the top butt plugs on Amazon: The Oreyurt Anal Plug Training Kit! This is more than just a plug–it’s got a bunch of unique functions and options for couple play.

Featuring a graduated set, you’ll find pleasure from three different sizes. Maybe it’s time to expand your horizons, if you know what I mean!

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Toy Description – Oreyurt Anal Plug Training Kit

This wearable anal toy is designed to give you that freedom. With its discreet design, you can privately play, even when you’re alone.

But it’s not just for solo fun. The remote control feature on the Anal Plug Training Kit makes it perfect for couples’ play, allowing you to take your intimacy to the next level.

This powerful anal toy combines two sensations in one: a prostate massager and anal vibrators. The result is an explosive experience that will leave you breathless.

And the best part? It’s waterproof and USB rechargeable, making it easy to take with you wherever you go. Whether you’re at home, in the shower, or on a romantic getaway, this toy is the perfect companion for your wildest adventures.

Key Features (directly from the manufacturer website)

• Discreet
• Graduated Sizes, Small to Large
• Remote control option, for partner play
• Waterproof
• USB Charging
• 10 vibration modes

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First-Hand Use

I must admit, I was underwhelmed by this crystal plug set, especially considering the price point. While it’s not a complete loss, there are some aspects that left me feeling, well, a bit unsatisfied.

Firstly, the crystal detail on the two smaller plugs is nothing more than a flat plastic gem that fits inside the rubber bezel at the end of the plug. And, to my dismay, it pops out ridiculously easily, losing most of its aesthetic charm. I mean, who wants a sparkly plug that loses its sparkle? I would have much preferred if they were securely attached, but I guess that’s just not the case.

On a more positive note, the vibrating plug was quite nice. It’s supposed to be the largest of the set, and it does pack a decent punch. The vibrations are strong and rumbly, which is always a plus in my book. However, I couldn’t help but feel that it wasn’t enough to make up for the lackluster design of the other plugs.

However, the remote play option is exciting for me. Maybe I’ll finally let my exhibitionist flag fly, one day, and use this with a partner. Who knows?

Overall, I’d say this set is mediocre at best. If you’re looking for a plug set that will truly impress, I’d suggest looking elsewhere. But if you’re on a budget and don’t mind a few design flaws, then I suppose this set might do the trick.

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If you’ve never been introduced, we think you could use an introduction with some fun Temperature Play tips! As an ever-curious person, I can testify to the allure, but I also feel like it’s a very “safe” and “vanilla” way to dabble in enhanced, sensual play and BDSM. If you’re new to kinkier concepts, maybe consider first that BDSM is a wide spectrum of activities that don’t necessarily involve whips and chains– but that’s another blog post!

Pleasure and pain has been likely the most mainstream aspect of BDSM. While I won’t be diving into the spectrum of what that covers, today we’re only discussing a singular aspect that can be used in multiple ways to achieve new heights of pleasure, new sensations and create some enjoyable intimacy. The book Hurts So Good: The Science and Culture of Pain on Purpose explores even the more casual ways humans engage in masochism (the M of BDSM, from tattoos to even people who eat insanely spicy food, on purpose.

Temperature play doesn’t even have to cause pain. It can be as simple as kissing someone’s back with cold lips, or adding a chilling sensation to another body part.

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What is Temperature Play?

If you came up groomed as a hetero female, you’ve probably heard the Cosmo-derived advice of, “suck on an ice cube before you go down”. Look, they’re barely even capable of using the word “penis,” but they’re onto something.

No one ever said that there isn’t such a thing as light BDSM, and realistically, that is anything outside of traditional, analog sex. The reality is, it can be fun way to spice things up. BDSM is your friend, even in a “vanilla” relationship”.

It can be as delicate or as masochistic as you want, especially when play involves heat.

Temperature Play Ideas

Some fun temperature play ideas that go beyond the typical can be fun experimentation, and can be as tame as you desire. The term “Temperature Play” is pretty broad, and usually encompasses the application of heat or cold, in the bedroom. Today, we’ll cover a few forms, to give you some ideas for the next time you’re in need of a little experimentation!

But first– let’s discuss a little bit of safety. You should be prepared for any potential burns, and make sure you aren’t removing ice directly from the freezer to produce sensations in your partner or yourself. Ice and Heat can damage the skin, so please take these safety considerations into account when you engage in temperature play for the first time.

Have something on hand to reverse whatever you’re doing. For example, keep cool water nearby for heat, or warming blankets and pads near for cold play. Make sure safety is at the top of mind, when engaging in this or any BDSM play. Utilize safe words if it helps you and your partner feel more comfortable, during your playtime.

At the end of the day, you are responsible for your and your partner’s safety, along with their consent. Now, let’s get down to the good stuff!

Ice/Cold Play Tips

Ice Play is often where many people begin, and can encompass a lot of action. Be wary of cold burns, and keep warming items on hand, should your partner need them. Warm water, towels, and blankets make for excellent accompaniments. You can incorporate ice/cold play in the following ways:

• Freeze a Glass Dildo for Insertion, or other sex toys
• Ice Cubes for melting on your partner’s nipples, skin, and other erogenous zones.
• Ice cubes to cool your mouth before oral stimulation
• Let an ice cube melt in their belly button
• Use to increase sensations on your partner’s body before performing upon them.
• Use Cold Food to lap up, from your partner’s body
• Induce pain, with pleasure. Responsibly.

Fire/Heat Play Tips

This is a fairly common kink. Personally, my first exposure to this was in the music video to Ricky’s Martin’s 1999 smash hit, “Livin’ la Vida Loca”. Anyone else remember that? Just me? Okay then.

Again, keep your partner’s safety in mind. Make sure you know how to treat a burn (both hot and cold) as accidents do happen. Here are some Fire Play Safety Tips, but here are some fun ways to play with varying degrees of heat in the mean time!

• Hot Towels
• Warming Massages
• Warming a glass or stainless steel sex toys
• Wax Play / Candle Wax (tip, do not use just any candle wax. There are candles manufactured for the explicit purpose of temperature play.)
• Carefully playing with fire, near or directly onto a person’s skin. Responsibly.
• Use of Topicals – Massage Oils, etc.

Some experts may recommend topicals which contain compounds like capsaicin. While topicals like this can provide unique sensations, it’s important to note that they can damage and burn skin. Maybe one day I’ll regale you with a story about accidental temperature play and capsaicin ointment, but that’s… another blog. 🙈 On that note, I’ll leave you with one last temperature play tip:

Capsaicin is best removed from the skin with dish soap.

It’s Playtime!

As always, any form of kink or BDSM must be approached with consent and a detailed discussion about personal limits and desires. If you’re looking for more specific Temperature Play Tips, please feel free to reach out to me on Twitter/X, or comment on the blog below!

Listen to your partner, play wisely and safely, and you’ll have something fun to incorporate into your routine whenever you’d like!

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As I was surfing through threads today, I came across this clip from people of Pamela Anderson make-up free over and over. I’m just in awe; I cannot stop thinking about it.

Pamela came to fame as a sex symbol, and these types of figures have historically been polarizing on society at large. While they’re prized and praised for their beauty, they’re deeply sexualized and thus seen as immoral by certain demographics. As such, I believe a lot of people have preconceived notions about her that tainted their perception of Pamela Anderson as an older woman. She was fortunate to be beautiful and got paid for it! However you may feel about her youthful antics: you weren’t the same person as you were 30 years ago, were you?

If you are–well, I suggest some positive self-reflection. 🤧

 

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A True Symbol of Beauty – Make-up Free Pamela Anderson

This is the very clip I keep watching. She’s beautiful. I’m elated just looking at her, with her imperfect skin, crystal clear eyes; proudly wearing her wrinkles. She’s glowing in a way a woman only does when they finally feel free.

I feel like her soul is free, without the pressure of being youthful and performative bombshell appearances. The internet discourse about Make-up Free Pamela Anderson is so funny to me, because it doesn’t make sense. So many people praise or criticize her going make-up free, with a variety of claims about her appearance. More and more, it becomes clear to me that maybe some people don’t fully understand what it means for Pamela Anderson to be without make-up. People don’t seem to take her seriously because of her past, which I feel is a grave miscalculation.

I saw claims that she has had surgical and skin procedures most of us had not.

Now, Pamela Anderson was always naturally beautiful, with the “classic beauty” face. She maintained it. After a certain point, she did get fillers and botox. Eventually, she had the fillers removed and stated that she is no longer interested in those procedures in more recent interviews.

This is a pretty good breakdown of the work she has had over the years:

Many are objectively beautiful, but it takes a certain spark to become an icon like Pamela Anderson. And she still has that spark!

 

I keep gazing upon her. She doesn’t look like she aged in a superhuman way, like many stars these days like to portray well into their 50s. Pamela is in her late fifties. Her skin is imperfect and uneven, she’s got wrinkles, smile lines, and more.What she did NOT do, was try to maintain her same appearance that made her famous to begin with.

You may see the same signs of aging on yourself. And yet, she still radiates the same sparkling energy that helped make her a full-blown sex symbol, to begin with.

But that’s exactly the thing: she doesn’t look abnormally youthful for her age. She’s aging like a normal person, whose beauty made her famous. Pamela Anderson Make-up Free is wearing her “flaws” like a badge of honor. Now she’s embracing a side of herself beyond the beauty that turned her into an icon. She’s fully getting into her “crone” season and is no longer bound by what people think of her looks.

Aging is a funny thing, as a participant in aging myself. Pamela Anderson looks like a healthy, beautiful 50+ year old woman. This is somewhat symbolic of the way we have evolved to look at appearance. Pamela is making headlines because she was known for her looks, and that is why we praise her for embracing her natural aging process.

Pamela was already pretty–yes.

Lovely Pamela isn’t the same beauty she was many years ago, and she understands this very well. We always relish when a star loses their good looks as they age, but no one seems to be feeling this way about her. Perhaps it’s because the Make-up Free Pamela Anderson is still very pretty. Watching her embrace this type of freedom is probably one of the coolest things I have seen an aging sex symbol do, in a very long time. It’s a radical act of self-love, and I wish I could bottle it and sell it.

Pamela Anderson was and is a sex symbol, and also a beacon to those of us to be okay with not looking the same way we did in our youth. Embrace the changes as you age, and you’ll find your own beauty, too.

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Some of us may have been conditioned to see getting messy as something undesirable. However, sometimes, with some people, it brings the most orgasmic of joys! Sploshing is the joy we speak of today, and all the delicious and wild ways it can be practiced, enjoyed, and expressed.

Today we’re giving you a primer on the uniquely messy fetish. This fascinating fetish involves getting messy, covered in substances like food, paint, or even mud, while enjoying the sensations involved. Whether you’re simply curious or ready to experiment, I serve to give you a primer of all things Sploshing–exploring its different types, how people practice it, and even some sexy tips for those curious about trying it out themselves.

Types of Sploshing

Sploshing is a term that actually encompasses a number of activities. Each activity is unique in its own right, but some may be more appealing to you than others.

Some of the most popular types include:

• WAM (Wet and Messy): This involves getting covered in wet, gooey substances like mud, paint, or even food. This is the most popular form.
• Sploshing, specifically with Food: Think pies, cakes, and other sweet treats. Combined with Sitophilia!
• Slime: For those who love a good squelch, slime sploshing is the way to go. This type of sploshing involves using homemade or store-bought slime to create a messy, tactile experience. You can easily find them on Instagram!
• Muddy: Getting down and dirty in mud is perfect for those who love the great outdoors!

Whatever the approach, the key to truly enjoying this kink is embracing the mess and letting go of inhibitions. Some individuals prefer to engage in solo sessions, using substances like paint or slime to create a messy, sensory experience. Others may engage in group sessions, where multiple people get together to create a wild scene!

There is truly no singular way to enjoy this naughty and stimulating activity! Sometimes, practitioners take inspiration from other fetishes and BDSM practices, a chosen substance may be used as a form of domination or stimulation.

How to Try Sploshing

Feeling intrigued? There’s no harm in trying by yourself, to see how a solo session feels. Here are a few tips to get you started:

• Start Small: Begin with a small, controlled environment, like a bathroom or designated play area. Somewhere you can be undisturbed and comfortable.
• Control the Mess, at First: Sometimes controlling the mess is helpful for some beginners! This will help you get comfortable with the idea of getting messy. Either line your playspace with clear plastic (cheap shower curtains work great!) or get a kiddie pool!
• Then, Embrace the Mess: Remember, sploshing is all about embracing the messy, sensory experience.
• Choose Your Substance: Select a substance that resonates with you, whether it’s paint, slime, or even food. Experiment with different textures and sensations, as well!
• Communicate with Partners: If you’re engaging with a partner, make sure to communicate clearly about boundaries, desires, or any safety concerns.

Is this something you’re interested in exploring? This unique, fascinating fetish can create a world of fun. Whether you engage in solo play or with a partner, we hope these tips helped give you a good primer of what to think about.

Don’t forget to let me know in the comments, or on social media, what you thought! Plus, I’m more than happy to explore new topics all the time. Send your suggestions to me on social media!

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