This week’s myth is especially important:

Myth: Penetration is the main event.

It’s a common belief that sex doesn’t really start until penetration happens. People walking among us believ that everything before it is just foreplay. Perhaps it’s considered a warm-up act, something you endure or rush through on the way to the “real” thing. It’s a myth that convinces people to override their natural desires and instincts, and possibly end up faking orgasms or even lying to themselves.

Most sex myths aren’t built around pleasure. They’re built around performance and sometimes even by the patriarchy. This one happens to center male satisfaction.

So let’s slow it down.

Why We’re Taught Penetration Is the “Main Event”

Do you feel like you get more pleasure out of foreplay? You’re not alone. The idea that penetration is the main event seems to center around only one kind of pleasure, with many vagina-owners being left bereft of orgasm.

Penetration-focused sex works pretty well for people whose bodies are most easily and largely stimulated that way. For everyone else, it often requires adapting, waiting, or even erasing all desire altogether.

When sex is organized around penetration as the goal, everything else becomes secondary. That doesn’t mean penetration is bad. It just means we need to deconstruct pleasure, and reframe it in a way that pleasures all parties, regardless of their genitals.

Reality Check: Lesbian Sex Exists

One of the easiest ways to see the cracks in this myth is to look at sex that doesn’t involve around penises at all.

Lesbian sex doesn’t treat penetration as the default or the finish line. Sometimes it shows up, sometimes it doesn’t. Partners enjoy pleasure, connection, and responsiveness as they grow in pleasure together. And somehow, despite the lack of a so-called “main event,” the sex still counts. It’s still satisfying. It’s still complete.

This is the biggest smoking gun, to debunk this myth.

Reframing Penetration’s Role

Here’s where nuance matters: penetration can absolutely be part of great sex.

For many women, penetration feels best after other kinds of stimulation have already done some of the work. This is what we consider foreplay. More accurately, we’ll refer to these acts as “outercourse” here. We’re talking about kissing, touching, oral, grinding, teasing, warmth, buildup.

Think of penetration not as the ignition, but as something that can deepen or amplify pleasure once you’re already turned on. For some people, penetration can help tip things over the edge when they’re halfway there. For others, it’s neutral. For others, it’s not the thing at all.

Expansive Pleasure Changes Everything

The problem is pretending penetration is the whole point, altogether.

A lot of vagina owners don’t struggle with orgasm because their bodies are “difficult.” They struggle because sex has been narrowed down to one single act, requiring a penis.

When pleasure is allowed to be expansive, orgasm often follows more naturally. And if penetration joins the party? Great. If it doesn’t? Also great. You got to cum, you lucky devil!

Debunked Verdict

Penetration is the main event? Officially Debunked.

Unlearning sex myths can feel strange at first. Sometimes uncomfortable. Sometimes deeply relieving. Because once a myth loosens its grip, there’s suddenly more space—for curiosity, for communication, for pleasure that becomes more expansive.

Penetration is an option among many pleasure choices. It can be part of sex without being the only thing sex revolves around.

If you’ve ever felt disconnected, rushed, or underwhelmed because penetration was treated as the finish line, you’re not alone. And you’re not broken. Your pleasure just needs more room than the myth allows.

Sex isn’t a performance for someone else. It’s a shared experience, shaped by what actually feels good. You’re allowed to center your own pleasure.

Stay curious. Stay soft with yourself. And remember: your clit matters.

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Today, we’re talking about a vaginal-centric hygiene, and why it’s important in sexuality and in general health. While we may love our sexy little lace panties and cuddling after sex, a little neglect is more than enough to sabotage your best efforts in self-love, self-pleasure and in maintaining vaginal health.

Lingerie is fun. But keeping clean panties on is it’s real, reliable, and rooted in self-care. Freshness boosts confidence, supports vaginal health, and keeps intimacy feeling easy instead of stressful. So let’s talk about what is normal, and what should be addressed!

Changing your Underwear Matters. A fishy smell is not normal, actually. 

We’re not saying we shouldn’t wear sexy lingerie, or trying to tell you how to live. We’re just here to deliver the facts: underwear sits in one of the warmest parts of your body, which naturally produces excretions throughout the day. Sweat and discharge build up, and so does harmful bacteria

With all that warmth, a balanced vaginal microbiome can grow the wrong bacterias. And the wrong bacteria means foul odors and infections. 

Dirty underwear doesn’t just smell off, it can throw off your pH, irritate your skin, and increase the risk of infections. Changing your underwear daily (and after workouts, sweaty days, or long nights) is one of those low-effort hygiene habits that pays off immediately.

However, it’s not the only piece of the puzzle. You still have a job to do, in your daily hygiene routines.

Basic Hygiene Standards to Keep Your Vagina Healthy

Let’s keep this simple and shame-free. Vaginal health thrives on consistency, not overdoing it Here are some basics:

• Clean underwear every day
  
• Gentle washing with warm water (no harsh soaps internally)
  
• Avoid scented products down there
  
• Wipe front to back
  
• Change out of damp underwear ASAP
  

If something smells off, it’s usually a sign to adjust your hygiene routine or see a medical professional.  

Your vagina is self-cleaning, but your labia is not.

Underwear hygiene and personal hygiene plays a big role in keeping things balanced. If your parents didn’t teach you, here are some basic highlights on keeping yourself clean:

• Shower regularly, especially after sweating, taking care to use a gentle soap over the vulva. Rinse gently. Medical professionals recommend a gentle, unscented & pH balanced soap.
• Wear breathable fabrics, like cotton or cotton blends.
• Change underwear at least once a day
• Keep an extra pair on hand for long days
• Wash underwear thoroughly and fully dry it
• Replace your underwear every 6-12 months, or whenever you see signs of wear and permanent staining.

What Kind of Underwear Is Best for Vaginal Health?

When it comes to vaginal health, breathable beats sexy every time (and yes, underwear can be both).

• Cotton or bamboo fabrics
• Moisture-wicking materials
• Proper fit—not too tight
• Minimal synthetic lace for daily wear

Save the fancy lingerie for short stints and sexy nights in. For everyday life, fresh underwear that lets your body breathe is key. Comfort and cleanliness are deeply underrated forms of sex appeal.

Need some more vaginal care tips? Check out Genital Grooming & Sexy Hygiene Tips That Actually Matter here.

Personal hygiene can make or break a relationship.

Like it or not, hygiene is an aspect of compatibility that really shouldn’t be compromised in a partnership. Here’s the unspoken truth: Partners notice differences in cleanliness even if they never bring it up.

Clean underwear signals self-respect and respect for the person you’re sharing your body with. 

If you and your partner have incompatible hygiene routines, it can affect overall attraction. Nothing kills attraction faster than mysterious odors, or thinking “maybe I can get away with one more wear” when it most definitely cannot. Additionally, if you’re having unprotected sex, there’s more intermingling of bacterias we want to control.

Good hygiene builds trust and comfort.

Did your mother not drive home the importance of wearing good underwear, in case of an emergency, or are you normal?

Hygiene isn’t only for germaphobes. It’s for everyone, and our partners. Whether you’re dating, hooking up, or just existing in your body, clean underwear matters more than something that looks sexy. 

Consistency with hygiene removes anxiety. In turn, that makes intimacy easier. And yes, bad hygiene ruins attraction faster than almost anything else, in particular if hygiene practes between parters are not compatible.

So if you’re choosing between lace and clean cotton? Choose both, and never skip the hygiene routine. Your body will thank you.

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Nail care, pubic hair, and why cleanliness can make or break the vibe.

Whether you’re bare, bushy, or blissfully somewhere in-between, how you groom your genitals says a lot about how you treat yourself and how you show up in intimate moments.

So if you’ve ever wondered what really matters when it comes to sexy hygiene, let’s give you a rundown.

The Hair Down There

Pubic hair grooming is a personal thing, and a matter of preference. Some like it smooth, some prefer a trim, and others let it thrive naturally. There’s no “right” look, but there is a right way to care for it.

If you shave, go with the grain, use a fresh razor, and exfoliate beforehand. Waxing? Prep with a corn starch based baby powder to reduce sweat interference. Prefer to trim? Keep those scissors clean and go for a neat-but-natural vibe.

And if you’re letting it grow wild? Just keep it clean. Hair traps sweat, oils, and scent, so cleanliness is key.

Nail It, Literally

Let’s talk fingers.

You’d be shocked how many people overlook this one, but it’s major. Whether you’re touching yourself or someone else, your hands are going to be involved. That just means they’d better be clean and safe.

Keep nails short and smooth, especially if you’re getting handsy. File down jagged edges (no one likes a surprise scratch), and make sure the undersides are scrubbed clean. Bacteria loves to hide there, and trust us, that’s not the kind of flavor anyone’s asking for.

Soft, well-kept nails feel amazing gliding over skin. That little extra effort? Chef’s kiss.

Wash Like You’re Expecting Company

Good hygiene is about being healthy, and ready for whatever (or whoever) comes your way.

How to wash all genitals:

Use pH-balanced intimate washes below the belt, instead of harsh soaps. Rinse off after sex (or solo play!) to clear away fluids, lube, and sweat. And dry yourself off completely, paying special attention to folds or creases where bacteria likes to linger.

There’s something super empowering about knowing you smell and feel amazing naked. Sometimes that starts with a steamy shower and a little exfoliating scrub.

Nothing says sensuality, like being clean enough to eat…

The Extra Mile

We encourage readers to only do what they’re comfortable with. Here are some tips with that in mind:

For those with testicles, gentle trim them. If shaving, gently stretch the skin to avoid nicks.

Vulva-havers? Get rid of the douche like it’s your ex. And keep the scented lubes on the shelf. Nothing can disrupt the pH quite like these two things.

Try using a lube that is formulated for women who are sensitive. We highly recommend Sliquid, if other lubes are giving you issues.

Keep it light, clean, and confidently yours. Because sexy hygiene isn’t about impressing someone else—it’s about owning your pleasure.

So, Why Does Any of This Matter?

Because grooming isn’t just about what others see or smell. It’s about keeping you confident, comfortably, and healthy. In some cases, it’s just basic hygiene! There’s nothing hotter than someone who takes care of themselves, not out of pressure or shame, but because they want to feel amazing in their own skin.

Are you team bare, team bush, or a little bit of both? Got a grooming trick that makes you feel unstoppable? Slide into our DMs or drop a comment—we love a good hygiene hack.

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But what is impact play, really? At its core, it’s the consensual striking of the body for sensation, pleasure, power exchange, or all of the above. Think spanking, flogging, paddling, cropping, caning—the entire spectrum of thud to sting that awakens nerve endings and electrifies desire.

But impact play isn’t just about pain. It’s about sensation, trust; the hot rush that happens when someone raises their hand—and you beg them to bring it down harder.

The Psychology of Impact Play

What makes impact play so intoxicating? For many, it’s the release. The sharp snap of a paddle or the rhythmic thud of a flogger triggers a flood of endorphins, sometimes leading to “subspace”—a dreamy, floaty, altered state of arousal. For others, it’s about control: either giving it up or taking it with authority. In BDSM dynamics, impact play is often part of a larger scene involving dominance, submission, and aftercare.

Tools of the Trade

• Hands – Nothing beats a barehanded spanking for intimacy and intensity.
• Paddles – From leather to wood, they deliver a satisfying smack and a lasting glow.
• Floggers – Multiple tails create rhythmic, thuddy sensations.
• Canes & Crops – For precision, sharp sting, and serious visual appeal.
• Belts, slippers, and improvised toys – Sensual or severe, depending on your kink.

Consent, Safety, and Aftercare

This type of play demands communication and care. Discuss limits, safe words, and boundaries before the scene. Target “meaty” areas like the butt, thighs, and upper back, and avoid the kidneys or joints. Aftercare is crucial—whether it’s cuddling, lotion, or gentle words—because emotional vulnerability often follows physical play.

Why We Love It

Impact play taps into something primal. The sound, the sensation, the submission—it all builds a delicious tension that begs for release. Whether you’re a curious beginner or a seasoned kinkster, exploring impact play can unlock a new realm of erotic intensity.

So, the next time you find yourself wondering what is impact play, just remember: it’s the dance between sting and surrender. The language of skin, spoken in smacks.

A Dirty Example

Her breath hitched as the leather paddle landed—again, and again. Heat bloomed beneath her skin, blooming into a flush across her thighs. “Count for me,” he murmured, voice low, hand hovering. “Eight,” she gasped, hips twitching. “Nine.” Her voice trembled. “Ten.” She was soaked, trembling, floating. Every slap rewrote the ache between her legs into need, into want, into helpless, glistening surrender.

When he slid his fingers between her thighs, he smiled. “All that from a little smack?”

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We’re here to help! If you’re new to the concept of aftercare, we’ll cover it in detail, including what it is, how to engage, and the benefits of a positive aftercare experience.

What Is Sexual Aftercare?

Looking back to your first experiences – did you know about sexual aftercare? The practice goes so much deeper than a few cuddles, depending on your sexual relationship, needs, and desires.

Think of sexual aftercare as the intentional transition between euphoria and reality, that ensures both partners feel safe and assured. This is when partners provide each other with physical and/or emotional care, after sexual activity.

Whether you’ve had rough sex OR sensual love-making, aftercare helps transition your primal experience and desires with care, and back into reality.

Why Is Aftercare Necessary?

Sex can be an intense physical and emotional experience, especially when power dynamics, BDSM, or deep fantasies are involved. There are a number of reasons why one may want to engage in aftercare for their partners, whether their sexual relationship is casual or romantic.

Here are a few reasons to engage:

• Emotional Regulation – Sex can trigger adrenaline, endorphins, and even drop in serotonin Aftercare helps balance these emotions.
• Physical Recovery – Soreness, dehydration, exhaustion–even bruises–need attention.
• Trust & Bonding – Reinforces the connection between partners, making them feel secure and loved.
• Closure – Especially important after roleplay or CNC where real emotions may blur with fantasy.

What Does Aftercare Consist Of?

Aftercare can consist of many things for different couples! We’ve compiled a few lists of common aftercare practices, so you can be more intentional with your experiences:

Physical Aftercare:

• Hydration & Snacks – Sex is a workout! Water, juice, or light snacks help recover energy. Liquid IV or another electrolyte beverage is highly recommended!
• Warm Blankets or Baths – Cozy comfort eases the body, especially after an intense experience.
• Fresh Towels – Cleaning up is NOT underrated.
• Gentle Touch & Cuddling – Skin-to-skin contact releases oxytocin (the “love hormone”).
• First Aid (If Needed) – Clean cuts, apply lotion to rope marks, or ice bruises.

Emotional Aftercare:

• Verbal Reassurance – Phrases like “you did so good for me,” and “that was amazing,” go a long way.
• Check-Ins – Ask your partner how they’re feeling, and if they enjoyed their experience.
• Praise & Affection – Compliment their performance, body, or submission/dominance.
• Debrief (If Needed) – Discuss what worked, what didn’t, and desires for next time.

Customized Aftercare (For Kink/BDSM Scenes):

• Aftercare for Submissives/Bottoms – Extra cuddles, soft blankets, fresh towels, reassurance of their worth and safety.
• Aftercare for Dominants/Tops – Acknowledgment of their care, praise for their control.
• Sensory Calming – Dim lights, soft music, weighted blankets, if overstimulated.

How to Make Your Partner Feel Loved (No Matter the Sex Style)

• Be Present – Put away your phone, make eye contact, and truly engage with them and their bodies.
• Follow Their Lead – Some need silence, others need chatter. Read their cues.
• Small Gestures Matter – A forehead kiss, running fingers through their hair, or bringing them water speaks volumes.
• Respect Boundaries – If they need space, don’t take it personally.

Aftercare Is for Everyone

Gentle vanilla lovers, primal beasts, and hardcore kinksters alike all benefit from aftercare. There is no right or wrong way to go about it, so do what works for you and your partner(s). The only wrong way to do it, is if you are refusing to listen to your partners’ needs.

It’s not just for “extreme” sex – it’s about honoring the vulnerability and intimacy you’ve shared, even if it’s casual in nature. We are all human, and have different needs depending on a multitude of factors.

Do you have a favorite aftercare ritual? Share in the comments!

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Getting Comfortable (For the Curious but Nervous)

If you’re just getting your toes wet, you don’t have to get buck wild! There’s content that isn’t “scary”. Softcore or romantic porn might feel more like an ideal or realistic fantasy, or more relatable. It’s an excellent way to explore your visual desires, as they bridge into your more primal nature.

Don’t be afraid to stop something if you’re not enjoying it! Begin with softcore or erotic content and gradually move on to more explicit stuff.

Finding the Right Porn (Because Not All Porn Is Created Equal)

Amongst the sea of erotic novels and romance, it’s clear that many more feminine porn watchers have a different mindset, when it comes to getting off.

Let’s be real—mainstream porn wasn’t made with us in mind. Today we wish to highlight how porn has evolved, and how to get comfortable with using it as the cherry on top of your self-care routines.

There’s so much good stuff out there if you know where to look.

Where to find Porn for Women

Start with Free Platforms to figure out what you like – Pornhub, for example, has a site devoted to Porn for Women, which features passionate sex we can all get behind. Explore niche categories that turn you on, whether it’s lesbian sex, BDSM, or even anime porn (yes, it’s a thing!).

Solo Female Pleasure – If you’re new to porn or want something sensual, solo female creators are your best bet. Think slow teasing, real orgasms, and eye contact that makes you feel seen.

Erotica & Audio Porn – Sometimes, the hottest thing isn’t visuals—it’s words. Erotic stories or ASMR-style whispers (oh hey, r/gonewildaudio) can get you dripping fast.

Female-Directed & Ethical Porn – Erika Lust offers a more curated selection of content that’s designed to cater to women’s tastes. They offer scenes that are built with passion, and storylines that are sensible.

You won’t find any ridiculous “Pizza Boy” content here. Even their anal content is romantic.

Check out my scene reviews to get an idea of what their content includes, as I cover Erika Lust scenes regularly. You can also view ratings from users on the websites, to check ratings from other women. Perspective is important!

Don’t Be Afraid of Your Secret Kinks – Maybe you’re into praise, power play, or voyeuristic scenarios. There’s porn for everything—so don’t be afraid to explore.

Pro Tip: Bookmark a few vids/clips that turn you on instantly. If you create a login, you may be able to save your favorites to a playlist! Your future self will thank you.

Setting the Mood (Because Masturbation Is a Ritual, Not a Chore)

Lighting & Privacy – Lock the door, dim the lights, maybe light a candle. This is your time.

Lube & Toys – Keep ‘em close. If you’re watching something especially filthy, you’ll need them immediately and getting up is a chore.

Headphones – If you enjoy indulging in moans or dirty talk, amplify the experience and keep it discrete!
Just go at it – if you don’t need to romance yourself, don’t sweat it! This is all about YOU, baby.

How to Actually Use Porn (Without Feeling Weird About It)

Alleviate Pressure – You don’t have to finish, and you don’t even have to settle on a scene. Sometimes, it’s just about enjoying yourself.

Sync Your Touches – If you’re watching solo content, mirror her movements. If she’s rubbing her breasts, you rub yours. If it’s a slow, teasing scene, take your time. Match the energy. It’s excellent self-exploration.

Porn as Inspiration – Modify, fantasize, make it your own.

Masturbating to porn is all about embracing your sexuality and exploring your fantasies. This is a normal and healthy thing to enjoy. Remember: You’re Not Weird – Liking porn doesn’t make you “too much.” It makes you a woman who knows what she wants and is open to exploration.

Remember, it’s okay to be curious, and it’s okay to take control of your own pleasure. Own it! You deserve it.

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Step 1: Communication = Foreplay

Before any skin touches skin, have the talk. Not just the “is this cool with you?” kind, but a real, open convo about boundaries, desires, and expectations. This is to enhance intimacy. You’re getting up close and very personal, so make sure everyone’s vibing.

Start slow: No need to go full porn star on your first try.

Step 2: Worship Before Work

If you’re receiving, show some appreciation with a little worship! And no, I don’t mean a few honks and jiggles. Kiss, caress, nibble, and tease. Get your partner aroused and relaxed, and build that sexual tension like a pro.

If you’re giving, encourage your partner to play first, by tempting them with a face-full of your breasts, and playing with them, yourself. There’s nothing sexier than a woman playing with her own breasts!

Hot tip: Dirty talk counts. Telling your partner exactly what you’re about to do? Major turn-on.

Step 3: How To Tittyfuck – Lube Is Your BFF

Here’s the gospel: no lube, no glory. A dry tittyfuck is no fun for anyone. Enter Sliquid Sassy Lube—the holy grail in MY humble opinion. It’s thick, water-based, body-safe, and keeps everything slick without the mess. Plus, it’s helpful for using “down below,” for the more sensitive gals among us (like myself).

Pro move: Warm the lube in your hands, or between your breasts, before sliding them over your partner.

Step 4: Master the Techniques

Ready for the main event? Here are some surefire techniques to try!

• The Boob Sandwich: Press those beauties together nice and tight. Use your hands to eliminate any gaps—skin-to-skin contact is everything. You can even move them, in opposing directions for additional stimulation.
• It’s much easier if they’re sitting and you’re kneeling!
• Start slow: Tease him with a graze from your lips. Or even caress their member with your nipples, then gradually slide it in between those lovely mounds!
• Switch it up: Mix long, sensual strokes with short, fast bounces. Variety keeps it exciting.
• Eyes up here: Eye contact, a cheeky smirk, a whispered “you like that?”. Confidence is sexy.
• Try it laying down: crawl over him on all-fours, love up on his body before letting him penetrate your beautiful cleavage.

Remember, confidence isn’t optional! Crush it, babe.

Step 5: Don’t Forget Yourself

It doesn’t have to be solely about their pleasure. It can be about yours, too! Though, I do recommend some one-sided pleasure once in a while.

Let him hold your breasts and handle the thrusting himself, while you go to town on yourself, or with an internal vibrator. This can be done in bed (with you on all-fours) or in a chair (on your knees). It’ll heighten the whole experience and keep the connection electric.

And remember: Big boobs, small boobs, natural or enhanced—if you own them, they’re perfect. It’s all about how you use them.

Tittyfucking is messy, intimate, ridiculously hot, and best of all, fun. Whether you’re looking to spice up foreplay, or just try something new, this is your guide to making it unforgettable.

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Not only can sex toys enhance pleasure and excitement, but they can also foster deeper connection and help partners learn more about how the other person experiences pleasure. There are so many benefits of using sex toys for couples, and today we have some hot tips and unique toy recommendations to give you a boost, whether you’re in close proximity or even via long distance, to ensure you’re giving each other pleasure no matter what!

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Why Couples Should Try Using Toys in the Bedroom

Using sex toys as a couple can really enhance your intimacy in ways you may not expect! If you or your partner have any taboos surrounding sex, a simply vibrating toy can break down inhibitions and allow some freedom during sensual exploration.

Sex toys can also help to increase intimacy and closeness, as couples work together to find what works best for them. Additionally, using sex toys can add an element of excitement and adventure to the bedroom, keeping things fresh and exciting. It’s awfully nice to shake things up once in awhile.

Using sex toys as a couple can spice up your sex life and lead to more intense and varied experiences. Here are some benefits:

• Enhanced Exploration: Toys allow couples to discover new turn-ons and sensations together.
• Increased Intimacy: The shared experience can bring couples closer together, breaking inhibitions in the bedroom.
• Improved Communication: Both inside and out of the bedroom.
• Accessibility: Sex toys can cater to different needs and preferences, making them suitable for all couples regardless of ability or genitalia.
• Fun and Pleasure: Simply put, toys are fun!

The Importance of Lube

Before you begin penetrating your partner or yourself with toys, it’s essential to talk about lube.

Lubricant is a crucial component of any sexual experience, as it helps to reduce friction and increase pleasure. Lube is not just a complement to sex toys; it’s a crucial component of sexual health and pleasure

When choosing a lube, look for one that is water-based or silicone-based, as these are generally safe to use with most sex toys. Avoid oil-based lubes, as they can damage certain materials. Here are a couple of benefits to including lube in your sexual hygiene:

• Enhances Natural Lubrication: If there are any issues with natural lubrication, this increases safety and pleasure during sexual activity.
• Enhances Sensation: Lube can make sexual experiences more comfortable and pleasurable.
• Ensures Safety: Using lube reduces prevent condom breakage and tissue tearing, reducing the risk of infections and STDs.

If you’re a bit on the sensitive side, I highly recommend Sliquid Lube. My kitty seems to be a precious princess, and not just any lube will do. This product has changed my perspective on lube, and doesn’t throw off my pH. It’s not sticky or smelly, and it’s made with all-natural ingredients. Not to mention, this company has won MANY awards in the intimate industry. It’s a favorite amongst the industry for a reason, so I humbly suggest you give it a try.

Top Sex Toys for Couples

Partners are now enabled to explore new ways of pleasing each other, but some toys are simply meant for enhancing intercourse. This may be an excellent introduction, for those interested in getting their feet wet! These are some of the most talked about sex toys for couples on the market!

Some of these are mostly geared towards penis-in-vagina sex, however we cannot think of any reason why these wouldn’t also serve any couple, for dozens of reasons, regardless of their genitalia.

We-Vibe Sync

The We-Vibe Sync is a wearable vibrator designed to stimulate both partners during penetrative sex, with delicious vibrations. It’s compact and adjustable, ensuring a perfect fit that is “smooth as silk”.

Features:

• Worn during intercourse
• Provides dual stimulation for the G-spot and clitoris
• Adjustable to fit the wearer’s body
• Can be controlled remotely for added convenience

LeloTiani3

The LeloTiani3 is a premium remote-controlled couples’ massager that ensures satisfaction. It’s sleek, powerful, and versatile, suitable for both internal and external stimulation.

Features:

• Remote-controlled for versatile use
• Offers both internal and external stimulation
• Features SenseMotion technology for a more intuitive experience
• Made with body-safe silicone

Lovehoney Magic Wand

The Lovehoney Magic Wand is a powerful vibrator known for its deep, rumbly vibrations. It’s the perfect tool for relaxing tension and enhancing sexual pleasure. Try delivering a body massage, using this in tandem with your hands. And when the heat picks up, you can use this for extra stimulation.

Features:

• Provides intense or targeted stimulation, depending on how it’s used
• Features a soft, cushioned head for comfort
• Offers variable speeds for customizable pleasure
• Powerful vibrations that can be felt even through clothing

Incorporating sex toys for couples like these can revolutionize your sexual experiences. These toys not only add excitement and variety but also encourage intimacy and communication between partners. Get excited and try something new! Remember, the key to a memorable and pleasurable experience is often in the preparation.

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The Naughty List: Santa Role-Playing Ideas To Spice Up Christmas Night

The holiday season is upon us, and what better way to get into the spirit than with some sexy Santa role-playing in the bedroom? Whether you’re a seasoned pro or a newbie to the world of role-play, we’ve got some ideas to get those sleigh bells jingling and your partner’s heart racing.

Create a Festive Atmosphere

First things first, set the mood with a festive atmosphere. Transform your bedroom into a winter wonderland with Christmas lights, garlands, and a mini Christmas tree. This will help you and your partner get into character and feel like you’re in a holiday fantasy. Don’t forget to add some festive tunes to the playlist to really get you in the mood.

Sexy Santa Role Playing Costumes

Next, it’s time to get dressed up in your sexiest Santa or elf costume. For the ladies, a Mrs. Claus outfit with a twist, like a mini skirt or lingerie, is sure to get your partner’s attention. And for the gentlemen, a Santa hat, beard, and coat will make you the hottest Claus in town. Don’t be afraid to get creative and DIY your own costumes – after all, it’s the thought that counts, not the price tag.

Christmas Food Play

Now, onto the fun stuff – food play! Use festive foods like candy canes, holly berries, or Christmas cookies as props for sensual play. Create a “sleigh” of treats, like strawberries, grapes, or chocolate-covered cherries, to feed each other. And for the more indulgent, try using “naughty” treats like whipped cream or chocolate sauce to add an extra layer of excitement to your play.

Elf’s Toybox

Every elf needs a toybox, and we’re not talking about the kind that’s filled with toys for the kiddos. Create a “toybox” of goodies, like sex toys or lingerie, to discover and play with. This can add an extra level of excitement and surprise to your role-play, as you never know what treats you might find inside. Just remember to communicate with your partner about what’s inside the toybox and make sure you’re both comfortable with the activities.

Getting into Character

Now that you’ve got your costume and toybox, it’s time to get into character. Watch some Christmas movies or read some Christmas stories to get into the holiday spirit. Practice your Santa or elf accent and mannerisms to really get into character. And why not create a backstory for your Santa or elf character to add some depth to the scenario? This can help you really get into the role and make the experience even more immersive.

Scenes and Scenarios

Finally, it’s time to play out your scenario. Try playing out a “naughty or nice” scenario, where one partner has to earn their gifts or privileges. Or create a “Santa’s workshop” scene, where one partner has to help the other build a toy or complete a task. You could even try a “Christmas morning” scenario, where one partner wakes the other up with a surprise gift or activity. The possibilities are endless, so get creative and have fun!

And there you have it, folks – our top picks for sexy Santa role-playing ideas for the bedroom. Whether you’re a seasoned pro or just looking to spice up your holiday season, we hope these ideas have given you some inspiration. Remember to always communicate with your partner and prioritize consent and safety above all else. And most importantly, have fun and get into the holiday spirit!

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Pleasure and pain has been likely the most mainstream aspect of BDSM. While I won’t be diving into the spectrum of what that covers, today we’re only discussing a singular aspect that can be used in multiple ways to achieve new heights of pleasure, new sensations and create some enjoyable intimacy. The book Hurts So Good: The Science and Culture of Pain on Purpose explores even the more casual ways humans engage in masochism (the M of BDSM, from tattoos to even people who eat insanely spicy food, on purpose.

Temperature play doesn’t even have to cause pain. It can be as simple as kissing someone’s back with cold lips, or adding a chilling sensation to another body part.

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What is Temperature Play?

If you came up groomed as a hetero female, you’ve probably heard the Cosmo-derived advice of, “suck on an ice cube before you go down”. Look, they’re barely even capable of using the word “penis,” but they’re onto something.

No one ever said that there isn’t such a thing as light BDSM, and realistically, that is anything outside of traditional, analog sex. The reality is, it can be fun way to spice things up. BDSM is your friend, even in a “vanilla” relationship”.

It can be as delicate or as masochistic as you want, especially when play involves heat.

Temperature Play Ideas

Some fun temperature play ideas that go beyond the typical can be fun experimentation, and can be as tame as you desire. The term “Temperature Play” is pretty broad, and usually encompasses the application of heat or cold, in the bedroom. Today, we’ll cover a few forms, to give you some ideas for the next time you’re in need of a little experimentation!

But first– let’s discuss a little bit of safety. You should be prepared for any potential burns, and make sure you aren’t removing ice directly from the freezer to produce sensations in your partner or yourself. Ice and Heat can damage the skin, so please take these safety considerations into account when you engage in temperature play for the first time.

Have something on hand to reverse whatever you’re doing. For example, keep cool water nearby for heat, or warming blankets and pads near for cold play. Make sure safety is at the top of mind, when engaging in this or any BDSM play. Utilize safe words if it helps you and your partner feel more comfortable, during your playtime.

At the end of the day, you are responsible for your and your partner’s safety, along with their consent. Now, let’s get down to the good stuff!

Ice/Cold Play Tips

Ice Play is often where many people begin, and can encompass a lot of action. Be wary of cold burns, and keep warming items on hand, should your partner need them. Warm water, towels, and blankets make for excellent accompaniments. You can incorporate ice/cold play in the following ways:

• Freeze a Glass Dildo for Insertion, or other sex toys
• Ice Cubes for melting on your partner’s nipples, skin, and other erogenous zones.
• Ice cubes to cool your mouth before oral stimulation
• Let an ice cube melt in their belly button
• Use to increase sensations on your partner’s body before performing upon them.
• Use Cold Food to lap up, from your partner’s body
• Induce pain, with pleasure. Responsibly.

Fire/Heat Play Tips

This is a fairly common kink. Personally, my first exposure to this was in the music video to Ricky’s Martin’s 1999 smash hit, “Livin’ la Vida Loca”. Anyone else remember that? Just me? Okay then.

Again, keep your partner’s safety in mind. Make sure you know how to treat a burn (both hot and cold) as accidents do happen. Here are some Fire Play Safety Tips, but here are some fun ways to play with varying degrees of heat in the mean time!

• Hot Towels
• Warming Massages
• Warming a glass or stainless steel sex toys
• Wax Play / Candle Wax (tip, do not use just any candle wax. There are candles manufactured for the explicit purpose of temperature play.)
• Carefully playing with fire, near or directly onto a person’s skin. Responsibly.
• Use of Topicals – Massage Oils, etc.

Some experts may recommend topicals which contain compounds like capsaicin. While topicals like this can provide unique sensations, it’s important to note that they can damage and burn skin. Maybe one day I’ll regale you with a story about accidental temperature play and capsaicin ointment, but that’s… another blog. On that note, I’ll leave you with one last temperature play tip:

Capsaicin is best removed from the skin with dish soap.

It’s Playtime!

As always, any form of kink or BDSM must be approached with consent and a detailed discussion about personal limits and desires. If you’re looking for more specific Temperature Play Tips, please feel free to reach out to me on Twitter/X, or comment on the blog below!

Listen to your partner, play wisely and safely, and you’ll have something fun to incorporate into your routine whenever you’d like!

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