How to Masturbate – Volume II, Intro to Sex Toys

Welcome to the second volume of Pleasure Principles, the second Volume to my How To Masturbate series for those that own vaginas! Check out the first edition Pleasure Principles: Vol. 1 – Intro To The Vulva & Vagina here.

In this edition, we’ll cover the basics of sex toys. We’ll cover everything from nipple stimulators, dildos, bullets, vibrators, and clitoral suckers to get you started on your way to self-pleasure, without use of your own hands.

We’ll discuss the safest ways to use toys, how to keep them clean, and provide tips for maintaining discretion.

I’ll hold your hand. Let’s just call it “Mutual Masturbation”.

Pleasure Principles: Volume II – A Guide to Sex Toys for Vulvas and Vaginas

Nipple Stimulation

Nipple stimulators are a fantastic way to enhance your solo play sessions, with something a little atypical of many users when they learn how to masturbate. These toys work by providing intense and focused stimulation to your nipples. Here are some popular types and tips for using them safely:

  • Nipple Clamps: These come in various styles, from simple clips to adjustable screw clamps. Start with beginner-friendly options and gradually explore more intense ones as you become accustomed to the sensation.These are also excellent for partner play, but that’s another blog!
  • Suction Cups: These create a vacuum-like suction around your nipples, increasing blood flow and sensitivity.
  • Vibrating Nipple Toys: These combine vibration with clamps or suction cups for added pleasure.

Safe Use and Cleaning:

  • Always start with clean toys and hands.
  • Apply a small amount of lube to the nipple area to enhance sensation and reduce friction.
  • Begin with gentle pressure and gradually increase intensity as desired.
  • Clean your toys after each use with warm water and mild soap or a toy cleaner.
  • Store them in a cool, dry place, away from direct sunlight.

How to Masturbate with Dildos

Dildos are classic sex toys designed for penetrative pleasure. In this section, we are specifically discussing the type of dildo that is manual, requiring use of your own hand to thrust them inside of yourself. This gives you a great chance to get truly intimate with yourself and see what you REALLY like. Dildos come in various shapes, sizes, and materials to cater to different preferences. There are even thrusting dildos, themed, and vibrating toys to choose from!

Here’s how to use them safely and effectively:

  • Materials: Choose body-safe materials like silicone, glass, or stainless steel.
  • Sizes: Start with smaller sizes and gradually work your way up if you must! It takes time to decide what you really like.
  • Lubrication: Always use a generous amount of water-based lube for smoother penetration.

Safe Use and Cleaning:

  • Wash your dildo with warm water and mild soap before and after each use.
  • Dry it thoroughly to prevent mold and bacteria growth.
  • Store it in a clean, dry place, preferably in a toy bag or container.

Bullets and Vibrators

Bullets and vibrators are versatile toys that can be used for both clitoral and internal stimulation, depending on the type you purchase. Tip: If you purchase a bullet vibrator and want to experience the fun sensations inside of yourself without risk, put the toy inside of a condom. That will make it easier to pull out when you’re finished! Keep yourself our of the ER. 👀

Vibrators come in various shapes and sizes, with different vibration settings to cater to different preferences. I recommend choosing one with a variety of settings, to increase versatility in your experience.

Types of Vibrators:

  • Bullets: Small and discreet, perfect for targeted clitoral stimulation.
  • Vibrators: Larger and more versatile, suitable for both internal and external use.
  • Dildo: In the shape of a dildo, but battery-powered to vibrate on command while you use it to thrust.

Safe Use and Cleaning:

  • Always use a water-based lube for comfort and enhanced sensation.
  • Wash your toy with warm water and mild soap after each use.
  • Store it in a clean, dry place, away from direct sunlight.

Clitoral Suckers

Ah yes, my personal favorite of the bunch! Clitoral suckers use suction and vibration to provide intense clitoral stimulation. They are designed to mimic the sensation of oral sex and really amplify solo fun with new sensations you don’t usually get on your own. Choose from handheld devices or wearable options for hands-free pleasure, to choose how to masturbate. There aren’t too many variants of this toy, other than some being enabled for fully hands-free fun! Choose a model that has divverent vibration and suction settings to find your perfect rhythm.!

Make sure to check out my sex toy reviews for some of my favorite clitoral suckers.

Safe Use and Cleaning:

  • Apply a small amount of water-based lube to the clitoral area for comfort and enhanced sensation.
  • Wash your toy with warm water and mild soap after each use.
  • Store it in a clean, dry place, away from direct sunlight.

Tips for Discretion

Maintaining privacy and discretion is essential when exploring yourself, intimately.. Here are some tips to help you keep your play sessions private:

  • Soundproofing: Choose a toy that has positive reviews for sound, or go with a manual toy. Use a blanket, pillow, or towel to muffle any sounds that may emanate from your own pleasure.
  • Storage: Store your toys in a discreet, locked drawer or container.
  • Timing: Choose a time when you’re unlikely to be interrupted, just as you might for a meditation session. After all, orgasms are spiritual events. 😇

We hope that by understanding the basics of different types of toys and learning how to masturbate safely can go a long way in your personal self-love sessions. Stay safe, stay clean, and enjoy all the good vibrations you’ll most certainly have cumming!

With Love,

Amara

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Nipple Orgasms – How to Attain Uncharted Sexual Pleasure

Have you even heard of Nipple Orgasms? Not only do they actually exist, but there is a sizeable part of the population that is capable of achieving orgasm from a lot of titty worship. Nipple orgasms are a real and legitimate aspect of human sexuality, offering a new frontier of sexual pleasure and exploration. By understanding the anatomy of the nipple and experimenting with different stimulation techniques, you can unlock the secrets of nipple orgasms and experience a new level of pleasure and intimacy.

When it comes to sexual pleasure, most people focus on the genital area, neglecting the treasure trove of sensations that can be found in other erogenous zones. One such often-overlooked area is the nipples. Yes, you read that right – nipple orgasms are a real thing, and they can be incredibly intense and pleasurable. Nipples can (and should be) an essential part of foreplay to increase general stimulation, but can you REALLY achieve orgasm? Let’s find out!

How Common Are Nipple Orgasms?

While there isn’t a wealth of scientific research on nipple orgasms, anecdotal evidence suggests that they are more common than you might think. Many people, regardless of gender, have reported experiencing nipple orgasms, and some even claim that they are more intense than traditional genital orgasms.

In a survey conducted by the sex education website, OMGYes, 1 in 5 women reported having had a nipple orgasm, with some even experiencing multiple orgasms in a single session. While the numbers might not be staggering, they do indicate that nipple orgasms are not an anomaly, but rather a legitimate aspect of human sexuality.

How to Have a Nipple Orgasm

The key to achieving a nipple orgasm lies in understanding the anatomy of the nipple and the surrounding area, and understanding how your body works. The nipple is a highly sensitive area, packed with nerve endings that respond to stimulation. The areola, the circular area surrounding the nipple, is also rich in nerve endings, making it an erogenous zone in its own right.

To stimulate the nipples, you can try the following techniques:

  • Touch and Tease: Gently touch, caress, or stroke the nipples with your fingers or tongue. This can help build anticipation and arousal.
  • Suck and Lick: Sucking and licking th e nipples can be incredibly pleasurable, especially when combined with gentle biting or nibbling.
  • Pinch and Roll: Pinching or rolling the nipples between your fingers can create a delicious sensation, especially when combined with other forms of stimulation.
  • Vibrations: Using a vibrator or other sex toy to stimulate the nipples can be a great way to add intensity to your play.

While some humans can experience nipple orgasm with prolonged nipple stimulation, some of us need a little bit more. Take your time, and get yourself good and warmed up. Sometimes, they may be even more sensitive after already experiencing a particularly strong orgasm. Thus meaning stimulation of the nipples can provide a sensory explosion you were not prepared to experience (but it is worth it)!

Sidenote: did you know you can use clitoral stimulators on your nipples? Check out my review of Eve’s Ravishing Rose!

So, if you’re continuing to play even after orgasm, you may want to ask your partner to perform a little titty worshiping. It’s like a reward. 😉 You’ll already be relaxed and loosened up, allowing for more unique sensations to soar.

What does a nipple orgasm feel like?

Describing the sensation can be challenging, but many people report that it’s similar to a traditional genital orgasm, but with a few key differences.

  • Intense Pleasure: Nipple orgasms can be incredibly intense, with some people reporting that they feel like a wave of pleasure washing over them.
  • Full-Body Sensation: Unlike genital orgasms, which are often focused in the genital area, nipple orgasms can create a full-body sensation, with pleasure radiating throughout the entire body.
  • Tingling and Numbing: Some people report that nipple orgasms can create a tingling or numbing sensation in the nipples and surrounding area, which can be incredibly pleasurable.

Remember, sexual pleasure is all about exploration and experimentation, so don’t be afraid to try new things and see what works for you. And who knows – you might just discover a new favorite way to orgasm. And if you’d like to hear about my personal experience with Nipple Orgasms, go ahead and make a comment below! 😘

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Sex Toy Review – Eve’s Ravishing Rose by Adam & Eve

I am so excited to chat with y’all about Eve’s Ravishing Rose review from Adam & Eve, today. This seems to be one rose of many options now available on the market, not including the original. When the rose first went viral, and many of us had to get one immediately. I can be a little slow on the uptake, but I have vowed to stop being so resistant to trends. I regret not jumping on this one sooner! 

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I figured that if this rose was as good as everyone says, I would be in for a treat. Plus as someone who is extremely feminine, I happen to be a sucker for anything “rose” themed. So I knew I had to give it a shot. 

I began building up my order, since I deserved a little spoiling. And so do you, baby. I was most excited to get this little sucker into my hot little hands. Well, it’s a good thing I finally decided to experience the pleasure of the rose, because this lil’ rose is actually the sucker for me. 

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Eve’s Ravishing Rose Review – Toy Description

The description from the manufacturer boasts that the “Beautiful Rechargeable Rose Hides 10 Wild Functions Of Pulsating Air!” This is a clitoral or nipple stimulating toy, that provides pulsing air sensations to stimulate, with or without your hands.

This device uses pressurized air to deliver everything from gentle stimulation, all the way up to something more intense, with their variety of settings. There are 10 different stimulation modes that will have your toes curling while you’re warm and cozy in bed, or discreetly in the shower. 

That’s right! Thanks to its silicone and ABS plastic parts, this toy is meant to work beautifully in the shower, making a literal splash in your pleasure collection.

Plus, Eve’s Ravishing Rose simply looks beautiful simply standing on its charger! It comes with a standing charger base, so you can admire your rose with all its beauty, when you aren’t admiring it for its pleasurable power.  

Key Features (directly from the manufacturer website)

  • Rose-shaped air pulsing stimulator
  • Feel 10 pulsating air functions
  • Waterproof for fun in the shower & easy cleaning
  • Easy, single button control with LED light
  • 3 inches tall by 2.28 inches wide
  • Made from body-safe silicone with an ABS plastic base
  • Rechargeable stimulator runs up to 90 minutes
  • Feels even better with a water-based lube
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First-Hand Use

If you love good oral sex, Eve’s Ravishing Rose is stimulating in the same ways. I find it to be an excellent addition to my collection, varying the sensations I have at my fingertips. In a nutshell, I found this toy to be deeply stimulating, allowing the ability to create Earth quaking orgasms, all by yourself. This is especially evident, when you’ve been brought to full arousal and/or with added lube. 

I personally use a water-based lube, also from Adam & Eve. It’s perfect for most purposes, especially if you need a little help getting warmed up. I personally love this brand because it doesn’t leave me sticky, and it compliments my natural lubrication. Your mileage may vary. 

Some of my favorite features of this toy are its compact size and ease of control, with a single button. Even if you have to find the button in the dark, it’s easy as pie to use for a sweet nighttime solo sendoff. The Ravishing Rose is controlled by a single button, which makes it easy to control.

The company size of the rose is perfect for hands-free stimulation. I love to set it upon my clit, and the rose holds firm to its placement as I close my thighs over it. If you’re especially efficient, you’ll leave the button available to press easily to begin exploring the 10 powerful settings.

Fortunately, I went through every single setting, so you know what to expect when you’re pleasuring yourself at my recommendation. *wink*

We’ll go through all the settings for the Eve’s Ravishing Rose Review! ⬇️

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1st – Consistent Stimulation, Delicate Speed and Pressure. This setting is excellent for warming up, if you’re not using fingers to do so. It’s the most gentle setting on this toy. However, if you have never used a clit stimulator, it may be a bit jarring. Stay the course, it’s worth it.

2nd – Consistent Stimulation, Moderate Speed and Pressure. This is an excellent setting for when you’re growing arousal.

3rd – Consistent Stimulation, Increased Speed and Pressure. This is the sweet spot.

4th – Consistent Stimulation, The Most Intense. This is usually my finisher! Though, sometimes 5 is the one that takes my soul for the night.

5th – Intense Pulsing Rhythm. This rhythm is probably my personal favorite of the other rhythm settings. It’s as intense as setting #4, but pulsing in an excellent pattern that increases sensations so, that my hips rock and my eyes roll back. Tip: Stimulate yourself with the stop-go pulse, and bring it down to the least intense mode for edging.

6th – Stagnant Staccato Rhythm, with Moderate Intensity. Personally, not my favorite for long-term stimulation, but it’s a nice change of pace when you’re cycling through the speeds.

7th – Stagnant Staccato Rhythm, with Elevated Intensity. I feel the same way about this as I do the 6th setting. It’s a little boring for me. #4 is far more stimulating, but this is also a nice way to moderate your climax if you want to play with yourself, just a little longer.

8th – Longer Staccato Rhythm, Most Intense. Now this one is good enough to daydream about! My body changes in unique ways when I use this setting, leading to intense pulsing and shaking of my hips. My eyes begin to droop. I cannot imagine it’s pretty. When that gets too intense, I like to bring it back down to lower stimulating settings.

9th – Fast Bursts, Delicate Pressure. This is a nice teaser to calm yourself down, when it’s necessary. Such as, when you’ve spent too much time in #8.

10th – Fast Bursts, Intense Pressure. To me this one feels like horses are galloping all over my clitoris. Holy moly, it’s a hailstorm of pleasure swirling, making you contort in ways you’d be ashamed to be seen in! This is one that needs a little bit of relief, especially if you’re not ready to climax. The feeling of coming down from this to the lowest setting is an extreme drop, but useful for creating dynamics in your masturbation routine.

Each of the settings has their benefits. The only thing I find myself wanting is ability to simply choose the setting I want, but that would take away from the Rose’s ease of use. I recommend finding the pressure that works best for you, and working with that one primarily. They all have their benefits, and we all like different things. 

This is an excellent toy to use if you also want to explore what you like. I suggest shifting the settings throughout your experience; not only to prolong climax, but to make it all the more satisfying when you finish. if you’re in a mood to give yourself a little taste of luxury with an affordable price tag, you really should introduce yourself to the Ravishing Rose! You can buy it here on Amazon, or from the manufacturer website.

Have you also used this product or a similar one? What did you think of this Eve’s Ravishing Rose Review? We want to hear your experience, so let us know in the comments or on social media!

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