Listen up–porn is fun. You’re not the only one curious about porn. Porn for Women, and those with more femme sensibilities, is a growing genre with more and more real pleasure, thought-out storylines, and real chemistry. More and more femmes are embracing their sexuality, and exploring the world of pornography. If we can turn you from porn-shy to at least porn-curious, we’ll consider our job here to be complete!

Getting Comfortable (For the Curious but Nervous)

If you’re just getting your toes wet, you don’t have to get buck wild! There’s content that isn’t “scary”. Softcore or romantic porn might feel more like an ideal or realistic fantasy, or more relatable. It’s an excellent way to explore your visual desires, as they bridge into your more primal nature.

Don’t be afraid to stop something if you’re not enjoying it! Begin with softcore or erotic content and gradually move on to more explicit stuff.

Finding the Right Porn (Because Not All Porn Is Created Equal)

Amongst the sea of erotic novels and romance, it’s clear that many more feminine porn watchers have a different mindset, when it comes to getting off.

Let’s be real—mainstream porn wasn’t made with us in mind. Today we wish to highlight how porn has evolved, and how to get comfortable with using it as the cherry on top of your self-care routines.

There’s so much good stuff out there if you know where to look.

Where to find Porn for Women

Start with Free Platforms to figure out what you like – Pornhub, for example, has a site devoted to Porn for Women, which features passionate sex we can all get behind. Explore niche categories that turn you on, whether it’s lesbian sex, BDSM, or even anime porn (yes, it’s a thing!).

Solo Female Pleasure – If you’re new to porn or want something sensual, solo female creators are your best bet. Think slow teasing, real orgasms, and eye contact that makes you feel seen.

Erotica & Audio Porn – Sometimes, the hottest thing isn’t visuals—it’s words. Erotic stories or ASMR-style whispers (oh hey, r/gonewildaudio) can get you dripping fast.

Female-Directed & Ethical Porn – Lust Cinema offers a more curated selection of content that’s designed to cater to women’s tastes. They offer scenes that are built with passion, and storylines that are sensible.

You won’t find any ridiculous “Pizza Boy” content here. Even their anal content is romantic. 😮‍💨

Check out my scene reviews to get an idea of what their content includes, as I cover Lust Cinema regularly. You can also view ratings from users on the websites, to check ratings from other women. Perspective is important!

Don’t Be Afraid of Your Secret Kinks – Maybe you’re into praise, power play, or voyeuristic scenarios. There’s porn for everything—so don’t be afraid to explore.

Pro Tip: Bookmark a few vids/clips that turn you on instantly. If you create a login, you may be able to save your favorites to a playlist! Your future self will thank you.

Setting the Mood (Because Masturbation Is a Ritual, Not a Chore)

Lighting & Privacy – Lock the door, dim the lights, maybe light a candle. This is your time.

Lube & Toys – Keep ‘em close. If you’re watching something especially filthy, you’ll need them immediately and getting up is a chore. 😉

Headphones – If you enjoy indulging in moans or dirty talk, amplify the experience and keep it discrete!
Just go at it – if you don’t need to romance yourself, don’t sweat it! This is all about YOU, baby.

How to Actually Use Porn (Without Feeling Weird About It)

Alleviate Pressure – You don’t have to finish, and you don’t even have to settle on a scene. Sometimes, it’s just about enjoying yourself.

Sync Your Touches – If you’re watching solo content, mirror her movements. If she’s rubbing her breasts, you rub yours. If it’s a slow, teasing scene, take your time. Match the energy. It’s excellent self-exploration.

Porn as Inspiration – Modify, fantasize, make it your own.

Masturbating to porn is all about embracing your sexuality and exploring your fantasies. This is a normal and healthy thing to enjoy. Remember: You’re Not Weird – Liking porn doesn’t make you “too much.” It makes you a woman who knows what she wants and is open to exploration.

Remember, it’s okay to be curious, and it’s okay to take control of your own pleasure. Own it! You deserve it.

So, you want to give—or receive—a truly unforgettable tittyfuck? Well, lucky for you this article is here to teach you how to tittyfuck! Buckle up, my sexy peaches, because we’re about to turn this underrated move into a full-blown masterpiece. Whether you’re rocking a glorious pair of double Ds (or Beyond the DD) or working with perfectly perky handfuls, tittyfucking is all about confidence, creativity, and connection.

Step 1: Communication = Foreplay

Before any skin touches skin, have the talk. Not just the “is this cool with you?” kind, but a real, open convo about boundaries, desires, and expectations. This move isn’t just physical—it’s intimate. You’re getting up close and very personal, so make sure everyone’s vibing.

Start slow: No need to go full porn star on your first try.

Step 2: Worship Before Work

If you’re receiving, show some appreciation with a little worship! And no, I don’t mean a few honks and jiggles. Kiss, caress, nibble, and tease. Get your partner aroused and relaxed, and build that sexual tension like a pro.

If you’re giving, encourage your partner to play first, by tempting them with a face-full of your breasts, and playing with them, yourself. There’s nothing sexier than a woman playing with her own breasts!

Hot tip: Dirty talk counts. Telling your partner exactly what you’re about to do? Major turn-on.

Step 3: How To Tittyfuck – Lube Is Your BFF

Here’s the gospel: no lube, no glory. A dry tittyfuck is no fun for anyone. Enter Sliquid Sassy Lube—the holy grail of glide. It’s thick, water-based, body-safe, and keeps everything slick without the mess. Plus, it’s helpful for using “down below,” for the more sensitive gals among us.

Pro move: Warm the lube in your hands, or between your breasts, before sliding them over your partner.

Step 4: Master the Techniques

Ready for the main event? Here are some surefire techniques to try!

• The Boob Sandwich: Press those beauties together nice and tight. Use your hands to eliminate any gaps—skin-to-skin contact is everything. You can even move them, in opposing directions.
• Start slow: Tease him with a graze. Even caressing their member with your nipples, then gradually slide him in between those lovely mounds!
• Switch it up: Mix long, sensual strokes with short, fast bounces. Variety keeps it exciting. It’s much easier if they’re eating!
• Eyes up here: Eye contact, a cheeky smirk, a whispered “you like that?”—these are power moves.
• Try it laying down: crawl over him on all-fours, love up on his body before letting him penetrate your beautiful cleavage.

Remember, confidence isn’t optional—it’s the whole damn outfit.

Step 5: Don’t Forget Yourself

It doesn’t have to be solely about their pleasure. It can be about yours, too! Though, I do recommend some one-sided pleasure once in a while.

Let him hold your breasts and handle the thrusting himself, while you go to town on yourself, or with an internal vibrator. This can be done in bed (with you on all-fours) or in a chair (on your knees). It’ll heighten the whole experience and keep the connection electric.

And remember: Big boobs, small boobs, natural or enhanced—if you own them, they’re perfect. It’s all about how you use them.

Tittyfucking isn’t just a technique—it’s an attitude. It’s messy, intimate, ridiculously hot, and best of all, fun. Whether you’re looking to spice up foreplay, go full glam with a boob-focused show, or just try something new, this is your guide to making it unforgettable.

Wanna break out of your shell? Are you tired of playing it safe and suppressing your inner sass? Do you want to tap into your inner seductress and manifest a life that’s full of passion, power, and pleasure? Then it’s time to help you find your inner Jezebel. Let’s talk about how to create a vision board, to grow your fierce sensuality.

Who was Jezebel, anyway?

Jezebel was a biblical bad girl, known for her fierce independence, her love of luxury, and her unapologetic sensuality. She was a queen who refused to conform to societal norms, and instead, forged her own path. And that’s exactly what we’re going to tap into with this vision board – your inner Jezebel, the one who’s not afraid to take risks, to be bold, and to demand what she wants. Perhaps I should cover Jezebel in the next edition of Lust & Lore? Let me know in the comments!

Why Do I Need a Vision Board?

Wild women shouldn’t be tamed. As a huge fan of wild women, myself, I knew I wanted to be one. In a world that often tries to tame our wildness and stifle our desires, a vision board is a powerful tool to help you reclaim your inner Jezebel. If you’re a visual person, it helps you get clear on your vision.

A vision board is a visual representation of your desires–a collage of images, words, and textures that evoke feelings and emotions. By creating a vision board, you’re taking ownership of your outcomes. For this one, we are going to focus on your sensuality, celebrating your uniqueness, and manifesting a life that honors your deepest desires.

If nothing else, it’s a way to get a clear vision of what you want to be, or what you want to do. Sometimes we don’t know what we want, until we put it together and see it for ourselves!

How to Create a Vision Board to Find Your Inner Jezebel

Gather your materials:

• A large piece of cardboard, paper, or canvas
• Magazines, scissors, and glue
• Markers, paint, or colored pencils
• Photographs, fabrics, and other textures
• Any personal items that hold significance to your sensuality (e.g., a piece of lingerie, a rose petal, or a love letter)

Set Your Intention

Find a quiet, comfortable space where you can relax and tap into your inner world. Take a few deep breaths, and ask yourself: “What does my inner Jezebel look like? What does she want, and what does she deserve?” Allow your thoughts to flow, and write down your intentions.

Gather Your Inspiration

Flip through magazines, and cut out images that evoke feelings of sass, seduction, and empowerment. These can be images of strong women, luxurious settings, or sensual art. Collect words and phrases that resonate with your intentions, such as “unstoppable,” “fearless,” or “unapologetic.”

Create Your Vision Board

Begin arranging your images, words, and textures on your board. Group similar themes together, or create a flowing narrative that tells the story of your inner Jezebel’s journey. Add personal items that hold significance to your sensuality, and don’t be afraid to get creative with colors, shapes, and patterns.

Activate Your Board

Hang your vision board in a place where you’ll see it daily, such as your bedroom or meditation space. Take a few moments each day to gaze at your board, allowing the images and words to sink deep into your subconscious. Repeat your intentions out loud, and feel the energy of your inner Jezebel manifesting in your life.

Tips and Variations

• Create a digital vision board on Pinterest or Canva, and set it as your phone’s wallpaper or computer background.
• Invite friends over for a vision board party, and explore each other’s inner Jezebels.
• Update your vision board seasonally, reflecting your growth and evolution as a sensual being.

A vision board is a powerful tool to connect with your inner Jezebel, to manifest your desires, and to celebrate your unique sensuality. By embracing your inner Jezebel, you’re not only becoming the best version of yourself, but you’re also contributing to a world that honors and celebrates women’s power and sensuality. So, take the first step, and create a vision board today.

Welcome to the second volume of Pleasure Principles, the second Volume to my How To Masturbate series for those that own vaginas! Check out the first edition Pleasure Principles: Vol. 1 – Intro To The Vulva & Vagina here.

In this edition, we’ll cover the basics of sex toys. We’ll cover everything from nipple stimulators, dildos, bullets, vibrators, and clitoral suckers to get you started on your way to self-pleasure, without use of your own hands.

We’ll discuss the safest ways to use toys, how to keep them clean, and provide tips for maintaining discretion.

I’ll hold your hand. Let’s just call it “Mutual Masturbation”.

Pleasure Principles: Volume II – A Guide to Sex Toys for Vulvas and Vaginas

Nipple Stimulation

Nipple stimulators are a fantastic way to enhance your solo play sessions, with something a little atypical of many users when they learn how to masturbate. These toys work by providing intense and focused stimulation to your nipples. Here are some popular types and tips for using them safely:

• Nipple Clamps: These come in various styles, from simple clips to adjustable screw clamps. Start with beginner-friendly options and gradually explore more intense ones as you become accustomed to the sensation.These are also excellent for partner play, but that’s another blog!
• Suction Cups: These create a vacuum-like suction around your nipples, increasing blood flow and sensitivity.
• Vibrating Nipple Toys: These combine vibration with clamps or suction cups for added pleasure.

Safe Use and Cleaning:

• Always start with clean toys and hands.
• Apply a small amount of lube to the nipple area to enhance sensation and reduce friction.
• Begin with gentle pressure and gradually increase intensity as desired.
• Clean your toys after each use with warm water and mild soap or a toy cleaner.
• Store them in a cool, dry place, away from direct sunlight.

How to Masturbate with Dildos

Dildos are classic sex toys designed for penetrative pleasure. In this section, we are specifically discussing the type of dildo that is manual, requiring use of your own hand to thrust them inside of yourself. This gives you a great chance to get truly intimate with yourself and see what you REALLY like. Dildos come in various shapes, sizes, and materials to cater to different preferences. There are even thrusting dildos, themed, and vibrating toys to choose from!

Here’s how to use them safely and effectively:

• Materials: Choose body-safe materials like silicone, glass, or stainless steel.
• Sizes: Start with smaller sizes and gradually work your way up if you must! It takes time to decide what you really like.
• Lubrication: Always use a generous amount of water-based lube for smoother penetration.

Safe Use and Cleaning:

• Wash your dildo with warm water and mild soap before and after each use.
• Dry it thoroughly to prevent mold and bacteria growth.
• Store it in a clean, dry place, preferably in a toy bag or container.

Bullets and Vibrators

Bullets and vibrators are versatile toys that can be used for both clitoral and internal stimulation, depending on the type you purchase. Tip: If you purchase a bullet vibrator and want to experience the fun sensations inside of yourself without risk, put the toy inside of a condom. That will make it easier to pull out when you’re finished! Keep yourself our of the ER. 👀

Vibrators come in various shapes and sizes, with different vibration settings to cater to different preferences. I recommend choosing one with a variety of settings, to increase versatility in your experience.

Types of Vibrators:

• Bullets: Small and discreet, perfect for targeted clitoral stimulation.
• Vibrators: Larger and more versatile, suitable for both internal and external use.
• Dildo: In the shape of a dildo, but battery-powered to vibrate on command while you use it to thrust.

Safe Use and Cleaning:

• Always use a water-based lube for comfort and enhanced sensation.
• Wash your toy with warm water and mild soap after each use.
• Store it in a clean, dry place, away from direct sunlight.

Clitoral Suckers

Ah yes, my personal favorite of the bunch! Clitoral suckers use suction and vibration to provide intense clitoral stimulation. They are designed to mimic the sensation of oral sex and really amplify solo fun with new sensations you don’t usually get on your own. Choose from handheld devices or wearable options for hands-free pleasure, to choose how to masturbate. There aren’t too many variants of this toy, other than some being enabled for fully hands-free fun! Choose a model that has divverent vibration and suction settings to find your perfect rhythm.!

Make sure to check out my sex toy reviews for some of my favorite clitoral suckers.

Safe Use and Cleaning:

• Apply a small amount of water-based lube to the clitoral area for comfort and enhanced sensation.
• Wash your toy with warm water and mild soap after each use.
• Store it in a clean, dry place, away from direct sunlight.

Tips for Discretion

Maintaining privacy and discretion is essential when exploring yourself, intimately.. Here are some tips to help you keep your play sessions private:

• Soundproofing: Choose a toy that has positive reviews for sound, or go with a manual toy. Use a blanket, pillow, or towel to muffle any sounds that may emanate from your own pleasure.
• Storage: Store your toys in a discreet, locked drawer or container.
• Timing: Choose a time when you’re unlikely to be interrupted, just as you might for a meditation session. After all, orgasms are spiritual events. 😇

We hope that by understanding the basics of different types of toys and learning how to masturbate safely can go a long way in your personal self-love sessions. Stay safe, stay clean, and enjoy all the good vibrations you’ll most certainly have cumming!

With Love,

Amara

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While I love my original rose, as soon as I saw the MOOLIGIRL Rose Sex Toy, I knew I had to try it. Today, we’re going to take a look at all its features and see if this hot, multi-faceted toy is enough for me to keep cumming right back to this toy, over and over again.This toy has so many features to enjoy, so if you’re more of a one-and-done kind of masturbator, this may not be the toy for you!

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The MOOLIGIRL Rose seemed to be a popular choice, with plenty of excellent reviews. We’ll have to see if this amazing toy meets my needs! Also make sure to check out my review of Eve’s Ravishing Rose!

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Toy Description

Explore new realms of pleasure with the MOOLIGIRL Rose Sex Toy, featuring separate controls for suction and thrust. This innovative toy stimulates your clit externally and G-spot internally, providing a dual experience perfect for both beginners and pros.

The clit sucker utilizes air pressure to stimulate, offering 10 suction modes ranging from gentle to intense. Unlike traditional suction vibrators, this toy targets the entire clitoral area as well as the ability to stimulate yourself vaginally. With 6-inch insertable length and 5-inch girth, this toy is optimal for solo play or even a surprising addition to the bedroom.

Key Features (directly from the manufacturer website)

• For Beginners and expert players – Independent Control for sucking and thrusting
• Three powerful motors bring triple enjoyment from the inside out.
• Upgraded suction technology is like a subtle wave that offers layered sensations.
• Body Safe Silicone
• 100% Waterproof
• USB Rechargeable
• 10 Setting Modes for Suction and Thrusting
• Comes in Pink, Black or Purple!

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First-Hand Use

I’m thrilled to share my experience with the MOOLIGIRL Rose Sex Toy, and I must say, it’s been a game-changer for me! As someone who’s always on the lookout for innovative and effective adult toys, I was excited to try this one out. The first thing that caught my attention was the sleek design and the soft, silky touch of the body-friendly silicone. It’s clear that the manufacturer has put a lot of thought into creating a product that’s not only pleasurable but also comfortable to use.

What really impressed me, though, was the upgraded features of this toy. The sucking, thrusting, and vibration functions are incredibly powerful and versatile. The 6-inch insertable length and 5-inch girth of the thrusting dildo are perfect for targeting my G spot and vaginal muscles, providing an intense and satisfying massage. The vibrations are strong and rumbly, and the suction function is surprisingly effective at stimulating my clitoris.

I’ve been using the MOOLIGIRL Rose for a few weeks now, and I can confidently say that it’s become a staple in my self-care routine. The waterproof design makes it easy to clean, and the rechargeable battery means I don’t have to worry about it running out of power mid-session. Overall, I’m extremely happy with this purchase, and I would highly recommend it to anyone looking for a high-quality, effective, and comfortable adult toy!

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Today we review the plusOne Bullet Vibrator! This tiny little toy caught my attention with the tagline “invite a little pleasure”. That makes the Which is fair, because sometimes you need to invite a little pleasure into your lives! I am always excited to unbox a new sex toy, and did not have a bullet in my collection any longer. I thought this lipstick sized vibrator would be a cute addition to my pleasure arsenal. 

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PlusOne is not a brand I was aware of before I looked for the top sex toys on Amazon, but I am glad I learned more about this brand. This bullet vibrator packs quite a punch, from a brand that promotes inclusivity in sexuality, including accessible products that are easy to use and integrate in any lifestyle. This is one of their best selling products, and appears to be for a few reasons I intend to examine with you today! This product is just one part of their entire arsenal of products that accommodate for a variety of sexual wellness needs including kegela trainers, prostate massages, age-based massagers and more!

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Toy Description

The plusOne Bullet Vibrator is a compact vibe designed with discretion in mind. Upon first sight, it’s sleek, and comes in an array of colors, but ensures easy transport in a miniature package. 

This mini vibrator comes in 5 different colors. Not only is it tiny, but it’s also quiet, allowing for a discreet experience. This tiny temptation boasts a surprising 10 vibration modes that will have you exploring on your own, in your bed or even in the shower.

This toy is designed with premium silicone and fits nicely in your hand. You won’t have to worry about water damage, so don’t worry about how easy it is to clean. It is a cinch!

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Key Features (directly from the manufacturer website)

The Original Trusted Classic: Whether you want to spice up your solo play or add some excitement to your relationship, our bullet vibrator is your new best friend

10 Vibration Settings: The plusOne vibrating bullet is small but powerful. Easily cycle through 10 intensity levels with one button to find your perfect setting

100% Waterproof: This bullet is fully waterproof, making it easy to clean and perfect for use in the shower or bath

High-Quality Body Safe Silicone: Featuring a soft velvety touch, the bullet is made with body-safe silicone that is skin-friendly and free from phthalates, BPA and latex

Discreet And Pocket Sized: At only 3″ in length, it’s about the same size as your favorite lipstick. Fits easily in your pocket so you can discreetly take anywhere

First-Hand Use

This plusOne Bullet Vibrator claims to pack quite a punch in a tiny package. Upon reading the reviews, I was excited to get it in my hot little hands. I have been missing the convenience of a bullet vibrator and I was hoping to find that this would be the one that would make my naughty urges far more expedient, and expand my options. I will admit, this brand being available in CVS, et al, definitely made me feel a little put off. However, I think it’s a good thing we’re able to include sexual wellness in a place just as innocuous as a drugstore.

First impressions are important, and the packaging is lovely. They’re presented well, which adds to a little bit of self-romance. This vibrator is about 1-inch wide, and 3-inches long. This is the perfect lipstick vibrator. It comes with a charger and full set of instructions, and they do recommend a full charge for the first time. Battery life ultimately depends on you; how long you take to have an orgasm, how often you use the toy, etc.. Each charge should get you up to two hours of use. 

Being that this company focuses on accessibility for a variety of sexual health needs, this toy is easy to grip and maneuver. If you’re petite, or simply have small hands, you won’t fumble too much using this toy.  If you’re working on yourself for 10-15 minutes at a time, I don’t see any issues with performance. If you’re a long haul user, maybe consider keeping this in your arsenal only for times when you need something quick and/or portable.  

Quiet, Discreet Bullet Vibrator that Travels Well

This toy may be small, but it is certainly capable of powerful vibrations! As I mentioned previously, this little sucker has 10 vibration modes. I couldn’t believe it, so I had to try them all for myself. I have to say that the low modes are simply not enough for me. Personally, I think the toy is a bit too narrow for my preferences, as well. If you like a wider surface area, this is simply not the toy for you. However, it can still get the job done, so that definitely counts for something.

If you’re new to masturbation, make sure to check out the first volume in my How To Masturbate Series!

Be that as it may, it’s surprisingly powerful for what it is. It’s great for traveling. I also believe this toy is great for beginners, partner play, or people just getting used to enjoying clitoral stimulation! If you want one, you can buy the plusOneBullet Vibrator Now on Amazon!

Have you also used this product or a similar one? We want to hear your experience, so let us know in the comments or on social media!

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Have you even heard of Nipple Orgasms? Not only do they actually exist, but there is a sizeable part of the population that is capable of achieving orgasm from a lot of titty worship. Nipple orgasms are a real and legitimate aspect of human sexuality, offering a new frontier of sexual pleasure and exploration. By understanding the anatomy of the nipple and experimenting with different stimulation techniques, you can unlock the secrets of nipple orgasms and experience a new level of pleasure and intimacy.

When it comes to sexual pleasure, most people focus on the genital area, neglecting the treasure trove of sensations that can be found in other erogenous zones. One such often-overlooked area is the nipples. Yes, you read that right – nipple orgasms are a real thing, and they can be incredibly intense and pleasurable. Nipples can (and should be) an essential part of foreplay to increase general stimulation, but can you REALLY achieve orgasm? Let’s find out!

How Common Are Nipple Orgasms?

While there isn’t a wealth of scientific research on nipple orgasms, anecdotal evidence suggests that they are more common than you might think. Many people, regardless of gender, have reported experiencing nipple orgasms, and some even claim that they are more intense than traditional genital orgasms.

In a survey conducted by the sex education website, OMGYes, 1 in 5 women reported having had a nipple orgasm, with some even experiencing multiple orgasms in a single session. While the numbers might not be staggering, they do indicate that nipple orgasms are not an anomaly, but rather a legitimate aspect of human sexuality.

How to Have a Nipple Orgasm

The key to achieving a nipple orgasm lies in understanding the anatomy of the nipple and the surrounding area, and understanding how your body works. The nipple is a highly sensitive area, packed with nerve endings that respond to stimulation. The areola, the circular area surrounding the nipple, is also rich in nerve endings, making it an erogenous zone in its own right.

To stimulate the nipples, you can try the following techniques:

• Touch and Tease: Gently touch, caress, or stroke the nipples with your fingers or tongue. This can help build anticipation and arousal.
• Suck and Lick: Sucking and licking th e nipples can be incredibly pleasurable, especially when combined with gentle biting or nibbling.
• Pinch and Roll: Pinching or rolling the nipples between your fingers can create a delicious sensation, especially when combined with other forms of stimulation.
• Vibrations: Using a vibrator or other sex toy to stimulate the nipples can be a great way to add intensity to your play.

While some humans can experience nipple orgasm with prolonged nipple stimulation, some of us need a little bit more. Take your time, and get yourself good and warmed up. Sometimes, they may be even more sensitive after already experiencing a particularly strong orgasm. Thus meaning stimulation of the nipples can provide a sensory explosion you were not prepared to experience (but it is worth it)!

Sidenote: did you know you can use clitoral stimulators on your nipples? Check out my review of Eve’s Ravishing Rose!

So, if you’re continuing to play even after orgasm, you may want to ask your partner to perform a little titty worshiping. It’s like a reward. 😉 You’ll already be relaxed and loosened up, allowing for more unique sensations to soar.

What does a nipple orgasm feel like?

Describing the sensation can be challenging, but many people report that it’s similar to a traditional genital orgasm, but with a few key differences.

• Intense Pleasure: Nipple orgasms can be incredibly intense, with some people reporting that they feel like a wave of pleasure washing over them.
• Full-Body Sensation: Unlike genital orgasms, which are often focused in the genital area, nipple orgasms can create a full-body sensation, with pleasure radiating throughout the entire body.
• Tingling and Numbing: Some people report that nipple orgasms can create a tingling or numbing sensation in the nipples and surrounding area, which can be incredibly pleasurable.

Remember, sexual pleasure is all about exploration and experimentation, so don’t be afraid to try new things and see what works for you. And who knows – you might just discover a new favorite way to orgasm. And if you’d like to hear about my personal experience with Nipple Orgasms, go ahead and make a comment below! 😘

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Sexual taboos have been a part of society for ages! But what if I told you that some of these taboos could actually benefit you? Let’s debunk these myths and explore how embracing certain sexual taboos can be good for your well-being. This list is by no means exhaustive, and they’re certainly not all meant for everyone.

This is a list of fun ideas to help ignite the potential in your bedroom! My advice:  proceed with caution! Make sure you understand your own boundaries before making any changes in your relationship. Not all of these ideas will work for everyone, but we should all be aware of the ways “taboo” ideals can improve our love lives.

7 Sexual Taboos (That Are Good For You)

1. The Power of Role-playing

Have you ever dabbled in acting? 🎭  Whether you’re exploring a new persona or enacting a fantasy, role-playing adds an element of excitement and playfulness to your intimate encounters.

The beauty of role-playing lies in its ability to break down inhibitions. This opens a door to candid conversations about desires and preferences. You can explore hidden facets of your personality and unleash a sense of freedom in expressing your deepest fantasies. Role-playing goes beyond the physical act – it delves into the realms of emotion and imagination, enriching your sexual experiences with a touch of theatricality and intrigue.

2. Exploring BDSM Dynamics

Diving into BDSM dynamics can foster trust, communication, and a deeper understanding of your desires and boundaries. This realm of sexual exploration transcends mere physicality, delving deep into the psychology of power dynamics and consent. Contrary to misconceptions, BDSM is grounded in mutual respect and clear communication. This creates space for partners to navigate complex desires and boundaries openly.

Exploring BDSM dynamics encourages individuals to confront their vulnerabilities and communicate their needs effectively, fostering personal growth and self-acceptance. By engaging in safe, sane, and consensual practices, partners can build a strong foundation of trust and understanding, paving the way for transformative experiences that transcend the confines of conventional relationships. So, don’t be afraid to delve into the world of BDSM; embrace the complexities, explore your boundaries, and nurture a deeper sense of connection with your partner.

3. The Beauty of Sensory Deprivation

Sensory deprivation can enhance sensitivity, intensify pleasure, and increase mindfulness during intimate moments, leading to a profound sensory experience. In a world filled with constant stimuli, the art of sensory deprivation offers a unique opportunity to heighten awareness and focus on the sensations of the present moment. By limiting external distractions, individuals can delve into a state of heightened sensitivity, where even the slightest touch can send waves of pleasure through their being.

The beauty of sensory deprivation lies in its ability to create a cocoon of intimacy, where partners can connect on a profound level by immersing themselves in the sensory experience. By removing the distractions of sight, sound, and other stimuli, individuals are able to tap into their primal instincts and enhance their connection with each other. Sensory deprivation invites individuals to explore the depths of their desires and emotions, allowing for a more intimate and fulfilling sexual encounter.

4. Open Relationships: Honesty and Freedom from Sexual Taboo

This “sexual taboo” is definitely not for everyone! Be that as it may, many include it within our sexual repertoire to excellent results! To me, it boils down to more of a societal taboo. Be warned: It does require a huge unlearning process, if you’re conditioned for monogamy.

Non-monogamous relationships can provide opportunities for emotional growth, self-discovery, and the celebration of diverse forms of love and connection. The traditional view of relationships often limits the scope of love and intimacy to monogamous partnerships. By embracing non-monogamy, individuals can explore the fluidity of human connections. This allows for a deeper understanding of themselves and their capacity for love.

5. Sex Toys in the Bedroom

Integrating sex toys into your sexual repertoire can provide a lot of surprising benefits! They can enhance pleasure, improve sexual health, and encourage exploration of your own body and desires. The stigma surrounding sex toys as taboo or shameful has long inhibited individuals from exploring the vast landscape of pleasure they offer. However, incorporating sex toys into intimate encounters can lead to a deeper understanding of one’s body, preferences, and erogenous zones, enhancing the overall sexual experience.

The liberation of sex toys lies in their ability to ignite passion, creativity, and spontaneity in the bedroom, transforming routine encounters into exciting and experimental adventures. Whether used solo or with a partner, sex toys can open up new avenues of pleasure, stimulating both the body and the mind. By embracing the diverse functions and forms of sex toys, individuals can break free from societal taboos and embrace a more fulfilling and liberated sexual expression.

6. The Art of Dirty Talk

Engaging in dirty talk can heighten arousal, improve communication in the bedroom, and enhance intimacy by verbalizing desires and fantasies. The power of words in the realm of intimacy is profound, capable of evoking desire, building anticipation, and strengthening emotional bonds. Dirty talk offers a playful and exciting way to express fantasies and exercise consent. This expands intimacy, creating a shared language of intimacy between partners.

Start simple with telling them that you love how they feel. Let your creative juices flow!

7. Reclaiming Sexual Wellness Through Tantra

The essence of Tantra lies in its emphasis on presence, awareness, and intention during intimate moments, creating a space for deep emotional connection and profound pleasure. By incorporating Tantric practices into your sexual routine, you can tap into an expansive reservoir of sexual energy and connection, leading to a heightened sense of arousal and intimacy. Tantra invites individuals to explore the intersection of spirituality and sexuality, reclaiming sexual wellness as a sacred and transformative journey.

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Fire Play Kink Safety Guidelines: Igniting Desire While Dousing Danger

As you crave the thrill of fire play in the bedroom, it’s essential to prioritize safety above all. The tantalizing touch of flames can elevate your sexual experience, but it demands respect and caution. Before you indulge in this scorching passion, ensure you’re well-versed in the following safety guidelines.

Preparation is Key Clear your play area of any flammable materials, and keep a fire extinguisher nearby. Invest in a fire-resistant blanket or mat to protect your skin and surroundings. Choose a well-ventilated space to prevent inhaling toxic fumes.

The Right Tools for the Job Select fire play toys specifically designed for this purpose, such as fire wands or candles with a low flame. Never use household items, like lighters or matches, as they can be unpredictable and dangerous.

Consent and Communication Discuss boundaries and desires with your partner, ensuring you’re both comfortable with the level of intensity. Establish a safe word to halt the activity if needed.

Skin Safety Perform a patch test on a small area of skin to check for any adverse reactions to the heat or flames. Keep a bowl of water or a damp cloth nearby to cool down the skin if necessary.

Fire Handling Hold the flame at a safe distance from your skin, and never leave it unattended. Keep your hair tied back, and avoid wearing loose clothing that could catch fire.

Aftercare Once the play is complete, inspect your skin for any burns or irritation. Apply a soothing balm or cream to calm the skin, and engage in gentle, relaxing activities to unwind.

By following these safety guidelines, you’ll be able to indulge in the thrill of fire play while prioritizing your well-being. Remember, safety is the ultimate aphrodisiac.

If you want tips on the Fire Play Kink, Temperature play and more, check out our blog chock full of fun sex tips: Temperature Play Tips for the Beginner