Similar to the apple’s symbolic status in Christianity, Mango is a fruit with many stories surrounding its significance as a spiritual symbol within the Hindu religion. Except rather than sin, the sacred fruit is more strongly associated with love, pleasure, happiness and prosperity. 🥭

Hindu mythology is robust with stories that deserve to be told at a grand scale–at least as much as any others. In many of these spiritual stories and depictions, the mango holds a place of reverence, influencing the culture as a whole.

While highly regarded as the King of Fruits, the beloved drupe is highly celebrated throughout India and beloved the world over. As a Mexican-American, I am known to indulge in the succulent flesh of a perfectly ripe mango. Even just consuming it, is an erotic experience unto itself. This is a concept we will explore more deeply today, while uncovering religious concepts and more.

Regarded as a symbol of love, fertility and prosperity, the mango has transcended to become embody erotic pleasures, as enjoyed by the gods. And who wouldn’t want pleasure worthy of the gods?

Mythological Origins and Associations

The influence of the mango is quite apparent, when studying its influence on scriptures and folklore. The mango is native to the entirety of the India-Burma-Malaysia region, and thus is grown in abundance. In Hinduism, the fruit is considered extremely sacred, with many pieces of folklore and legends including the fruit. The mango is even mentioned in critical and ancient pieces of literature. Specifically it’s mentioned in the Ramayana and Mahabharata; these are epic poems, which are thousands of years old.

The mango tree itself was believed to be of divine origin, and associated with the Hindu God of Love and Desire, Kamadeva. Legends told of Kamadeva using the mango flower to create an intoxicating fragrance, which aroused the passions of the other deities. Kamadeva, similarly to Cupid, even employs a bow made from mango wood to ignite desire. 🔥

This association with Kamadeva links the mango to the concept of ‘Madhurya,’ or sweetness. This is a concept that extends beyond the taste of sweetness, encompassing love, beauty and bliss. And I think that’s beautiful.

Mangoes are so much more than. agesture of goodwill and love. When worshipping in temples, mangoes are offered to deities. This is a religious offering known as ‘prasadam’. As a sacred gift, it’s later distributed to devotees, so as not to waste the fruit.

Sharing this fruit with others is seen as fostering joy and spiritual fulfillment, beyond the erotic pleasures of the divine. Some may call it “sweet”. ☺️

Mango Hindu Religion – Rituals and Traditions

As we’ve covered so far, mango’s influence was not confined to the bounds of mythology. They have been seen in various rituals and traditions, like in weddings, as gifts bound in superstition, and as offerings to the gods. Mango leaves are also used in decorations, like garlands called “torans,” and to decorate the bride’s entrance to symbolize fertility and what she will bring to married life.

Mangoes are frequently seen throughout wedding ceremonies. In some cases, a bride may wear a mango leaf in her hair, which symbolizes fertility and sweetness. In some cases, newlyweds are fed mangoes to bless them with a passionate union, ifyouknowwhati’msayin.

Stories and Legends

There are many stories and legends I encountered, upon learning more about the fruit of desire. One of the more common legends involves the god Krishna, and his spiritually enduring romance with Radha. They have a bond that had endured since they were children, with the mango being a symbolic gesture between them. While they were not married, they were portrayed as a couple bound beyond the earthly realm.

As some of their stories foretold, Krishma was a mischievous and amorous boy. It was wait that he had playfully stolen mangoes to give to Radha, signifying his love and desire for her. The mango, thus, continues to appear as a symbol of their celestial romance, embodying the joy and ecstasy of love.

They’re even frequently portrayed under a mango tree, enjoying the joy of their bond together.

While there are dozens of tales, it’s impossible to cover them in a single blog post. If you’re interested in more mango storytelling, please comment on this post below!

On Mangoes and Pleasure – Let’s talk ‘Kama’

Kama is actually a really fascinating concept, unto itself, and it’s a small part of the overall eroticism of the mango itself. Also, it’s another concept I feel should be more widely promoted, as an eroticist. Be that as it may, you’re probably familiar with the Kama Sutra.

Kama itself is a reference to the aforementioned god of love, Kamadeva. Expanding upon kama as a concept is crucial in understanding the full connection between love and mangoes. ‘Kama’ is a term that is used to refer to creating desire.

Bear with me for a second–think of Kama like the present day art of thirst trapping. Broadly, kama refers to anything that may stimulate sensual desire, aesthetically or physically. This could be in the form of passions, pleasures, artforms, and beyond.

So, next time you feel a little more stimulated than usual, by that cutie on Insta? Kama, baby.

Have a Mango With Me

Going beyond the sweetness of mango, there is so much more to its sensual roots than the way it drips between your cleavage as you eat it (No? Just me?). That’s another blog, altogether.

There are over 1,000 varieties of mangoes–how many have you tried? This divine fruit is enjoyed around the world, in dozens of ways. Mango, a vessel of eroticism, is a fruit worthy of the gods–so that means it’s more than good enough for me.

While there are so many stories to be told, I’ll have to save that for yet another edition of Eros & Edibles–I couldn’t possibly contain it all in one post! Celebrate the Mango with me this Spring, and let me know if you learned anything on my social media!

Finding new sex toys is always fun, and I have had my eyes on the AAVibe Medusa for awhile! Today, I’m absolutely thrilled to share with you my latest find in the realm of pleasure-enhancing wonders—a sex toy that has surpassed all my expectations and redefined my solo sessions. Get ready to have some solo sessions where you enjoy pure estacy, while enjoying sensation from multiple pleasure points!

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Toy Description – AAVibe Medusa – 3-in-1 Tongue Thrusting Vibrator

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Key Features (directly from the manufacturer website)

• Triple Stimulation, hitting your Clitoris, G-spot, and the coveted A-spot!
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• Soft silicone for a realistic feel
• 10 different vibration modes
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First-Hand Use

When I first laid eyes on this magnificent piece of engineering, I’ll admit my skepticism. Having been let down by tongue toys in the past, I was preparing myself for another lackluster experience. But, oh how wrong I was! This little powerhouse is a gem among those in my collection!

The manufacturer has managed to harmoniously integrate four distinct features, 10 vibration modes, and a tongue that thrusts with a mind of its own. The function is crafted to hit all the right spots, and believe me, it delivers.

Upon first contact, the toy’s tongue-thrusting motion took me by surprise. It’s as if it knew exactly where to hit. Combine this with the varied vibration modes, and you’ve got a symphony of sensations that dance together your most sensitive areas. The licking feature? It’s pure vibration, like any other rabbit vibrator. It does feel quite nice, but the real pleasure is in the penetration.

The tongue action is realistic and persistent, but I have yet to find a toy that truly delivers the experience of a real, skileld partner. This is still acceptably powerful and pleasurable! The fact that it is waterproof means that playtime can happen anywhere. Post-use clean-up is easy, ensuring that maintenance doesn’t become a chore.

Stay sexy, stay satisfied, and as always, keep exploring the heights of your own pleasure.

Wanna break out of your shell? Are you tired of playing it safe and suppressing your inner sass? Do you want to tap into your inner seductress and manifest a life that’s full of passion, power, and pleasure? Then it’s time to help you find your inner Jezebel. Let’s talk about how to create a vision board, to grow your fierce sensuality.

Who was Jezebel, anyway?

Jezebel was a biblical bad girl, known for her fierce independence, her love of luxury, and her unapologetic sensuality. She was a queen who refused to conform to societal norms, and instead, forged her own path. And that’s exactly what we’re going to tap into with this vision board – your inner Jezebel, the one who’s not afraid to take risks, to be bold, and to demand what she wants. Perhaps I should cover Jezebel in the next edition of Lust & Lore? Let me know in the comments!

Why Do I Need a Vision Board?

Wild women shouldn’t be tamed. As a huge fan of wild women, myself, I knew I wanted to be one. In a world that often tries to tame our wildness and stifle our desires, a vision board is a powerful tool to help you reclaim your inner Jezebel. If you’re a visual person, it helps you get clear on your vision.

A vision board is a visual representation of your desires–a collage of images, words, and textures that evoke feelings and emotions. By creating a vision board, you’re taking ownership of your outcomes. For this one, we are going to focus on your sensuality, celebrating your uniqueness, and manifesting a life that honors your deepest desires.

If nothing else, it’s a way to get a clear vision of what you want to be, or what you want to do. Sometimes we don’t know what we want, until we put it together and see it for ourselves!

How to Create a Vision Board to Find Your Inner Jezebel

Gather your materials:

• A large piece of cardboard, paper, or canvas
• Magazines, scissors, and glue
• Markers, paint, or colored pencils
• Photographs, fabrics, and other textures
• Any personal items that hold significance to your sensuality (e.g., a piece of lingerie, a rose petal, or a love letter)

Set Your Intention

Find a quiet, comfortable space where you can relax and tap into your inner world. Take a few deep breaths, and ask yourself: “What does my inner Jezebel look like? What does she want, and what does she deserve?” Allow your thoughts to flow, and write down your intentions.

Gather Your Inspiration

Flip through magazines, and cut out images that evoke feelings of sass, seduction, and empowerment. These can be images of strong women, luxurious settings, or sensual art. Collect words and phrases that resonate with your intentions, such as “unstoppable,” “fearless,” or “unapologetic.”

Create Your Vision Board

Begin arranging your images, words, and textures on your board. Group similar themes together, or create a flowing narrative that tells the story of your inner Jezebel’s journey. Add personal items that hold significance to your sensuality, and don’t be afraid to get creative with colors, shapes, and patterns.

Activate Your Board

Hang your vision board in a place where you’ll see it daily, such as your bedroom or meditation space. Take a few moments each day to gaze at your board, allowing the images and words to sink deep into your subconscious. Repeat your intentions out loud, and feel the energy of your inner Jezebel manifesting in your life.

Tips and Variations

• Create a digital vision board on Pinterest or Canva, and set it as your phone’s wallpaper or computer background.
• Invite friends over for a vision board party, and explore each other’s inner Jezebels.
• Update your vision board seasonally, reflecting your growth and evolution as a sensual being.

A vision board is a powerful tool to connect with your inner Jezebel, to manifest your desires, and to celebrate your unique sensuality. By embracing your inner Jezebel, you’re not only becoming the best version of yourself, but you’re also contributing to a world that honors and celebrates women’s power and sensuality. So, take the first step, and create a vision board today.

Welcome to Peach Kisser Sex Stories! We feature lesbian sex stories and so much more. Sweet Sapphic Sundaes is from the first person perspective, that unveils a romantic connection between two close friends. They fall into each other over Ice Cream Sundaes on a warm afternoon, and make their connection a bit sweeter. No ice cream required!

Sweet Sapphic Sundaes

Summer leads to laziness, as we avoid the heat of the sun. It was a long afternoon, and I was watching the sun drop lower in the sky, slowly hanging back to offer us it’s golden hues and I felt like I needed a little company today.

I had invited my friend Anna over to my place. I loved Anna. We’ve been friends for decades, with closeness that has long outlived any of our great loves. I haven’t seen her lately, and so I thought I’d invite her over for some ice cream. It’s warm, and I am wary of the “Sunday Scaries”, and am not ready to let the weekend go. I desperately needed company, and I thought we should have a little catch-up sesh, over ice cream.

Picking Up Where We Left Off

We always picked up where we left off, having been friends for so long. We’ve bonded over lost loves and pets. I’ve been stressed out at work, and miss having company. As Anna walked in, golden hour struck. Suddenly, my world was illuminated with her presence, and I watched as her beauty unfolded. How could you not admire her long, kinky curls glistening in the sunlight? She grinned her infections grin, and giggled her salacious giggle as I had always come to enjoy.

We’d long been accused of flirting. We greeted each other with a warm hug,and she embraced me deeply. Excited at her arrival–not quite processing her energy–I led her into the kitchen where I had already crafted my ideal ice cream bar! I had several ice cream flavors and toppings splayed out on the counter. This was a sweet masterpiece I was more than ready to create.

We began with our usual pleasantries as we giggled together, choosing our favorite toppings and hunger in our eyes. I went for good ol’ vanilla ice cream, with whipped cream and a generous scoop of hot fudge. She didn’t seem to have much organization with hers, topping strawberry ice cream with marshmallow fluff, oreo cookies, and caramel sauce.

“And you, my dear, need a cherry on top,” Anna said with a grin, as she topped our sundaes, each with a single cherry.

My kitchen was made warm, not by the heat of the Summer, but with our wild laughter as we teased each other.

As we sat at my kitchen bar, Anna’s demeanor shifted subtly. She smiled, but her energy was off. Her usual giggle-filled self seemed more contemplative than usual. I looked over to her with concern, and saw her visibly shudder.

“I have something to tell you,” she said, clearing her throat. Oh, god. What could she possibly have to say?! I felt the fear of anticipation bubbling up in my throat, as I waited for her to continue. “I decided that I would take this chance to make a confession: I have feelings for you. Real ones.”

The admission made the air thick. This was not something I anticipated, but I continued to process her words. Anna had feelings for me? The revelation struck me right in the chest. In my shock, I felt… a surprisingly welcome desire I didn’t realize laid beneath the surface.

I froze, stunned. Thank goodness she waited, between bites. I would have surely choked. Anna began searching my face for any positive sign. I didn’t have time to think, and time was moving so quickly. Or was it slow? I couldn’t tell. In a flurry of surprise emotions, I pressed my lips to hers.

The floodgates are open. She kisses back.

I feel my body full with pulsing joy. Our kisses became more and more impassioned, as we pulled each other closer. For the first time, I’m feeling her curves. I didn’t even know how much I was anticipating this moment.

We were suddenly more eager for each other than our ice cream. As it melted, we continued to melt into each other’s arms, enjoying the feel of intimacy we’ve never had before.

In a fit of passion, Anna reached for the chocolate sauce, and drizzled some upon her fingers. She slid her finger into my mouth, and asked, “would you like another taste?” I nodded, silently. Anna gave me another fingerful of chocolate, and something primal in me took over. I grabbed the bottle myself, as I raised her shirt over her head. That’s right, she never did wear a bra… I was now faced with her luscious breasts, with her nipples fully erect.

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“Are we really doing this?” I ask. Anna nodded with that wild grin, and giggled her sexy giggle before she kissed me deeply. She looked at me with a challenge in her eyes, as I playfully drizzled a little chocolate onto her chest.

“We might as well finish what we started, “ I say. The chocolate streamed between Anna’s breasts, highlighting her pale skin. I lapped it up gently. The taste of the rich, sweet sauce mingled with the saltiness of her skin, driving me wild with desire. I traced her skin with my tongue, finishing with a kiss as she began slipping off my top. lesbian sex stories

I sank to my knees in front of her, slipping off my bra to bare my breasts to her. She smiles as my heart beats faster. Anna moaned softly, her fingers threading through my hair as she urged me on.

As our sundaes melted, we frantically moved to the living room. We laid down upon the blankets in my plush couch, the world around us fading into insignificance. There was nothing more important than this, in this moment, as we lost ourselves. lesbian sex stories

Anna’s hands explored my body, sending warm sensations through my body. I reciprocated, my fingers tracing the contours of her body. We finished undressing each other, finally naked and in each other’s arms.

Since I have never seen her nude, I was in awe. I was struck by each curve and her perfect, puffy nipples. Anna was a vision, her body a new place to explore, with peaks and valleys destined to be savored. I worshipped her with my mouth and hands, engulfing her nipples in my mouth, as our desire grew.

She guided me on top of her, our bodies folding into each other perfectly. I reached between her legs, feeling her heat making my desire grow even further. I plunged my fingers into her wetness, kissing her as she joyfully gasped into my mouth.

We melded together, bodies in sync and passions flowing.

All I felt was Anna. All I could hear was Anna. We moved in sync, as she cried out with pleasure, slightly echoing in the room. Her body pulsed beneath me, as she surrendered to pleasure in my hands.

As we reached the peak, our bodies shuddered with pleasure. I made sure she came right into my hands, dripping with her ever flowing juices. This exploration of seeing Anna in a new light created swelling inside of me. I delighted in the euphoria of this newfound pleasure; I could see colors! It was as if we became enveloped in cosmic joy as we reached orgasm.

My beautiful Anna, naked in front of me and writhing with pleasure. As she released, I slipped my lips over her fully erect nipples making her cry out with glee, and a little giggle. She took a deep sigh and her body relaxed in my arms, chocolate stains and all.

Hungover with pleasure…

Anna looked at me, her eyes still filled with bold desire. “Shower with me?” she asked, her voice husky and charming, singing to me like a viola.

I nodded, unable to use my voice. We made our way to my shower, holding hands. We still hadn’t gotten off the orgasmic high, the pure newness of it all. I turned on the shower and led her in. We washed each other gently, removing the last bits of chocolate from our adventurous play.

As we stood there, our bodies pressed together, I thought to myself that Anna is now mine. This is something to be cared for, and to find joy and pleasure within. Anna and I had crossed a threshold, morphing our friendship into something far more expansive. Something beyond us, that we could nurture and grow. lesbian sex stories

We make our way out of the shower, and find each other’s bodies again. Now fresh and clean, I lead her to my bedroom to rest. By now, it’s already evening and growing later. Anna’s head is resting on my chest. Our ice cream sundaes might have melted into oblivion, and my “Sunday Scaries” disappeared into an extremely welcome, sticky mess. With a cherry on top.

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After writing my last Eros & Edibles piece on Chocolate as an Aphrodisiac, I was left with more questions about how chocolate came to be so heavily associated with sexual appetite and lust. Why is Chocolate Romantic and so associated with Sex and Love? Well, the answer isn’t quite as simple as you may expect!

While elbow deep in chocolate-knowledge, I discovered so many things I didn’t include in that article, because it simply didn’t fit. There are so many more interesting and unique facts surrounding chocolate’s sensual reputation, extending far back to the days when ancient civilizations thrived in Mesoamerica. 

As a Hispanic woman, I am quite familiar with the allure of the decadent treat. Mexican Hot Chocolate, adorned with the taste of cinnamon and ancho chiles, is a result of the deeply and spiritually rooted flavors that come from a plant that was once considered sacred.

Chocolate: From Bitter Water to Erotic Elixir

Chocolate is one food that people look at you as if you spouted an extra limb if you say you “don’t like” it. What’s wrong with you? Have you only had Hershey’s or something–it tastes like vomit! Chocolate has long enchanted each populatio throughout the ages, with its unctuous and silky texture; the result of processing invented by ancient civilizations.

Discovering the erotic and spiritual roots of this now ubiquitous treat has fostered more fascination in me, beyond just the libido boosting benefits. This is a discovery and celebration of the roots of “xocolatl”–or “bitter water”–better known today as Chocolate!

Where Does Chocolate Come From?

Chocolate is deeply rich and silky, tantalizing the tastebuds and leaving us with a high level of satisfaction for a number of reasons. However, this treat has an extensive ancient history.

Chocolate originated in Mesoamerica over 4000 years ago, and was first turned into a drink by the Olmecs of Mesoamerica. Their bitter brew, made with cacao beans they processed themselves, was a revelation to ancient societies. Not only for its incomparable flavor, but for the symbolism in which cacao was bestowed upon these civilizations.

These Mesoamerican civilizations held chocolate, known to them as “xocolatl,” in high regard. They recognized its potential to elevate mood and incite desire, as they sipped upon this sacred liquid.

How was Xocolatl Used?

The Aztecs and the Mayans were particularly famous for their xocolatl rituals. They believed this was a gift from divinity. Consumption of xocolatl was usually reserved for nobility, and served also in religious ceremonies and weddings, where lower classes were also able to enjoy the sacred elixir. 

Cacao was Considered Divine

The Mayans held chocolate in a high regard, and called it the “Drink of the Gods”. Mayans poured this mixture from one pot to another, creating a thick foamy beverage called “xocolatl”, meaning “bitter water.” Mayan chocolate was a revered brew made of roasted and ground cacao seeds mixed with chilies, water and cornmeal.

This bitter water was so much more than a beverage. This was a gift from the gods, and they believed that this plant had medicinal qualities, contributing to energy levels through compounds such as theobromine, They saw it not merely as a beverage but as a gift from feathered-serpent deity Quetzalcoatl, bestowing vitality and passion upon those who partook in its divine essence

Quetzalcoatl is a Toltec name for a Mesoamerican God who represented a variety of pleasures they enjoyed, including salubrious health, love, sex, food, and general agriculture.  

In addition to the civilizations that came before them, the Aztecs adopted the idea from the Maya, that cacao was a god-given fruit. They used cacao beans as a commodity, considering them as valuable as Spaniards saw Gold. Additionally, they followed the tradition of preparing chocolate as a drink in rich cultural rituals, and were particularly entranced by chocolate’s libido enhancement properties. 

Who Brought Chocolate To Europe?

The enchantment of chocolate has captivated the human palate for centuries, and it’s only grown ever since it expanded beyond its Mesoamerican roots. These days, what was once viewed as a luxury, and as valuable as gold, is now available for a couple of bucks at your local convenience store.

Chocolate made its way to Spain via means of the explorer Hernán Cortés, who was searching for gold. He was surprised to be presented with an abundance of cacao beans. 

Chocolate: From Currency to a Commodity

When Cortes came to meet with the Aztecs, he was on a conquest for gold. Evidently, he was shown cacao beans instead. This is a testament to the value the Mayans–and subsequently the Aztecs–placed on cacao. Cacao was used as currency, as well as a sacred drink for rituals and extravagant events.

Initially Spaniards didn’t think much of cacao. Mixing these ground beans with chiles and corn masa was not too pleasing to the European palate. 

Eventually, Spaniards began drinking chocolate with some changes; imparting sweetness to please their palates. Spanish monks were the first to add sugar to chocolate, creating something far more similar to the hot chocolate we drink today. 

Chocolate was served as a beverage to noble people in Spain, adorned with occasional spices such as cinnamon, instead of the chile peppers and corn masa that were traditionally used by Native Mesoamericans. 

In Spain, their unique take on the original unsweetened beverage was served to nobility, and prized as a special secret of the Spanish. It was 100 years before Chocolate was brought to other countries.

Nowadays, you can still find it prepared similarly in the form of Champurrado. This corn-masa thickened drink is sweetened with ingredients like piloncillo and cinnamon, providing a uniquely Mexican experience. 

How Chocolate Became So Sexy

Montezuma II, the Aztec emperor, was probably the greatest testament to chocolate’s erotic reputation. The emperor enjoyed this beverage so much, he even served xocolatl to Spanish explorers in 1519, who were considered honored guests. 

While chocolate was considered medicinal for many reasons, Montezuma prized his favorite drink for enhancing his sexual performance. It was said that the emperor consumed copious amounts of this frothy, bitter concoction to heighten his virility and stamina. As such, he was said to consume up to 50 cups of the divine liquid – daily! The ruler especially made sure to imbibe this stimulating tonic before getting buck wild in his personal harem. 

The emperor’s legendary consumption of chocolate specifically for his romantic exploits underscored its status as a divine aphrodisiac. The belief in its ability to inflame the senses and invigorate the body was so strong that cacao beans were even used as currency, a tangible measure of value and desire.

Preparation of Chocolate or Xocolatl

The preparation of xocolatl was a ritual in itself. This took a meticulous process that involved roasting and grinding cacao beans into a paste. This paste was then mixed with water and spices, along with nixtamalized cornmeal for thickening. This ancient, labor-intensive method produced a concoction that  had undeniable, potent effects on the mind and body. However, it was also far removed from the sugary sweetness of modern chocolate.

The frothy beverage, often spiced with chili peppers and vanilla, was a complex blend of bitterness and heat. Xocolatl was a a sensory experience that stimulated passion in the brain. This was especially powerful when combined with the effects of spiritual rituals. 

As the bitter liquid coursed through the veins of its consumers, it was believed to trigger the release of mood-enhancing chemicals within the brain. 

How Does Chocolate Stimulate the Brain?

Phenylethylamine is a compound found in chocolate. This compound is known to stimulate the same neurological pathways as falling in love or experiencing intense attraction. 

Anandamide, another compound, induces a state of bliss, its name derived from the Sanskrit word for joy or delight. These scientific findings lend at least some credence to chocolate’s sexy reputation.

So when I say a decadent chocolate cake tastes like “love,” I most certainly mean it.

Even modern day chocolate can prove to be a multi-sensory experience! While it may be sweet, sometimes cloyingly so, it also provides savory undertones to satisfy all senses of your palate. Now you know–a taste of this treat has the power to evoke the most delicious cocktail of brain chemicals!

Today, chocolate remains a symbol of romance and pleasure. Somehow, throughout the trials of time, the decadent treat still proves it’s a true descendant of the sacred xocolatl. While the recipe has evolved to suit sweeter tastes, the essence of chocolate’s allure persists. Chocolate continues to be a universal language of love, a key to unlocking desire, and always proves to be the perfect romantic gift.

Experience the enduring power of ancient wisdom, yourself, this Valentine’s Day. Enjoy a bite or three, before you seal the deal! 💋 

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Welcome to the second volume of Pleasure Principles, the second Volume to my How To Masturbate series for those that own vaginas! Check out the first edition Pleasure Principles: Vol. 1 – Intro To The Vulva & Vagina here.

In this edition, we’ll cover the basics of sex toys. We’ll cover everything from nipple stimulators, dildos, bullets, vibrators, and clitoral suckers to get you started on your way to self-pleasure, without use of your own hands.

We’ll discuss the safest ways to use toys, how to keep them clean, and provide tips for maintaining discretion.

I’ll hold your hand. Let’s just call it “Mutual Masturbation”.

Pleasure Principles: Volume II – A Guide to Sex Toys for Vulvas and Vaginas

Nipple Stimulation

Nipple stimulators are a fantastic way to enhance your solo play sessions, with something a little atypical of many users when they learn how to masturbate. These toys work by providing intense and focused stimulation to your nipples. Here are some popular types and tips for using them safely:

• Nipple Clamps: These come in various styles, from simple clips to adjustable screw clamps. Start with beginner-friendly options and gradually explore more intense ones as you become accustomed to the sensation.These are also excellent for partner play, but that’s another blog!
• Suction Cups: These create a vacuum-like suction around your nipples, increasing blood flow and sensitivity.
• Vibrating Nipple Toys: These combine vibration with clamps or suction cups for added pleasure.

Safe Use and Cleaning:

• Always start with clean toys and hands.
• Apply a small amount of lube to the nipple area to enhance sensation and reduce friction.
• Begin with gentle pressure and gradually increase intensity as desired.
• Clean your toys after each use with warm water and mild soap or a toy cleaner.
• Store them in a cool, dry place, away from direct sunlight.

How to Masturbate with Dildos

Dildos are classic sex toys designed for penetrative pleasure. In this section, we are specifically discussing the type of dildo that is manual, requiring use of your own hand to thrust them inside of yourself. This gives you a great chance to get truly intimate with yourself and see what you REALLY like. Dildos come in various shapes, sizes, and materials to cater to different preferences. There are even thrusting dildos, themed, and vibrating toys to choose from!

Here’s how to use them safely and effectively:

• Materials: Choose body-safe materials like silicone, glass, or stainless steel.
• Sizes: Start with smaller sizes and gradually work your way up if you must! It takes time to decide what you really like.
• Lubrication: Always use a generous amount of water-based lube for smoother penetration.

Safe Use and Cleaning:

• Wash your dildo with warm water and mild soap before and after each use.
• Dry it thoroughly to prevent mold and bacteria growth.
• Store it in a clean, dry place, preferably in a toy bag or container.

Bullets and Vibrators

Bullets and vibrators are versatile toys that can be used for both clitoral and internal stimulation, depending on the type you purchase. Tip: If you purchase a bullet vibrator and want to experience the fun sensations inside of yourself without risk, put the toy inside of a condom. That will make it easier to pull out when you’re finished! Keep yourself our of the ER. 👀

Vibrators come in various shapes and sizes, with different vibration settings to cater to different preferences. I recommend choosing one with a variety of settings, to increase versatility in your experience.

Types of Vibrators:

• Bullets: Small and discreet, perfect for targeted clitoral stimulation.
• Vibrators: Larger and more versatile, suitable for both internal and external use.
• Dildo: In the shape of a dildo, but battery-powered to vibrate on command while you use it to thrust.

Safe Use and Cleaning:

• Always use a water-based lube for comfort and enhanced sensation.
• Wash your toy with warm water and mild soap after each use.
• Store it in a clean, dry place, away from direct sunlight.

Clitoral Suckers

Ah yes, my personal favorite of the bunch! Clitoral suckers use suction and vibration to provide intense clitoral stimulation. They are designed to mimic the sensation of oral sex and really amplify solo fun with new sensations you don’t usually get on your own. Choose from handheld devices or wearable options for hands-free pleasure, to choose how to masturbate. There aren’t too many variants of this toy, other than some being enabled for fully hands-free fun! Choose a model that has divverent vibration and suction settings to find your perfect rhythm.!

Make sure to check out my sex toy reviews for some of my favorite clitoral suckers.

Safe Use and Cleaning:

• Apply a small amount of water-based lube to the clitoral area for comfort and enhanced sensation.
• Wash your toy with warm water and mild soap after each use.
• Store it in a clean, dry place, away from direct sunlight.

Tips for Discretion

Maintaining privacy and discretion is essential when exploring yourself, intimately.. Here are some tips to help you keep your play sessions private:

• Soundproofing: Choose a toy that has positive reviews for sound, or go with a manual toy. Use a blanket, pillow, or towel to muffle any sounds that may emanate from your own pleasure.
• Storage: Store your toys in a discreet, locked drawer or container.
• Timing: Choose a time when you’re unlikely to be interrupted, just as you might for a meditation session. After all, orgasms are spiritual events. 😇

We hope that by understanding the basics of different types of toys and learning how to masturbate safely can go a long way in your personal self-love sessions. Stay safe, stay clean, and enjoy all the good vibrations you’ll most certainly have cumming!

With Love,

Amara

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Welcome to another edition of “Beyond the DD,” where I discuss my “Big Boob Problems” from my real life experience of having actual big boobs! This is mostly just for funsies, because I am well-aware that having larger breasts is often seen as desirable. As with many desirable things; it ain’t all it’s cracked up to be!

In Part 1 of this series, I discussed how I even inherited such a pair. In addition, I covered my range of sizes, having been all the way up to 42K at one point! Throughout my experiences, I learned much about how bra sizes work (Thank you, ABTF), and how to manage the logistics around having these two things strapped to my chest at all times.

Beyond the DD, Part 2 – Avert Your Eyes

Today, we’re discussing how much I wish people could Avert Their Eyes! 😆 If you’re a fellow busty woman, you know that bouncing boobs don’t just occur all the time. Perhaps those big mommy milkers truly ARE a marvel! Or perhaps some folks simply have not seen boobs that big before, in person.

In reality, I am somewhat small in stature, with a curvy physique. There really is no point in hammering out the reasons. The point is that it happens, and it can get quite uncomfortable at times.

Big Boob Problems – Invasive Staring

As a busty woman, I have learned to at least appear as if I have tunnel vision. It keeps me out of trouble, and keeps me from making unwanted eye contact. While I may appear aloof, trust–I am paying attention!

Be that as it may, some people truly are not as sly as they seem to think.

Men with girlfriends? You’re not slick. If your girl didn’t see you, I sure did. So does anyone I am with, including friends and romantic partners.

Have you ever had a flock of teenage boys trying to sneak a peek on the sly? Look, virgins. There are 10 of you. You look ridiculous.

Unfortunately, you have to have some level of awareness when you’re in public, as a woman. If you don’t think we’re picking up on something, most of us definitely are. Like the man I caught getting video of me at Target! 🫠

No, I Don’t Always Want to Be Perceived

On occasion, I have been known to drop a thirst trap.

However, that’s me in control of the perception. I am making a choice at that moment to be perceived in a certain way. As an introverted and mildly misanthropic person, I very likely do not want to talk to strangers. Sometimes I am in a sociable mood, and am more receptive to public attention.

These are the times when I’m dressed in line with how I want to be perceived. Though, sometimes, I wish people would just leave me alone. Then I may not feel as if I have to dress in shapeless clothes, just to avoid unwanted attention when I go to the store to pick some avocados.

Perhaps I should wear a sign!

Ain’t My Fault They’re Big

A few years ago I saw a woman online, annoyed that someone asked her to cover up. This woman was well-endowed, and was justifiably upset that someone wasn’t minding her damn business. She said, “it ain’t my fault my titties are big!”

While there may be admirers, there are also plenty of haters. If I do choose to show off what I’ve got, that’s my choice to make. Receiving hate for it is just as much of a struggle, because *I* didn’t make this choice. These BIG NATTYS came on their own, baby.

Finding My Peace

Be that as it may, these are not things I can help, in others. Just as much as they cannot help that I have big honkin’ juicy mommy milkers.

We cannot expect strangers to know and understand our boundaries. We can only do what makes us feel comfortable in any given moment, regardless of what’s happening around us. Acceptance is all about learning what you can and cannot control.

They’re exhibiting their nature. They can help how they are, but sometimes we just have to accept that some people will always be who they are and there’s nothing you can do about it.

Have you had issues accepting your body, for better or worse? Do you have Big Boob Problems? Or maybe you just like huge boobs! Let me know in the comments!

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If you’ve never been introduced, we think you could use an introduction with some fun Temperature Play tips! As an ever-curious person, I can testify to the allure, but I also feel like it’s a very “safe” and “vanilla” way to dabble in enhanced, sensual play and BDSM. If you’re new to kinkier concepts, maybe consider first that BDSM is a wide spectrum of activities that don’t necessarily involve whips and chains– but that’s another blog post!

Pleasure and pain has been likely the most mainstream aspect of BDSM. While I won’t be diving into the spectrum of what that covers, today we’re only discussing a singular aspect that can be used in multiple ways to achieve new heights of pleasure, new sensations and create some enjoyable intimacy. The book Hurts So Good: The Science and Culture of Pain on Purpose explores even the more casual ways humans engage in masochism (the M of BDSM, from tattoos to even people who eat insanely spicy food, on purpose.

Temperature play doesn’t even have to cause pain. It can be as simple as kissing someone’s back with cold lips, or adding a chilling sensation to another body part.

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What is Temperature Play?

If you came up groomed as a hetero female, you’ve probably heard the Cosmo-derived advice of, “suck on an ice cube before you go down”. Look, they’re barely even capable of using the word “penis,” but they’re onto something.

No one ever said that there isn’t such a thing as light BDSM, and realistically, that is anything outside of traditional, analog sex. The reality is, it can be fun way to spice things up. BDSM is your friend, even in a “vanilla” relationship”.

It can be as delicate or as masochistic as you want, especially when play involves heat.

Temperature Play Ideas

Some fun temperature play ideas that go beyond the typical can be fun experimentation, and can be as tame as you desire. The term “Temperature Play” is pretty broad, and usually encompasses the application of heat or cold, in the bedroom. Today, we’ll cover a few forms, to give you some ideas for the next time you’re in need of a little experimentation!

But first– let’s discuss a little bit of safety. You should be prepared for any potential burns, and make sure you aren’t removing ice directly from the freezer to produce sensations in your partner or yourself. Ice and Heat can damage the skin, so please take these safety considerations into account when you engage in temperature play for the first time.

Have something on hand to reverse whatever you’re doing. For example, keep cool water nearby for heat, or warming blankets and pads near for cold play. Make sure safety is at the top of mind, when engaging in this or any BDSM play. Utilize safe words if it helps you and your partner feel more comfortable, during your playtime.

At the end of the day, you are responsible for your and your partner’s safety, along with their consent. Now, let’s get down to the good stuff!

Ice/Cold Play Tips

Ice Play is often where many people begin, and can encompass a lot of action. Be wary of cold burns, and keep warming items on hand, should your partner need them. Warm water, towels, and blankets make for excellent accompaniments. You can incorporate ice/cold play in the following ways:

• Freeze a Glass Dildo for Insertion, or other sex toys
• Ice Cubes for melting on your partner’s nipples, skin, and other erogenous zones.
• Ice cubes to cool your mouth before oral stimulation
• Let an ice cube melt in their belly button
• Use to increase sensations on your partner’s body before performing upon them.
• Use Cold Food to lap up, from your partner’s body
• Induce pain, with pleasure. Responsibly.

Fire/Heat Play Tips

This is a fairly common kink. Personally, my first exposure to this was in the music video to Ricky’s Martin’s 1999 smash hit, “Livin’ la Vida Loca”. Anyone else remember that? Just me? Okay then.

Again, keep your partner’s safety in mind. Make sure you know how to treat a burn (both hot and cold) as accidents do happen. Here are some Fire Play Safety Tips, but here are some fun ways to play with varying degrees of heat in the mean time!

• Hot Towels
• Warming Massages
• Warming a glass or stainless steel sex toys
• Wax Play / Candle Wax (tip, do not use just any candle wax. There are candles manufactured for the explicit purpose of temperature play.)
• Carefully playing with fire, near or directly onto a person’s skin. Responsibly.
• Use of Topicals – Massage Oils, etc.

Some experts may recommend topicals which contain compounds like capsaicin. While topicals like this can provide unique sensations, it’s important to note that they can damage and burn skin. Maybe one day I’ll regale you with a story about accidental temperature play and capsaicin ointment, but that’s… another blog. 🙈 On that note, I’ll leave you with one last temperature play tip:

Capsaicin is best removed from the skin with dish soap.

It’s Playtime!

As always, any form of kink or BDSM must be approached with consent and a detailed discussion about personal limits and desires. If you’re looking for more specific Temperature Play Tips, please feel free to reach out to me on Twitter/X, or comment on the blog below!

Listen to your partner, play wisely and safely, and you’ll have something fun to incorporate into your routine whenever you’d like!

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Some of us may have been conditioned to see getting messy as something undesirable. However, sometimes, with some people, it brings the most orgasmic of joys! Sploshing is the joy we speak of today, and all the delicious and wild ways it can be practiced, enjoyed, and expressed.

Today we’re giving you a primer on the uniquely messy fetish. This fascinating fetish involves getting messy, covered in substances like food, paint, or even mud, while enjoying the sensations involved. Whether you’re simply curious or ready to experiment, I serve to give you a primer of all things Sploshing–exploring its different types, how people practice it, and even some sexy tips for those curious about trying it out themselves.

Types of Sploshing

Sploshing is a term that actually encompasses a number of activities. Each activity is unique in its own right, but some may be more appealing to you than others.

Some of the most popular types include:

• WAM (Wet and Messy): This involves getting covered in wet, gooey substances like mud, paint, or even food. This is the most popular form.
• Sploshing, specifically with Food: Think pies, cakes, and other sweet treats. Combined with Sitophilia!
• Slime: For those who love a good squelch, slime sploshing is the way to go. This type of sploshing involves using homemade or store-bought slime to create a messy, tactile experience. You can easily find them on Instagram!
• Muddy: Getting down and dirty in mud is perfect for those who love the great outdoors!

Whatever the approach, the key to truly enjoying this kink is embracing the mess and letting go of inhibitions. Some individuals prefer to engage in solo sessions, using substances like paint or slime to create a messy, sensory experience. Others may engage in group sessions, where multiple people get together to create a wild scene!

There is truly no singular way to enjoy this naughty and stimulating activity! Sometimes, practitioners take inspiration from other fetishes and BDSM practices, a chosen substance may be used as a form of domination or stimulation.

How to Try Sploshing

Feeling intrigued? There’s no harm in trying by yourself, to see how a solo session feels. Here are a few tips to get you started:

• Start Small: Begin with a small, controlled environment, like a bathroom or designated play area. Somewhere you can be undisturbed and comfortable.
• Control the Mess, at First: Sometimes controlling the mess is helpful for some beginners! This will help you get comfortable with the idea of getting messy. Either line your playspace with clear plastic (cheap shower curtains work great!) or get a kiddie pool!
• Then, Embrace the Mess: Remember, sploshing is all about embracing the messy, sensory experience.
• Choose Your Substance: Select a substance that resonates with you, whether it’s paint, slime, or even food. Experiment with different textures and sensations, as well!
• Communicate with Partners: If you’re engaging with a partner, make sure to communicate clearly about boundaries, desires, or any safety concerns.

Is this something you’re interested in exploring? This unique, fascinating fetish can create a world of fun. Whether you engage in solo play or with a partner, we hope these tips helped give you a good primer of what to think about.

Don’t forget to let me know in the comments, or on social media, what you thought! Plus, I’m more than happy to explore new topics all the time. Send your suggestions to me on social media!

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In the realms of human expression, few things can rival the raw sensuality and emotional depth of movement and dance leading us to explore the world of Sensual Movement. When we allow our bodies to flow with intention and passion, we tap into a world of self-expression, empowerment, and unbridled sensuality. Today I want to explore the world of sensual movement and dance with you, exploring how these ancient art forms can become a potent tool for self-discovery, intimacy, and seduction.

Even if it’s as simple as dancing naked in your shower, it can get the job done! 😜

The Language of the Body

Sensual movement and dance are more than just physical actions – they are a language that speaks directly to our souls. By surrendering to the rhythm of our bodies, we can convey emotions, desires, and intentions in a way that transcends words. This primal form of communication awakens our senses, igniting a deep connection with ourselves and those around us.

Embracing Sensual Movement

Sensual movement is not about perfection; it’s about embracing our imperfections and celebrating our uniqueness. It’s about letting go of inhibitions and allowing our bodies to express the full spectrum of human emotion. As we move, we tap into our inner sensuality, unleashing a cascade of feelings, desires, and sensations that can be both liberating and intoxicating.

The Art of Seduction

Sensual movement and dance can be a powerful tool for seduction, not just in the bedroom, but in everyday life. By owning our bodies and expressing our desires through movement, we become irresistible magnets, drawing others into our orbit. This is not about manipulation; it’s about embracing our authentic selves and sharing that energy with the world.

Finding Your Inner Rhythm

So, how do you tap into the world of sensual movement and dance? The answer is simple: start moving. Put on some music that speaks to your soul, and let your body respond. Don’t worry about technique or perfection – focus on the sensations, emotions, and desires that arise as you move. As you surrender to the rhythm of your body, you’ll unlock a world of self-expression, sensuality, and empowerment.

In the words of the great dancer, Martha Graham, “Movement never lies.” As we embrace the power of sensual movement and dance, we’ll discover that our bodies hold the secrets to our deepest desires, and that the language of movement is the most honest, raw, and seductive of them all.

Sensual movement and dance are not just forms of self-expression; they’re gateways to a world of intimacy, connection, and seduction. By embracing our bodies and unleashing our inner rhythm, we’ll tap into a power that’s both primal and transcendent. So, take the first step – let your body speak, and watch as the world responds to your self-love and self-care.

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